Baconheads 437 Posted July 30, 2016 Since getting together with my girlfriend, and actually meeting other couples and playing with them, I am always doing a self check just to make sure I'm not getting "swing happy.". And yes I have been guilty of that. So we usually go to the local swingers club like every other time we head into the big city. What is swing happy you ask? To me that would be playing when maybe the attraction isn't totally there, going to the club after a night with vanilla friends when it's clearly too late. I just don't want her to think that I'm with her just to swing. I want her to feel that swinging is the icing on the cake and not the whole relationship. Quote Share this post Link to post
luv2was 117 Posted August 21, 2016 You wrote: "Sex is fun, but I wasn't in to causal sex with single woman. I could get it, but I really didn't want that. I wanted to share my sex and life, with the woman of my dreams." Well said! I could not agree more. Keep up the Good Fun... and the open lines of communication. ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post