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Her interest wasn't really interest?

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I agree with the too much too soon assessment. And the reason it was too soon was it was too one-sided; in fact, it was almost entirely one-sided. Although it's almost always one or the other that first brings up the idea of swinging, rarely do both arrive there simultaneously, but bringing up the idea and actually starting down that path are two entirely different things. The swinging journey is one you must take together. By not only putting up a profile without her being part of that, but then even worse, solo masturbating to other profiles, the message you have sent her is swinging is all about you and your satisfaction. That might not be the case, but based on what she had to go on, I think it's understandable if that is what she thought.

 

The only thing to do now is go all the way back to square one, continue to talk about this together and learn where each other is coming from, and then just see where that takes you. It may never leave square one, or the idea may start to grow into something more, but that progress will have been made together, and that is what is vitally important.

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Thank you all for constructive advice.

 

I have deleted the account on swingers site. I am also going back to square one and that is to openly and slowly discuss my fantasies for swinging.

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