Can a woman overlook 66 with a slight handicap?

[suds00 16]

I've had partial paralysis on my left side for most of my life. I don't fell that my personality is bad. Maybe a little reserved. I was married once but for the most part have been single. Women don't see me as a sexual partner and I can only attribute this to my handicap. I've run out of places to look for someone. Comments?

[econobiker 165]

Hey suds00,

Short answer is that "yes, a swinger woman can overlook a handicap", but that said you have to give her the reason(s) to do that. Our house party once had a wheelchair confined guy who was physically handicapped from a childhood head injury. Mentally he was completely able but had difficulty communicating so he had a voice device. He still was fully functional in the dick department and we helped load him into a bed for one lady to ride him like a cowgirl riding a bucking horse.

 

You said that you were married before but aren't now so, unless your marriage was an arranged marriage, you need to put yourself back out there and get meeting women. It's a complete numbers game, more you meet, the more times you will succeed. Put the reserved personality on hold and do it. You might be able to get some help or encouragement on how to get out of your comfort zone by reading up on the topic "red pill" dating. I'm not saying that you have to be completely 100% a "red pill" guy but just delving into it will generally will give you a lot more food for thought in how you approach women.

Some background and a list of typical sources:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manosphere

 

Instead of being handicapped your whole life, you could joke it up that you got paralyzed from a three some with you and two women that got way too kinky and you were injured by a 55 gallon drum of chocolate syrup that got turned over onto you at the wrong moment, etc.

[angelkin 1,326]

It depends...personality, looks and honesty has a lot to do with it.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Willingness to me is sexy. If I think you're sexy, I'm interested. There are almost limitless attributes that turn people on or off. There is somebody for everybody. Don't let yourself hold you back.

[ncmd_couple 597]

Swinging isn't so much a lifestyle, as a state of mind. A disability can cover a wide range of things. If you are just thinking about sex, then that is one thing. Swinging is more about sharing, normally with a partner. As a single male, I get that. Personally, my affinity to swinging is more about an openness.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

If you are asking whether or not being sixty-six years of age is problematic, the answer is that it is not. I'm 66 and maintain swing relationships with people both older and younger.

[oc1234 435]

I'm 72 and my wife is 70 and we are still playing with our longtime playmate who is 62. We have actually started playing with him more regularly than we did in the past. My wife has play dates alone with him at his house and the three of us have threesomes. Life is good.

[Shemurmurs 36]

Women, anyone really, can overlook a disability. Find what it is about you that is cute, funny, charming, sexy, raunchy, insert other adjectives here...and play on it. Be the guy with the killer smile and wicked flirting that makes a girl blush. It will catch the attention of multiple partners and then the choices abound. Unilateral parylization is not a deal breaker for me. Adjustments on favorite positions may have to happen but everyone should end up with a smile on their faces.

 

The reserved nature you have, is it more shyness or general dislike of displays of emotion? I am horribly shy and have found that little victories along the way have helped me overcome that. A club scene is good for this since this is something of a numbers game and there are more opportunities. If it is distasteful in your mind to emote more, show displays of affection, this may be a bigger issue. The lifestyle requires us to move outside of our comfort zone and grow. If your reservation is from a very conservative nature this might be difficult and compound the physical issues.

[RandyNAngie 19]

My boyfriend was born without his left arm...elbow down. When we first met, I honestly didn't know if I could get past it. I'm beyond past it at this time. His comfort in himself and personality completely won me over. We are going to our first club Friday and I can't wait for everyone to fall in love with him!