Swinger Clubs in Toronto

[sexyinakilt 47]

We will be in Toronto 8/22-8/23. We have found several clubs here on the swingers board. We are looking for recommendations to help us pick one for some week night fun. Has anyone been to any of them listed? How,was it during the week?

[intuition897 2,179]

Dammit. We're spending that weekend helping a relative move!

 

We haven't been to the clubs in Toronto in many years, but I have heard good things about Club M4. Abstract was good, too. And I believe X Club used to be Xtabi, one that we used to go to. Wicked is supposed to be sort of the "kids" club - a lot of young people, and I guess they have kind of a hotness/velvet rope policy (somebody correct me if I'm wrong). Eros (if it's still in operation) was very old-school. And I guess the Oasis Aqualounge is more like a lifestyle spa, if that's your thing.

 

Hopefully some regulars at the Toronto clubs will chime in here with some advice.

[sexyinakilt 47]

We will be in buffalo on the weekend for an event I am competing in and then we are going to niagra falls and then Toronto. I have found m4 and they do have week day events which is what we are looking for. Looks like because you are busy that weekend I have missed the opportunity to photograph you. Dammit!

[sexyinakilt 47]

We have found m4 and aqualounge. Has anyone been to either of them? They both look like nice clubs. We will be going on a week night and wondered how the crowds are.

[intuition897 2,179]

We have found m4 and aqualounge. Has anyone been to either of them? They both look like nice clubs. We will be going on a week night and wondered how the crowds are.

 

Unfortunately, we haven't been to either...yet. I know the M4 has its own forum, profiles and chat room. You might get a sense of the regulars from there. I believe they have a Chatters Night during the week. I would suggest popping on there and letting them know you two are thinking of coming out and they can advise you.

 

I haven't looked into Oasis yet.

[sexyinakilt 47]

Thanks. Great idea on chatting. We will look into it.

[winchester 15]

club priva I think its called ,I have been but yrs ago

[Markjorge1 59]

Hi we are going to Toronto in July. What are the best clubs for a new couple in their thirties to visit?

 

What do we wear to the clubs? Do we take a change of clothes to change into? What will we feel when we first see each other playing with someone else, jealousy? Excitement?

 

I want to start soft swap but my wife would rather be full swap. She doesn't want to put any restrictions on us. Should I just drop my restrictions about not wanting someone to penetrate her and just go full swap or should we start soft swap until we see how we feel?

[njbm 2,879]

We were there two years ago. The best one was Club X. Be careful on the way back to Toronto, we were stopped at a drunk driving stop. Fortunately, I had nothing to drink.

[katcha 28]

There is one downtown called Oasis Aqualounge. Great place, and a good, non-pressure introduction to a club. I believe its open most days.

 

The other is probably X Club, not downtown and I think open primarily at night.

[a_d_xxx 663]

Markjorge1: There are 7 clubs I can name off the top of my head in the GTA: The X Club, O Zone, M4, NYX, Jeanies, and Oasis.

 

Most of the clubs are night club style (except Oasis, see below) with dance floors, full licensed bars, on premise play areas, and are open on the weekends (Friday/Saturday typically). All have websites that should be easily found through the google.

 

We've been to all of the clubs except Jeanies, and our favourite is X, though this is understandably subjective.

 

Oasis, is a little different, being more like a spa with a heated pool and hot-tub and occupying a renovated mansion - and is the only club downtown. It can be great to spend a leisurely Summer afternoon naked by the pool.

 

The local swinger site for the GTA and surrounding area is cafedesire.com. All of the clubs post their upcoming events there, and if you are looking to connect with local folks before you arrive, that may be a good place to start. I believe there is a free 1 mo. trial membership.

[njbm 2,879]

On the soft swap full swap issue, you may just want to play with each other and watch others the first time. It's good to go as slow as the slowest partner wants to go. But if you meet a nice couple and you are both comfortable with full swap, go for it. Use condoms for some but not perfect safety.

[Markjorge1 59]

Is there a difference in how People feel watching their partner perform soft swap versus full swap? I know I am definitely fine with watching my wife soft swap and sometimes I am turned on by idea of us doing full swap and other times a bit nervous on how I will feel. Should I just do it if it feed right or go slow and look for soft swap?

[njbm 2,879]

It is up to BOTH of you to decide what to do. You can decide in advance. There is always (usually) a next time to try new things.

[Markjorge1 59]

What area is the best place to stay if you want to attend several of the clubs in Toronto. On the map it shows most of the clubs are outside the downtown. What is the best way to get there from downtown if you stay there? Trying to make it easy to get to and from especially if you are there until 2 or 3 in the morning.

[njbm 2,879]

We stayed in a hotel downtown and rented a car. The clubs were a bit of a hike. Uber was not so well known when we went two years ago, but it would be an expensive ride.

 

Downtown Toronto is fun during the day, so I would stay downtown.

[katcha 28]

We live west of downtown Toronto, in the Mississauga / Oakville area, and there is a higher concentration of clubs in this end of Toronto.

 

I would suggest not staying downtown. There is a lot of construction going on right now on the main freeway from downtown to my area. Google Gardiner Expressway and QEW. Living here, I avoid driving downtown as much as possible.

 

It might be wise to find a hotel near a GO transit station in the Mississauga area, as there are trains running every 30 minutes into Union Station downtown, and you can catch subways and streetcars from there quite easily should you wish to visit downtown.

 

If you're flying into Pearson Airport, it is north of Mississauga as well.

[njbm 2,879]

I defer to the Missisauga natives! Missisauga is the hotpoint of the Toronto swing club scene! But don't miss downtown. What is the name of the Old Town area with a lot of brew pubs? A nice area for lunch and a walk.

[Markjorge1 59]

So it sounds like it's pretty easy to get downtown during the day and it makes sense to stay out where the clubs are located. We don't want to get stuck a long way from our hotel late at night. What other places can a couple go to for fun in Toronto? Are there are good strip joints for couples to attend?

[katcha 28]

This is C.

 

It has been some time since I've been to a strip club. There is another site called TERB where you can get reviews on the local strip club, massage parlour, and things like that. I recommend you go to that site.

 

njbm I think you're talking about the Distillery District. I have not been, but hear its a great place.

 

There are lots of things in downtown TO; CN Tower, Ripley's Aquarium, etc.

 

This site might be good. Downtown Yonge | Neighbourhoods | Tourism Toronto

[njbm 2,879]

Yes, the Distillery district in Old Town. St. Lawrence market is good to see. Toronto island has a nude beach! We enjoyed Toronto as tourists very much. We were newbies at the clubs,met no one, played with each other.

[Markjorge1 59]

Has anyone ever been to the nude beach on Toronto Island? Is it worth going?

[Alisa 17]

We have been to both oasis and M4, great clubs with good atmosphere.

 

Oasis is bit sophisticated and expensive and exclusive whereas M4 is more of a common man club.

 

We had a great time. I am away at the moment and will be back in December. Anyone interested in hanging out, pls let me know.

[PB&J 1,086]

We have been to both M4 and Oasis. They are both worth checking out, but the vibe is very different at each. M4 has a fair number of single men- if you're not into that scene, be aware. Oasis has a very laid-back feel with a mix of people. The playrooms upstairs are amazing! And the pool and hot tub are wonderful. If you're in town on a weekday, I believe that those two clubs are your only options- the others just open Fri-Sun.

 

I believe that Wicked is no longer in business- they moved, tried re-opening, and it didn't work. I've never heard of Club Priva. Probably gone, too.

[Alisa 17]

We have been to both M4 and Oasis. They are both worth checking out, but the vibe is very different at each. M4 has a fair number of single men- if you're not into that scene, be aware. Oasis has a very laid-back feel with a mix of people. The playrooms upstairs are amazing! And the pool and hot tub are wonderful. If you're in town on a weekday, I believe that those two clubs are your only options- the others just open Fri-Sun.

 

I believe that Wicked is no longer in business- they moved, tried re-opening, and it didn't work. I've never heard of Club Priva. Probably gone, too.

 

what is PB&J sandwich

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

what is PB&J sandwich

I believe that this is a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Yum, yum. If PB&J said to us, "come to Toronto and taste our sandwich", we'd be standing right now at the Peace Bridge, passports in-hand, ready to cross the border and move into Ontario province.

[Alisa 17]

I am thinking of having mfm party in hotel but we are new to swinging and haven't had any experience so far, I want to surprise my partner but I am scared, hotels dont mind if we bring another guy to our room?

 

What would hotel staff reaction?

 

Actually one male guy whom we met in night club wants to host us in hotel but I am worried that he may record the encounter.

 

Any suggestions?

 

Is it safe to swing in hotel or someone's home?

[PB&J 1,086]

Brings a whole new meaning to hands across the border, doesn't it?

 

I've always thought of it as a peanut butter and jam sandwich - I wonder if it's a Canadian vs US thing?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

PB&J said:

I've always thought of it as a peanut butter and jam sandwich- I wonder if it's a Canadian vs US thing?

 

We Yankees know very little about jam. But jelly goes just as well with peanut butter. What it's not is a vegemite sandwich.

[HornyToronto 51]

Anyone been to the O Zone Club in Toronto? We're planning on going soon and would like to know what to expect (cleanliness, music, play areas, friendliness, vibe, etc...).

[Alisa 17]

Haven't been to Ozone but had fun in Oasis.

[Markjorge1 59]

My wife and I went to the ozone in August. The staff were very friendly. They took us on a tour and showed us around. It had a great dance floor and bar with lots of people dancing and having a great time. Half the people migrated to the play areas around midnight. The play areas were very clean There were many people of all ages with the majority ranging from 25-50. The showers were clean. There were lots of different areas to play No one was pushy. We had a great night and are looking forward to going back soon. We liked the oasis better. It was a much more open and relaxed crowd.

[Alisa 17]

I heard that Ozone wants a big form to be filled fro entrance which requires personal details also like add and Tel No?

 

secondly they dont accept cash so you have to pay by credit card which infringes privacy.Lifestyle has to be discreet and personal.I prefer Oasis as they dont ask you for details, you simple log in to your account by email and that's it.

 

Have you been to Oasis? We had fun in red room if you remember.

[HornyToronto 51]

Thanks Alisa & Markjorge1! MJ, is what Alisa saying true (personal info collection at Oasis)? Alisa, haven't been to Oasis either, but google feedback is encouraging. My wife & I are newbs, looking to dip our toes, and want our 1st experience to be a good one, hence all the questions. Initially we plan to go as voyeurs and put on an exhibition of our own, which she is VERY excited about it. Can't wait to fuck her in front of an audience!

[Markjorge1 59]

Thanks Alisa & Markjorge1! MJ, is what Alisa saying true (personal info collection at Oasis)? Alisa, haven't been to Oasis either, but google feedback is encouraging. My wife & I are newbs, looking to dip our toes, and want our 1st experience to be a good one, hence all the questions. Initially we plan to go as voyeurs and put on an exhibition of our own, which she is VERY excited about it. Can't wait to fuck her in front of an audience!

 

There is a form but they were good and didn’t require all the personal info. We didn’t use last names. Gsve first name and an email address. It’s so hot fucking in front of people. My wife loves it more than I could ever imagined. We were a little shy st first but that went away quickly Oasis is great atmosphere and so relaxed. Ozone is bar style out front and play area in back, which was good too We didn’t like M4, it was creepy. Lots and lots of single men. They are not allowed to the play area until midnight. The men line up around 11:40 like cattle The single men outnumbered the couples by about 3 to 1. It was not our scene at all.

[Alisa 17]

So, you haven't been to oasis, would definitely be a good experience. We are also new, we went to Oasis but as a voyeurs and on second visit had fun in red room with drapes closed. Looking forward to have full blown fun but my partner is taking it slow.