Number one sexual thought?

[enhancer 1,584]

Okay the question is what is your number one sexual thought? The one act or thing that is sexual you find yourself thinking about the most? Yes I know everyone with a healthy sex drive thinks about a whole lot of sexual things through out the day, but is there one thing that seems to dominate those thoughts?

 

Maybe it is giving or receiving oral, anal sex, tit sex, making out, some fetish, a position, Dom/sub thing, threesome, foursome or moresome, good old P in the V or whatever it might be for you!

 

Also if you have a partner what is theirs if you know?

[Baconheads 431]

Tied between puppy pile and doggie 69. We've done doggie 69 where I am the doggie, but have never tried being the licker of the pussy. (and cock!) Would love to try that one!

[intuition897 2,179]

Great question, enhancer! For me, I think it's not so much any particular sexual act as it is the mind-fuck that leads up to it. The thing that probably gets me going more than anything is seeing "that look" on my intended playmate's face - the look that tells me that I just did or said something that made him lose his composure, that tells me just how much I affect him.

 

That's the first part of it. The second part is similar: it's the tension in that moment when you move through the personal space barrier, and go from imagining what it's like to kiss this other person, to actually doing it. To go from imagining to knowing.

 

I find it very difficult to break down into any particular sex act because, to me, they're all so interrelated. One act leads so naturally to another. I'm a sensual creature, and I love soaking in that heady experience of getting to explore someone new.

 

So I guess if I had to break it down to a particular act that I orbit around, it would be sensual touching/teasing and kissing. It's a case of less-is-more, where a single well-timed touch, look or word would set me off.

[Jonnyones 19]

Watching my wife with a small cock.

[oc1234 435]

My number one sexual thought is my wife and our best friend having sex with each other. They have been playing with each other since 1986 and it still excites me.

[PeterJ 940]

I have so many it's hard to sort it all out. But, upon reflection I guess it's a tie between watching my wife receive pleasure from others and me being a large group puppy pile.

[intuition897 2,179]

I have so many it's hard to sort it all out. But, upon reflection I guess it's a tie between watching my wife receive pleasure from others and me being a large group puppy pile.

 

It's odd I suppose, but we can't seem to get our heads around having sex in a group. Okay, maybe a threesome, because that's kind of the point, but when you're talking about, say, two couples pairing off in the same room, it's actually very distracting. To us at least. Maybe when there are more couples involved the dynamic changes? But when everyone's on the same bed, my neurons are firing on all cylinders. I'm one of those highly sensitive people who can't stand itchy tags or seams on socks or ill-fitting pantyhose. I'm just hyper-aware of sensation.

 

Plus we found that we weren't as into the kink of not knowing whose hand/penis/mouth/etc. it was. It feels impersonal. But who knows? Maybe we'll have to try that sometime, just going into a dark playroom and not having the benefit (or hindrance?) or the visual. That could be interesting. We're curious about just about everything.

[CB&DD 218]

My thoughts tend to lean to large orgy type scenarios. DDs thoughts usually are her in a large bareback creampie gangbang with cocks everywhere, wish we could safely make that happen but that bareback creampie part will probably have to stay just a fantasy for safety sake.

[Alura 2,774]

Laura and I often started in separate rooms with our playmates. Well, there were variations. For instance, my wife once fucked Mr. Playmate in his pickup truck parked in our driveway, while Mrs. Playmate and I were in the den.

 

Then we'd do a "same bed" thing for an encore. They were different events! Although we certainly would not call "separate rooms" love-making, it was a bit more personal with our switched partners, no one to think about but each other. We'd keep the same partners when together as a foursome but laughing, joking, doing outrageous things became the focus.

 

After we had fucked ourselves silly for an evening and were in bed just the two of us, Laura and I always managed to talk about the evening and make love. (Our swing friends did, too.) That glorious feeling was our reason for being swingers.

[intuition897 2,179]

Asked Mr. intuition about his preference. Ever the man of few words: "Foursome." What, that's it? What about it? Any details you want me to include, or... Nope. Just...foursome.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I often come awake in the morning realizing the I had been dreaming about bumm sex. The woman in my dream is faceless. But she had a nice bumm.

[oc1234 435]

Actually my wife and I have another thought/fantasy. It involves renting a completely secluded cabin in the woods where we and our friend Bill could spend the whole weekend nude and having sex both indoors and outdoors and in all combinations of the three of us. My wife wants a bubbling creek near the cabin too.

[AZCoupleII 46]

Pleasuring my wife.

[let's do it again 414]

My number 1 sexual thought is hoping that the female that I will be with is as nasty and filthy as I am. Willing to do anything, anytime, and talk as dirty as I will. I think that we all want an overly enthusiastic partner. 

[Rock n Tits 186]

On 8/4/2016 at 3:45 PM, enhancer said:

Okay the question is what is your number one sexual thought? The one act or thing that is sexual you find yourself thinking about the most? Yes I know everyone with a healthy sex drive thinks about a whole lot of sexual things through out the day, but is there one thing that seems to dominate those thoughts?

 

Maybe it is giving or receiving oral, anal sex, tit sex, making out, some fetish, a position, Dom/sub thing, threesome, foursome or moresome, good old P in the V or whatever it might be for you!

 

Also if you have a partner what is theirs if you know?

My wife eating pussy while getting it doggy from the husband while the wife gives me head!!!! 

[Anon321 521]

I don't think there is any particular act.  One thing that always is on my mind is thinking about my GF's experience with other guys when I wasn't there.  That's one of the things that's hot about the bar pickup game.  Thinking about what she is doing or did with a stranger.

Edited October 15 by Anon321

[AdamGunn2 392]

To this day, my most common thought is of a wife willingly taking a partner while the husband watches.

 

It happened so many times with my wife, I never grew tired of it.

Edited October 16 by AdamGunn2

[TricianMike 772]

I think I answered a similar question before, Random Sex. Random sex has gotten me in trouble and I still think about. 
 

On 8/4/2016 at 6:45 PM, enhancer said:

The one act or thing that is sexual you find yourself thinking about the most?

Getting a young man 25 or so into a room and into my mouth. In real life I was successful a number of times with most fulfilling my fantasy. With no young men available age is secondary. 

[Baconheads 431]

On 8/6/2016 at 4:11 PM, Alura said:

Laura and I often started in separate rooms with our playmates. Well, there were variations. For instance, my wife once fucked Mr. Playmate in his pickup truck parked in our driveway, while Mrs. Playmate and I were in the den.

 

Then we'd do a "same bed" thing for an encore. They were different events! Although we certainly would not call "separate rooms" love-making, it was a bit more personal with our switched partners, no one to think about but each other. We'd keep the same partners when together as a foursome but laughing, joking, doing outrageous things became the focus.

 

After we had fucked ourselves silly for an evening and were in bed just the two of us, Laura and I always managed to talk about the evening and make love. (Our swing friends did, too.) That glorious feeling was our reason for being swingers.

Miss you Alura!

[couplers 4,614]

My recurring thought is either of our guys with his dick in my pussy (doggy or missionary) and my lips and tongue on either Clair's or Lora's freshly sloppy pussy from the other guy.  Fortunately, it happens often.

[Shore2Please 610]

Being alone with one lover. We started swapping spouses in separate cabins on a cruise and to this I prefer swapping to partying. My favorite is still my first who lives far enough away that it’s not an obsession. Since that first we have attended parties with group sex where I feel I am not myself, a little inhibited. If we are swinging give me one partner for the night alone in a private room. I’m not one who enjoys being passed around or looking for multiple partners just for a sex act. 

[J&Wu 408]

Eating Pussy! Better yet someone at my bottom and /or cock and a cock or puss at my partners mouth. And the chain goes on!

[couplers 4,614]

18 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

give me one partner for the night alone in a private room.

Agreed.  Even if it's just sex, there is much more to it than a quick fuck/orgasm.  So much to savor without distractions.

 

18 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

I’m not one who enjoys being passed around or looking for multiple partners just for a sex act. 

If it's more than one guy, I prefer them serially alone rather than both (or three) at once.  My favorite though is an FFM threesome.  There is something magical for me about being a part of that, including all the foreplay and postplay. 

[Shore2Please 610]

4 hours ago, couplers said:

Agreed.  Even if it's just sex, there is much more to it than a quick fuck/orgasm.  So much to savor without distractions.

That is my point, sex is to be savored, sex is intimate. 

 

4 hours ago, couplers said:

If it's more than one guy, I prefer them serially alone rather than both (or three) at once.  My favorite though is an FFM threesome.  There is something magical for me about being a part of that, including all the foreplay and postplay. 

If it is more than one guy I hope it’s more than one night. I need or want more than an hour with a partner. I have experienced serial sex, FFM, and FF sex, give me MF for a night. 

[couplers 4,614]

Some context for the way we live the lifestyle: We adults share two bedrooms - one is David’s and one is Red's, although most of the stuff in them belong to us women.  We women decide who is sleeping with which man.  The women who are sleeping together is more important than which guy is chosen.

 

Most importantly, in the "three bed" is who is in the middle.  Usually, it's not the guy.

 

And yes, there is something special about the MF "two bed" as well.  There are six permutations of that arrangement, so your opportunity for the "one man, one woman, the way God intended it" with each is once a week. 

[PJ&Lin 188]

On 10/19/2024 at 10:35 AM, Shore2Please said:

Being alone with one lover. We started swapping spouses in separate cabins on a cruise and to this I prefer swapping to partying. My favorite is still my first who lives far enough away that it’s not an obsession. Since that first we have attended parties with group sex where I feel I am not myself, a little inhibited. If we are swinging give me one partner for the night alone in a private room. I’m not one who enjoys being passed around or looking for multiple partners just for a sex act. 

Apropos to our recent trip to the south of France we were invited to join friends plus two couples we didn’t know to share an AirBnb for 10 days. We know our friends in many sexual ways always having great times. Thinking about group sex and one on one sex it is different. I never thought being alone with a single woman as being with a lover. During our vacation we each did spend at least one night alone with a partner, one I felt I was stuck with. I was happy she fell asleep and let me sleep. I never let on that the night wasn’t great, she was more fun outside the bedroom. The only one I told was Lin who didn’t complain about any of the men. 

[couplers 4,614]

On 10/19/2024 at 10:35 AM, Shore2Please said:

give me one partner for the night alone in a private room.

We all (David, Lora, Red, Clair, and I) are still playing fairly frequently with Joe and Shannon.  At first they mostly stayed in a hotel near us for foursomes, up to all seven of us together for sex. (It took two babysitters to watch all our kids.)  Now, those from our family visit them one or two at a time for threesomes or separate room MF or FF overnight play.

 

So yes, you are correct.  An occasional fuckfest has it's place, but alone for a night is special.  Including that moment of the first morning kiss with my husband after we both spent the night being with another. 

[Bob E 11]

On 8/4/2016 at 5:45 PM, enhancer said:

Okay the question is what is your number one sexual thought? The one act or thing that is sexual you find yourself thinking about the most? Yes I know everyone with a healthy sex drive thinks about a whole lot of sexual things through out the day, but is there one thing that seems to dominate those thoughts?

 

Maybe it is giving or receiving oral, anal sex, tit sex, making out, some fetish, a position, Dom/sub thing, threesome, foursome or moresome, good old P in the V or whatever it might be for you!

 

Also if you have a partner what is theirs if you know?

To have a 3 some with a Bi couple. She takes turns sucking each us guys, the we take turns eating her pussy and tits.  Then when she is ready, she mounts her husband, facing his feet.  I watch as she guides his cock into her wet pussy and squats  to get every inch in.  the she look at me and says, any time you are ready.  I take a deep breath, and put my hand on her, then slowly slide it down to her pussy.  I rub her clit a little then move to her lips and his cock, feeling his cock going in and out, all covered in her cum.  Soon I'm using both hands, one rubbing her clit, the other on his cock.  Soon I'm fondling his balls firmly, their pace quickens, as the both tell me to do it harder.  She begins squirting, and I feel his groin tighten, and feel cum rushing through his throbbing cock, as they both cry out.  I keep up using my hands on them both, and feel their aftershocks.  Then they relax, she asks if I was going finish.  I get between their legs and begin licking her cum from his balls, and cock, then move to her pussy.  As his cock slides out, I begin sucking  it and squeeze the last few drops of cum out, then I put his whole sack in my mouth, rolling his balls around.  When I stop, She squats over me and tell me to suck her clean.  I see his cum oozing out and pull her to my mouth lick it, and then suck his load out.  I finish by licking her crack, lips, her inner legs, and up to her clit.  They ask how I liked my first Bi encounter.  I reply, I Loved It ! 

[lovefest04 697]

Bob E - gotta say, that's pretty fucking hot.

[Starting late 121]

For me, without a doubt it would be several men, maybe 5-6 or so. All finishing either in or on me. Of course, that scenario won't ever play out, although I regularly have 2 men, and that is pretty incredible.

 

Hubby says, "watching me," but I know he's just being sweet. I'm sure it involves me and a gf, and he's fortunate to have that on a regular as well.

[Bob E 11]

5 hours ago, Starting late said:

For me, without a doubt it would be several men, maybe 5-6 or so. All finishing either in or on me. Of course, that scenario won't ever play out, although I regularly have 2 men, and that is pretty incredible.

 

Hubby says, "watching me," but I know he's just being sweet. I'm sure it involves me and a gf, and he's fortunate to have that on a regular as well.

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[TnA83 305]

For me it's usually the same...  Fucklicking!  In as many different positions and permutations as possible!