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Okay the question is what is your number one sexual thought? The one act or thing that is sexual you find yourself thinking about the most? Yes I know everyone with a healthy sex drive thinks about a whole lot of sexual things through out the day, but is there one thing that seems to dominate those thoughts?

 

Maybe it is giving or receiving oral, anal sex, tit sex, making out, some fetish, a position, Dom/sub thing, threesome, foursome or moresome, good old P in the V or whatever it might be for you!

 

Also if you have a partner what is theirs if you know?

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Tied between puppy pile and doggie 69. We've done doggie 69 where I am the doggie, but have never tried being the licker of the pussy. (and cock!) Would love to try that one!

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My number one sexual thought is my wife and our best friend having sex with each other. They have been playing with each other since 1986 and it still excites me.

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I have so many it's hard to sort it all out. But, upon reflection I guess it's a tie between watching my wife receive pleasure from others and me being a large group puppy pile.

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I have so many it's hard to sort it all out. But, upon reflection I guess it's a tie between watching my wife receive pleasure from others and me being a large group puppy pile.

 

It's odd I suppose, but we can't seem to get our heads around having sex in a group. Okay, maybe a threesome, because that's kind of the point, but when you're talking about, say, two couples pairing off in the same room, it's actually very distracting. To us at least. Maybe when there are more couples involved the dynamic changes? But when everyone's on the same bed, my neurons are firing on all cylinders. I'm one of those highly sensitive people who can't stand itchy tags or seams on socks or ill-fitting pantyhose. I'm just hyper-aware of sensation.

 

Plus we found that we weren't as into the kink of not knowing whose hand/penis/mouth/etc. it was. It feels impersonal. But who knows? Maybe we'll have to try that sometime, just going into a dark playroom and not having the benefit (or hindrance?) or the visual. That could be interesting. We're curious about just about everything.

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My thoughts tend to lean to large orgy type scenarios. DDs thoughts usually are her in a large bareback creampie gangbang with cocks everywhere, wish we could safely make that happen but that bareback creampie part will probably have to stay just a fantasy for safety sake.

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Laura and I often started in separate rooms with our playmates. Well, there were variations. For instance, my wife once fucked Mr. Playmate in his pickup truck parked in our driveway, while Mrs. Playmate and I were in the den. :)

 

Then we'd do a "same bed" thing for an encore. They were different events! Although we certainly would not call "separate rooms" love-making, it was a bit more personal with our switched partners, no one to think about but each other. We'd keep the same partners when together as a foursome but laughing, joking, doing outrageous things became the focus.

 

After we had fucked ourselves silly for an evening and were in bed just the two of us, Laura and I always managed to talk about the evening and make love. (Our swing friends did, too.) That glorious feeling was our reason for being swingers.

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Asked Mr. intuition about his preference. Ever the man of few words: "Foursome." What, that's it? What about it? Any details you want me to include, or... Nope. Just...foursome. :rolleyes:

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I often come awake in the morning realizing the I had been dreaming about bumm sex. The woman in my dream is faceless. But she had a nice bumm.

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Actually my wife and I have another thought/fantasy. It involves renting a completely secluded cabin in the woods where we and our friend Bill could spend the whole weekend nude and having sex both indoors and outdoors and in all combinations of the three of us. My wife wants a bubbling creek near the cabin too.

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My number 1 sexual thought is hoping that the female that I will be with is as nasty and filthy as I am. Willing to do anything, anytime, and talk as dirty as I will. I think that we all want an overly enthusiastic partner. 

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On 8/4/2016 at 3:45 PM, enhancer said:

Okay the question is what is your number one sexual thought? The one act or thing that is sexual you find yourself thinking about the most? Yes I know everyone with a healthy sex drive thinks about a whole lot of sexual things through out the day, but is there one thing that seems to dominate those thoughts?

 

Maybe it is giving or receiving oral, anal sex, tit sex, making out, some fetish, a position, Dom/sub thing, threesome, foursome or moresome, good old P in the V or whatever it might be for you!

 

Also if you have a partner what is theirs if you know?

My wife eating pussy while getting it doggy from the husband while the wife gives me head!!!! 

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I don't think there is any particular act.  One thing that always is on my mind is thinking about my GF's experience with other guys when I wasn't there.  That's one of the things that's hot about the bar pickup game.  Thinking about what she is doing or did with a stranger.

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