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Have you ever had Swingers experience with Arabs?

Have you ever had Swingers experience with the Arabs?  

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  1. 1. Have you ever had a swinger experience with the Arabs?

    • Yes, I have had sexual experience with the Arabs, It was a GOOD experience.
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    • Yes, I have had sexual experience with the Arabs, It was it was a BAD experience.
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    • I would like to have chance to, an Arabian lady excites me.
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    • Arabian ladies do not excite me.
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    • Other (post in the comments)
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We are an Arabian married couple from Yemen. Beautiful wife F/31, Height 5ft 4in (163 cm) slim body; good looking Man M/35, 5ft 5in (165 cm) average body (cut dick).

 

We are very interested in Swinging. We had few secretly swingers experience with the Arabs and it was lovely and exciting, we had (only once we have threesome MMF with very special friend, only four times full swap with our neighbors and some couples of friends) swapping was our favorite and we liked it too much.

 

*The Problem: it very hard to find any Swingers partners. Because it is illegal in Arab countries and it is unacceptable in our community. And, most of the swinging activity happens at the private personal homes which are often hard to find.

 

*Now we already planned have our first Swinging with non-Arabs from outside our country, each of us thought it exciting for us.

 

We want to know some questions:

 

1- For non-Arabs How much Swinging with Arabian couples/ladies excites you? Do you think Arabian lady delicious,sexy?

 

2- If you have chance to have Swinging with Arabian couples, What acts would you prefer to do with them?

 

3-What we would do for you? what your fantasies?

 

4- What's your experience with Arab? Or how would you sexual feeling if it happened to you or your partner?

 

5-Can you advise us something

 

(plz post in the comments)

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We tend to avoid labels. Attractive and willing means a whole lot more to us than your religion, ethnicity or address. We've never had an experience with an Arab couple but neither have we had an experience with a Romanian couple. We wouldn't rule out either on the basis of their country of origin. Advice: Get on an international swingers website, maybe SDC, put up a profile with representative photos and use the "hot date" section to post where you're going to travel and when and what you're looking for. If the picture next to your post actually IS Mrs Arabmejo, you'll have to beat the offers off with a stick.

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We are the same way, chemistry and attraction is what we are looking for in playmates. It doesn't matter to us what part of the world they come from, what belief system they choose to follow, the color of their skin, or any of the other things that humans like to use to get the us vs. them barriers in place.

 

I'd recommend SDC too, they seem to have good international coverage.

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Welcome, I used to live and work in Yemen in the mid 1980s and enjoyed it tremendously. People are very passionate and the women are gorgeous. I can just imagine your predicament. Good luck in your endeavor.

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clpnuswing hit this nail right on the head. If there is chemistry and/or a connection, nothing else matters. We don't limit ourselves based on preconceived perceptions, but on who the people are and if we click with them.

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1- For non-Arabs How much Swinging with Arabian couples/ladies excites you? Do you think Arabian lady delicious,sexy?

We are all different in some ways and we are all the same in most ways. An Arab woman catches my attention when she smiles. Arab women, in general, are no more but certainly no less exciting than other woman.

 

2- If you have chance to have Swinging with Arabian couples, What acts would you prefer to do with them?

I enjoy the good old-fashioned "missionary position", as many people of the Western World like to call it, owing to the fact that being able to look into a play partner's eyes make me feel more-closely connected.

 

3- What we would do for you? what your fantasies?

You have no need to think to hard on this question and you have no need to try too hard to please people. Be yourself and act in-the-moment. Your play partners will almost certainly be pleasantly surprised.

 

4- What's your experience with Arab? Or how would you sexual feeling if it happened to you or your partner?

While a "guest worker" in a large city in Saudi Arabia, I was invited, through an intermediary, to the home of a Lebanese woman. She had been observing me while at the dining hall of a residential facility for expatriot workers. While at her home, her husband invited me to have some time with her alone. The time we spent was very enjoyable. Both my wife and I would feel good about meeting Arab people.

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The most thing I like bout the lifestyle is its focus on mutual respect on pure human level.

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We tend to avoid labels. .

 

I avoid labels because I'm too dumb to apply them properly and it's too much work. Take "Arab" for example. Iranians claim not to be Arabs, although they're next door neighbors to Saudi Arabia and the United Arab Emirates. And some India Indians are blacker than our negro African swing partners, yet consider themselves white.

 

We have sex with humans we find attractive, that's about it.

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The confusing thing here is how would I know. I have a good friend who identifies herself as being Persian, there is no Persia, I think she immigrated from Iran at some point. We, my hubby and I, did a “soft" swap with she and her American Irish (and probably 6 other ethnicities) one night. Typically here in America, we tend not to ask ethnicity until we become very good friends. We assumed one beautiful girl was Mexican because she worked began working in our local Mexican restaurant, but he was “Arab”. Ethnicity, country of origin just doesn’t seem to be an issue in the swinging world other than that some of us ladies are curious about trying an uncircumcised guy and that seems to relate a bit to ethnicity.

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The confusing thing here is how would I know. I have a good friend who identifies herself as being Persian, there is no Persia, I think she immigrated from Iran at some point. We, my hubby and I, did a “soft" swap with she and her American Irish (and probably 6 other ethnicities) one night. Typically here in America, we tend not to ask ethnicity until we become very good friends. We assumed one beautiful girl was Mexican because she worked began working in our local Mexican restaurant, but he was “Arab”. Ethnicity, country of origin just doesn’t seem to be an issue in the swinging world other than that some of us ladies are curious about trying an uncircumcised guy and that seems to relate a bit to ethnicity.

 

I wonder if people often use the term "Persian" to avoid "Iranian" since the relationship between Iran and the US has been a bit sketchy since...well, since Jimmy Carter. Besides, I think the world owes a lot to the Persian culture (when there was a Persia) for things like algebra, the first declaration of human rights, plus a whole bunch of people in Silicon Valley. If you ever want to try out an uncut guy, although a bit old, drop me a line. LOL No ethnicity involved, just an old-fashioned mother?

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there is a lot of similarity between us, I think we can communicate if you want

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My first thought on seeing this post is that it might be racist but I’m hoping it’s not. I think you will find most people in the lifestyle don’t put labels on people. I know there will Post about being with a big black person which might be a little racist but is also a fantasy for some. I also have read about those who find Asian women as exotic. Maybe you should consider that “Arabs” are actually Asian as countries like Iran are in Asia. Our group of friends, maybe we are considered younger, are for the most part blind to labels. I would say we are less blind to stupid obnoxious people.

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You forgot to add a “No” option.

 

So no we have not. Like others have said, not against it if opportunity presents itself and if we fell that all are compatible.

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We like nice people. We don’t care about their race, color, nationality or religion.

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Like njbm said, our first cut is are they nice and do we like them? For us, the answer to that has nothing to do with race, color, or any of the myriad of other ways to categorize and label people.

 

Now, having gotten past that first hurdle, are there people that we may find more exotic simply because they are so different from us? Yes. Could that difference add some icing on the already baked cake. Yes. So to the OP's question, assuming I liked her, would I find an Arab woman exotic in a sexy sort of way, yes.

 

The way I look at it, it's just the wrapping paper though. Superficial to what's inside, but still, something that may catch your eye, and more to some than others since all brains are wired differently.

 

Or to use another example, it's like hair color. Would I ever turn down anyone based on black, brunette, blonde, red, etc? Absolutely not. Do I specifically seek out women with a certain hair color? Nope. If there was a woman of any skin tone with a red buzz cut, would I consider that exotic? Yes, simply because I've never even met a buzz cut redhead, so that exoticness is likely to pique my interest a little bit. I've never felt hair that short on a woman, it would seem very very different to me, and therein lies the interest. Do I have some sort of fetish for super short hair on a woman? Nope, not at all. As a general rule even, don't like it. Some can rock it and look great, but for most it's not the best look for them, or at least to my eyes it's not anyways (not that what I think really matters).

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I am Arab and have answer for you on my email and interested to have a company with you

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We have never thought of swinging or the lifestyle in this manner.  We play with any who attract us (personality, humor, adventurous, interested in us) and have had 98% memorable experiences.  We both tend to cater to the one (or more than one) that we are with.  We follow their wishes so that they will have a relaxing enjoyable time.

 

As a result we have met and been with many people from varying backgrounds, cultures, creeds, nationalities and race.  Not part of any check list or “wish list”.  Big, small, thin, large etc we take people as they are.  Rude, obnoxious, mean, bed post notchers and those we know that are cheating or just plain bad partners need not apply.

 

If there is mutual interest then we are cool with any one.  No restrictions.

 

 

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I agree with the above commenters that ethnicity is not of concern to us.  But since you asked, I have not had any experience swinging (or even sex) with an Arabian man or woman.  Some time ago, however, a friend of mine, Shannon, told me that she was close with a couple who were from Saudi Arabia, Omar and Aisha.  Aisha became pregnant and didn't want to have sex anymore, but Omar was persistent.  Shannon said that she wouldn't mind taking on that role, and Aisha agreed.  It was comfortable for Aisha because it was always at their house while she was there, no sneaking around.  They would usually make an evening of it with dinner, etc.  Shannon said that he was attractive, but way too quick, although he would be ready for seconds later in the evening.  It developed into a little Lesbian play as well.  It continued with Omar for a while after their son was born and Aisha was eagerly active again, just because it was becoming routine.  The most interesting thing to me was that Shannon had a boyfriend the whole time.  He didn't know, but Shannon said that she gave him as much pussy as he wanted, and she didn't owe him anything more.

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We have sex with humans without regard to nationality, race, or religion. We live in a melting pot of people that gives us so many opportunities to enjoy life. 
Now political views are another thing. 

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Race, colour, nationalit, religion ... etc all this lables people use to classified them self wouldn't make difference when it comes to fun, we all forget this labels and get melted with lust as soon as the fun start.

 

We are married loving muslim couple, Mr Arab and the Mrs British Indian and we did have our share of fun with other couples but we have never thought to ask if they were muslims, Arab or anything like this the most we ask if they are in a stable relationship or just plying together!

 

But to answer your questions if we met with arab couple "which we did" we will love to do anything we would feel like to do 😜 and our advice for you both is to have fun as much as you can cause time never coming back and always discuss things together what u like to do see hear and feel share all this moments together and you will have a very healthy sexy relationship.

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