By
lotajet
Ok so I have never opened myself to the idea of swinging until recently. Me (25) and my man (39) have been happily together for 7 years and have an amazing sex life because we both love trying new things and experimenting. The idea of swinging has always played in the back of my mind as more of a fantasy than a reality but recently he decided he didn't mind the idea anymore because he knew where we were in our relationship and was comfortable with it.
One of the great things about us is we are both very open and honest with each other about everything. We have talked a lot about this in the past couple weeks. Our rules and limitations on people and even minor small things.
The problem is we live in really Northern NY and there doesn't seem to be anything up this way, club wise. We want to use a club because it's a small area and we operate three businesses in the area. Also we know a lot of people and we decided on no friends, workers, or clients in case something went wrong.
Does anyone know of any clubs in our area or even relatively close because NYC is like 5 1/2 hours from me. Thanks to all and if anyone has any suggestions or good advice for us for our first time I would love to hear it.