Sexy office attire?

[Curiouscouple61 64]

So in looking at the clubs and their code on dress attire, I notice that pretty much all of them stipulate "no work clothes." I am kind of assuming they mostly mean "don't come in the clothes that you go out and do construction in" or just not to wear something that is too conservative and not sexy. But I actually kind of like the idea of the whole naughty secretary look and its something I could easily do with the wardrobe I have. I mean I would spice it up a bit obviously, but I know there is a huge preference out there for the naughty secretary thing.

 

So my question is, if these are technically office clothes but they are done in a really sexy way, could that still pose a problem? Does this kind of thing fall more under a costumed theme night?

 

Does anyone think a club would turn this kind of thing down?

[two4youinswva 3,068]

If you show up wearing an outfit like the one in the pics, you're not going to have an issue at all.

Well, yes you will. You're going to get a lot of "How YOU doin'?" throughout the night.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

They mean not farm work or construction work clothes like you thought.

 

They are fine with conservative dress anywhere I've been. Usually it's a signal that you are not actually looking to play. Which I don't pick up on b/c I like conservative dress. I always chat them up to find they are not swingers, just like being at the club. We call them sexy librarians, people at our club who come to dance, watch and be watched, but not interested in any type of swap.

 

Those outfits you posted would be fine. You will get attention.

 

Anything you feel comfortable in (with the exception of work-out clothes) will be fine. You see anything and everything and nearly nothing at most swing clubs.

[cplnuswing 4,712]

uhhhh, yeah, I think that outfit will work

 

funcoupledayton is right, you will see anything and everything ranging from outfits that make you wonder where they even found that since you've never seen anything like it even on the clubwear websites, to looking like they just came from work, well dressed work though, not dirty jeans and dusty boots work. You will see those that look nice but are dressed more for comfort, and you will see those wearing stuff that is about as far from comfort as you could possibly get.

 

For what it's worth, we always go with nice jeans that fit right in the right places and a button down shirt for him, maybe buttoned or maybe open and over a solid color nice t-shirt. For her, short skirt (not miniskirt, just not her thing) and a snazzy clubby low cut top. Some variation either a little milder or wilder on either side of that will cover probably most of the people in the club, or at least the clubs we have been to.

 

I'll make one other comment too since it goes along with the work clothes thing. I'm a guy and certainly no judge of fashion, male or female, but I have seen guys wearing khakis that look way more like they just threw on their normal Monday through Friday outfit than I and other guys do who are wearing a nice pair of jeans. For work, yes, khakis are usually considered a step above jeans on the dressy level, but that doesn't automatically hold true everywhere else. Just my opinion, but well-worn, baggy, and rumpled isn't the best club look, even if you did wear it the last time the Regional Manager called everyone in for a staff meeting.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

I'll add to the chorus of people cheering for you to come to our favorite club, dressed like that!

 

The clubs in our area want women to dress nicely, which basically means you can come in anything you want- just come! I've seen women in t-shirts and sweat pants, women in office attire like you showed, and women in tight dresses with so many slits and cutouts that they would definitely be arrested for wearing them at dinner or the movies! We guys are just happy to have you there! For the guys, our local clubs generally want a collared shirt, no baggy jeans hanging halfway down your butt, and no baseball caps. The smart guys will try to look good! I don't know if I'm smart like that, but I usually go in a short-sleeved button-down shirt (open all the way to my navel to show off the gold chains... Just kidding), and good-fitting jeans.

[GoldCoCouple 4,063]

While some cloths are designed to look sexy, it usually is the woman that is wearing them that puts the sexy into any outfit. Sexy comes from inside a woman, not from what they wear...how esle would it be that a woman wearing nothing but a mans shirt can look so sexy?

[Curiouscouple61 64]

Okay, well seems I have the thumbs up here. Good to know we have such a high range of options.

 

I figure the most common go to for any club is usually the really slutty, ultra short dresses with cutouts, and those are fine but I figure its also important to find something that a) makes you stand out and b) fits your persona more. I kind of like the sexy and sophisticated look. Classy with a little hint of slutty. I'm not in my 20's anymore, so I'm thinking something like that idea might suit my personality more.

[Shemurmurs 36]

I never wear club clothing and will wear something that I've worn the office. Not only do I feel confident in something that fits more traditionally but when I wear it to the office I've got memories to smile out. Any club that turns you down for wearing clothing that makes you feel sexy in is probably not a place you want to be.

[1XcellentXtra4U 29]

Office attire is sexy! The conservative look doesn't hide Titties, the legs, hips n ass and I'm turned on by it. My favorite customers are in office buildings! My eyes and smile stay busy around executive vagina!