Is this an orgy? Just kidding...kinda

[Guest FunintheSnow]

Hey,

 

We're on the list to attend a hotel suite party this weekend--our first. It's at one of those extended-stay hotels, and the party will be in two bedrooms, each with a bathroom, with a living/dining/kitchen space between. Fourteen couples have said they are going.

 

Mr. Snow (there are too many "Mr. Fun"s here, so I'm going with that now ) and I are trying to picture how this will work. Should we think of the whole space as a large public playroom? Would it be incredibly rude if two couples went in one bedroom and closed the door? (Given the number of guests vs. the number if playrooms, I kind of think it would.) I am not shy but I am not an exhibitionist, either, so I'm not sure I'd want to play in this scenario, especially with a new partner.

 

I know I can just wait and see, but our other option is a meet and greet with a lot of new people--unfortunately, they are both new to us and new to the LS, so they are mostly soft swap or just watchers. But if we are not going to play with the 14 couples, we might prefer to meet 40, even if they are newbies.

 

TIA for any guesses/experiences you can share!

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Assuming the number that say they are coming actually do, which is hardly ever the case, that sounds really crowded. Really, even if several don't show, it still sounds crowded since they are all strangers to you and I'm assuming probably mostly to each other too. That setup just sounds awkward to me for that kind of group. Likely what will happen is a few couples will quickly pair up and take the bedrooms, the doors will likely get closed, and the ones that are slower will kind of be left in the middle just looking at each other and trying to make small talk to get to know each other, and then if some chemistry eventually develops and you do want to play, but aren't into doing it right there in the middle of everyone, then you will have to wait for a room, which depending on how polite and thoughtful some of the others are, may or may not ever happen.

 

Maybe I'm being too negative, but that just doesn't sound like it will work well for an open group kind of thing. A play group that knows each other, yes, I can see that being fun. Anything else, just sounds like trouble waiting to happen.

[enhancer 1,586]

That many people in that little space would certainly not be our kind of thing, but to each their own! I would think the people going are assuming it is an orgy, because there doesn't sound like there will be room for anything, but that. I would also assume going into a room and shutting the door for privacy would be frowned at being as there is only two rooms.

[kikonkrome 844]

I would go just for the experience!!

 

We have been invited to something similar but couldn't make it.

 

Go and let the rest of us know what happened?

[Guest FunintheSnow]

I would, with pleasure, if we didn't have the other option for that night! Unfortunately, the events are 45 min. away from each other, or we would try to do both. :-) Will tell you all what happens anyway. We have friends who may go to the suite thing and will get the scoop from them if possible.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

We've been to hotel parties like this. Almost always the host plans to have twenty and gets six. I know that I am not providing encouragement but if you decide to attend, let us know how it turns out. As KinkoKrome observed, the experience is likely to be worthwhile.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

We have gone to a party similar to this. It was 10 couples in one extended stay type suite. There was a kitchenette, sitting area and bedroom downstairs and a loft with a bedroom and bath upstairs. I don't think there were actually any doors.

 

The hosts hand picked all the couples. Most people at least kind of knew each other. They started the night with snacks and a naughty jenga game. Then there was a blindfolded blow job game, which led to people pairing off. I wouldn't say it was an orgy because people basically paired off and played in separate areas, but you could see and hear each other.

 

It was fun. There was only man there I wanted to play with and I did. My husband played with 2 ladies separately and then we played together with a third lady.

 

I have been to an orgy party and it consisted of a room with six queen size mattresses on the floor and 11 couples. This was at a couple's house. After socializing everyone just piled in the mattress room and started going at it. It was also very fun and memorable. There was a lot more switching partners since we were all together. I played with 4 men and was fucked by one woman. One girl played with nearly all or all of the men there.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Sorry for being late to the party...so how was the party?

[Guest FunintheSnow]

We got two (well, three) perspectives on it.

 

First, a couple who went to the party turned up late to the M&G. Their perspective: "OMG, it was so weird! No one knew each other and there was one woman who was so rude. And some people left to do pot and never came back--and they left all their stuff in the room! Then a woman lay down on the table to be the human buffet and people put sliced fruit on her. She was beautiful, but her husband was really hyper and kept jumping around. That's when we left. No one had started playing or even taking off their clothes, except for the buffet woman."

 

My friend's perspective, via IM the next day: "The buffet was fun. Most people left early. Needed a few more lively couples. That's what happens at parties where no one know each other."

 

A few other data points:

 

The first couple are relatively new, while my friend has been in the LS for years.

 

Everyone felt bad for the host, who was apparently very nice.

 

The new couple met my friend and his wife (not that she is not also my friend) and that was the bright spot in that couple's evening. Until they met me and Mr. Snow, of course. (Kidding!)

 

I wish we could have experienced it, but we met four couples at the M&G we'd like to know better, and it seems to be mutual with at least two of them. So we're glad we made the choice we did.

[hlgcpl4fun 80]

On 9/23/2016 at 6:27 AM, Guest FunintheSnow said:

Hey,

 

We're on the list to attend a hotel suite party this weekend--our first. It's at one of those extended-stay hotels, and the party will be in two bedrooms, each with a bathroom, with a living/dining/kitchen space between. Fourteen couples have said they are going.

 

Mr. Snow (there are too many "Mr. Fun"s here, so I'm going with that now ) and I are trying to picture how this will work. Should we think of the whole space as a large public playroom? Would it be incredibly rude if two couples went in one bedroom and closed the door? (Given the number of guests vs. the number if playrooms, I kind of think it would.) I am not shy but I am not an exhibitionist, either, so I'm not sure I'd want to play in this scenario, especially with a new partner.

 

I know I can just wait and see, but our other option is a meet and greet with a lot of new people--unfortunately, they are both new to us and new to the LS, so they are mostly soft swap or just watchers. But if we are not going to play with the 14 couples, we might prefer to meet 40, even if they are newbies.

 

TIA for any guesses/experiences you can share!

Sabrina and I almost always book a room or suite at the hotel where the party is. We almost always play with a single male or three 😈. She prefers the privacy as when she plays in the open, I usually have to keep an eye on the uninvited guests and I am not able to enjoy watching her play. That and when we are finished playing, she doesn't have to get dressed and leave.