FMF tonight. Very excited, quite scared too and out of practice!

[victoria'dreams 141]

Dear everyone,

 

We had few MFM because it was so easy to find men and little numbers of FMF because unicorn finding is... you know... not easy!

 

Now, my wife and I met a lovely woman and we will have a threesome tonight in a beautiful Hotel! Last woman I had sex with that wasn't my wife was 2 years ago... also a threesome. I've been looking forward to this since so long! Now I'm starting to get scared to not perform well, to get naked in front of a girl I don't know and to wear a condom after 2 years of not wearing one... also I know my wife and I love sex together, I'm out of practice pleasuring another girl maybe?

 

Now it's finally happening, and I'm a bit freaking out and at the same time so looking forward! any self-confidence Guru around here?!

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

How about "I wish I was in your shoes". Beautiful wife and a unicorn tonight... not going to get much sympathy from me. Still, it's just like riding a bike, once the cloths come off, things should be easy (but then again I enjoy riding a bike naked ). There's always a pill that can help... wish I had some of those in reserve as well. Anyways, don't put pressure on yourself, just enjoy the evening...and remember to report back tomorrow.

[padoc 1,704]

No quicker way to lose a woody than to think about it. Talk about a self fulfilling prophecy. If you're already freaking, I 2nd Gold's suggestion, take a pill!! Oh, and take pictures too!

[kikonkrome 844]

Stay calm and don't drink ANY alcohol...you fuck the whole thing up.

 

Frankly two hot naked women, you'll be hard as a rock. Until that happens deep breaths.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

You lucky dog! I agree with the advice to abstain from drinking (maybe one normal drink is OK), and to avail yourself of a little pharmaceutical help. And let you wife fluff you if you find yourself flagging at any point!

 

Oh, I just realized that this FMF has already happened... How was it? Tell us all about it (no names, please)!

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

What do you mean no names?!! I want names, pictures and video!

[victoria'dreams 141]

Guys. I had some incredible threesome, but it's wasn't that one! Definitely not the threesome I could brag about

 

Sorry for my delayed answer. First of all because we live in Europe and the time zone I received your answers too late. I did most of the opposite of your good thoughts. Starting by drinking to loosing up. Well, that was a bad idea.

 

I basically had sex with my wife, and not as good, far from the good sex we have together. I also couldn't have sex with the other woman. I wasn't attracted by her at all, was just weird... One thing that was totally unexpected is that the woman didn't smell like fresh wash... she had that very strong armpit smell and it was very disturbing for me... Do any of you had that experience?

 

I don't want to put the fault on her. She is extremely sweet, intelligent and the best person to have a threesome in terms of personality. But... didn't work out in bed with me. Still wasn't a disaster as my wife and her could have some fun and I made my wife came while she was licking the girl and the girl had a gigantic orgasm at the same time.

 

I felt absolutely terrible. Like a huge looser. I felt something was wrong with me. Yesterday I had sex with my wife at home, I was hard as a rock. So I guess I should no worry like I did about erectile problem? I mean we could meet that girl again and hope to have a better threesome. But my wife thinks it's stupid and she's certain it's only cause I was just not attracted by that girl in particular. She's also less dramatic and think we won't have to wait two more years like we did to find another, "the" right girl.

 

That was my report to you guys!

[padoc 1,704]

Actually, you had two naked women, there were orgasms, how bad could it have been. A system malfunction occasionally happens, particularly when booze and pressure to perform are involved. Add to that, a lack of physical attraction, and the fact that both women got off and had some fun and it wasn't the worst outcome.

 

The odor issue may have been a sign of her own nervousness. If it was hygiene, that's not good. We met a couple once where the guy either did not use deodorant or just simply had really odorous pits. Mrs Doc was so turned off after the initial hug that we had 1 drink and called it a night. It happens!

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Sometimes there just isn't a 'connection'...nobodies fault, it just wasn't there. Also...cleanliness is not only next to Godliness, but for me as well, mandatory. I would have probably felt the same way as you did. Still, there was naked women and orgasms, what more can be asked for? Hey, there's always next time.

[victoria'dreams 141]

The odor issue may have been a sign of her own nervousness. If it was hygiene, that's not good. We met a couple once where the guy either did not use deodorant or just simply had really odorous pits. Mrs Doc was so turned off after the initial hug that we had 1 drink and called it a night. It happens!

 

We met her twice for lunch before anything happen in bed. First time was great and she was turning me on. We met her a second time and... she really smelled armpits like crazy. I mean the smell was there the whole time we were eating... I put this on the nervous side she might have been and was thinking poor girl she must feel terrible about her own smell now. So when we met in the Hotel and me and my wife were fresh showered and she smelled again, I just couldn't think straight anymore. As for her intimate part it did smell too a bit something between getting wet and not super fresh showered. But, it's really something you can't tell or ask the person unless you want to make someone feel absolutely terrible! I really don't want to hurt her. So I'm stuck in this situation were I only could imagine the threesome again but without an armpit smell. But, if she doesn't realize the odor, why it would be different if we meet again right...?

 

 

GoldCoCouple I should think that way. My worry is, because I didn't 'perform' well even for acceptable reason, I hope I'm not going to start developing erection anxiety during the period until we meet another girl.

I'm having sex with my wife, it's awesome as always, I'm hard and lasting. I know it's only mental so why I'm still scared of this happening again with another woman? Like I would be sentenced to have sex only with my wife for the rest of my life? Luckily my wife is super hot which would not even be a bad sentence. Is there anyone that past that "fear" erection phase when having sex with new people? I would love to not have to take a pill and just brainwash myself.