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So this Christmas I want to do something new and special and fun now that we have opened our marriage. I know I want to dress up but I'm not sure what to dress in or what to do. This is for my husband and possible actually swapping for the first time in front of each other so...I need ideas for what to wear and maybe what to do. Go!

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You don't provide a lot of details about where you will be, what you are into, if you plan to swap with another couple, etc. If you are going to a swingers club, then the sexier, the better. If a nice restaurant, then maybe a bit more conservative. I don't think you can go wrong with a little black dress or something similar, and most guys will like high heels or boots. You could treat yourself during the day with getting your hair or nails done, so YOU feel sexy. Also, try ditching the bra and panties, either at the beginning of the evening or part way through it. Hey, I'm a guy, but that works for me. lol There are lots of sites where you can look for sexy club dresses, etc. I assume if you are on this site that you have read a lot, but make sure to communicate with your hubby and make sure you are both on the same page. I personally love sharing my wife. Good luck and have fun!

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That's a good point. So what I'm looking to do is have a romantic fun night with my husband. This could mean just me and him, or maybe me him and another woman, or another man, or couple. As for outfits, our girls will be going to a christmas party in the evening so I was wanting to dress up for him. He's started getting interested in little girl type under wear but I'm also thinking christmas themed haha.

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Get a choker , I love it when my wife takes off all her clothes and all she has left on is a black velvet choker with a heart shaped diamante crystal, so sexy , oh and she leaves her boots on

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Get a choker , I love it when my wife takes off all her clothes and all she has left on is a black velvet choker with a heart shaped diamante crystal, so sexy , oh and she leaves her boots on

 

I love the idea of a choker, but he loves seeing me in lingerie too so I may add that to whatever outfit I find. Anyone have suggestions for sites to find naughty cute sexy stuff?

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Guest luvin eye full

Hey Loveslingerie,

 

Just a thought, have you guys actually done 3somes or full swap while in the same room or together?

 

If not you may want to have a talk with the old boy before you plan it - a lot of people think they can handle seeing there SO getting a good going over but it does not always work out that way.

 

I only bring it up because you say you want to do some thing special and fun - it would be a sad time if you guys found out that maybe staying to the open marriage (separate places) is the way to go.

 

Not to put a damper on your plans but just a thought.

 

Now as for what to wear, well myself I like old world Gothic styles with all the corsets and stuff, sadly my wife hates it lol. Looks like it's slutty elf again for me.

 

Regards

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Guest luvin eye full

So how did it go?

 

Hope it was all you guys wanted it to be.

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