First Group Sex in Four Years!

[Tadahiko 156]

Last friday night, my girlfriend Paula and I had sex with another couple! WOOHOO!

 

Now, that might not be a big deal to most of you guys, but it is to me. I was in a very openly sexy triad with two women for 20 years, until one wife left us five years ago and my other wife passed away 18 months later. Since November of 2015, I have been a relationship with a lovely, sexy lady who was vanilla but very swing-curious. I decided early on that I was not going to push her into anything. The preceeding four years had been hell on me, and I was not about to screw up a wonderful, lustful relationship by asking for more. Paula liked to talk about other partners a lot, perhaps even a bit fascinated by the idea. We invented group sex fantasies together while having sex, which she found a big turn-on, but I was suspicious that it would remain just talk.

 

Then, last week, Paula got a call from an old friend of hers. He he had been, at various times in her life, both a lover and a platonic friend, but he'd since moved away and married. Paula had previously identified him as someone she might be interested in swinging with. He called to say that he and his wife would be in town for a couple of days, and could we all meet for dinner? We agreed and met at an Italian resturant across town, near their hotel. I was meeting them for the frist time, so Paula took the driver's seat. She brought up my triad past and steered the conversation to things sexual, even reminding her friend about some of their sexual encounters. His wife responded with humor and curiousity, not offense. The wine kept flowing, and the other couple became more open about sharing their own sexual liberality, recounting some tales of same-room sex and some exhibitionistic encounters. By the time it was time to leave the resturant, Paula said we probably were not in a proper state to drive home, and should get a room at the hotel (even though I really don't drink and had only had one glass of wine!). "That is," she went on to say, "if you think separate rooms would be best." The guy immediately looked at his wife eagerly, and she agreed.

 

Following them to the hotel, Paula couldn't shut up. She was so excited, she took off her hose and panties in the car. Once we got to the room, the guy's wife immediately started taking her blouse off. From there on, there was no awkwardness, no crossed signals. We were all there to fuck one other and we all knew it. We guys first got blow jobs from our own partners, then at her friend's suggestion, the girls took turns licking each other's pussies. It was Paula's first time! We eventually took turns penetrating both ladies. (Yes, we used condoms with the other guy's girl.) We didn't end up staying overnight. About midnight, Paula and I decided to head for home.

 

Paula thought it was about the hottest thing she's ever done and says she wants to find a way to do it again. A day or two later she asked me, "Are you really not jealous about me wanting another guy's cock?" I said it truly didn't bother me in the least. She said that was incredibly freeing, and that I might have created a sex monster.

 

I can only hope, right?

[kikonkrome 843]

That's awesome!!

[EastInWest 1,524]

Following them to the hotel, Paula couldn't shut up. She was so excited, she took off her hose and panties in the car.

 

Hearing a woman get enthused about something like this is such a turn-on, in my opinion.

 

I'm really glad this went well for you, and congratulations to her on playing with another female!

[Scaredstiff 129]

That's a really great story , sounds like you've had a lot of ups and downs in your life and it's good to hear you're back on the up

[angelkin 1,326]

Congrats - hoping that your fun continues!!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I am happy for you and her.You deserve it!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

Sending my sincere wish for continued good times.

[Guest luvin eye full]

Tadahiko

 

I have to say - after reading this post and the one that lead to this i just want to jump though the screen and give you a big Man hug! ( just like a brother would )

 

I have no words that could even start to say how sorry. happy, hart broken, overjoyed i am for you from reading all that has happened.

 

I Truly hope for the best for you and the ones you love for now on.

 

Regards

[JohnandJane 17]

Way to go! Do keep us updated!

[Tadahiko 156]

Tadahiko

 

I have to say - after reading this post and the one that lead to this i just want to jump though the screen and give you a big Man hug! ( just like a brother would )

 

I have no words that could even start to say how sorry. happy, hart broken, overjoyed i am for you from reading all that has happened.

 

I Truly hope for the best for you and the ones you love for now on.

 

Regards

 

Consider that man hug returned heartily, bro.

[pete c 34]

I also started at that other roller coaster of a thread.

 

WOW!!!!!

 

Your life would make an interesting movie.

 

The denny's bathroom hooker story just about had me wanting to put a gun in my own mouth!!!!!!

 

I will keep reading your story. Hopefully no one else dies.

 

Good luck!

 

edit: Just noticed there hasn't been a post in well over a year. Hope all is well.

[Tadahiko 156]

Wow, have I really not been on here in two years? Okay-doke then, how about an update?

 

Paula and I are still together...sorta. I'd currently describe it as something between a cuckhold situation and an open relationship. With my encouragement, we began having group sex more frequently. These were usually MFF threesomes with a woman I had known for years, but Paula sometimes invited other men she was attracted to into our bedroom. I was totally cool with that, even though I much prefer having multiple women to play with. There was one particular co-worker, "Edward," that Paula had been interested in for a while. However, due to their work relationship was skittish about propositioning him for sex. With my encouragement, she eventually did, he was receptive, and we had a nice MMF threesome. Soon afterwards, Paula said she had developed real feelings for this guy, which she wanted to explore further. I thought it would be stupid and futile to insist she not. She started seeing him regularly, and soon started staying overnight at his apartment regularly. Since last spring, she has split her time between Edward's place and ours pretty evenly, even though she "officially" lives with me. I thought that eventually she would either choose me or Edward, but she seems to want to continue both relationships. I'm not sure I would choose this arrangement for myself, but I am happy enough not to give her an ultimatum or walk away. I must admit that Paula and I are probably having sex as often as we ever have. Paula explained to me that she finds the idea of shuttling between two men's beds much more erotic and romantic than fucking two men at once. Making love to one of us with the knowledge that she'd just had a tryst with the other that same day (even just a few hours earlier) really triggers her arousal, and it has led her to a heightened appetite for sex. She texts me explicit pictures her with Edward, which is admittedly pretty hot. She goes braless and pantiless fairly often now, which is new. The other day I came home to find her spread-eagle on our bed, still wearing her work clothes, playing with her bare pussy. She said she'd had a noon quickie with Edward and was hungry for more. Seeing her like that, I was happy to oblige. I, of course, am free to have other sex partners, but not having another "regular gal" limits me, because I don't really want to cruise for random partners. I have had a couple of one-night stands, and every once in a while I reconnect with our previous MFF partner (a woman from my old apartment complex that I've slept with on and off for many years), but she dates a lot of guys and she's only interested in hooking up when she's in-between relationships.

[GoldCoCouple 4,063]

Thanks for the follow up!

[Tadahiko 156]

So...I'm now single. Probably not too unexpected, huh? Most of you could see the writing on the wall, I suppose. But surprisingly, she didn't leave me for the other guy - it was for a career opportunity. At least, that's what she claims. She was offered a job out of state that she says came out of the blue, though I suspect that in reality she went hunting for it. In any case, she said she wanted to take this next step in life on her own, and I said okay. To be truthful, I'm glad she didn't ask me to go: Not only did I feel her behavior was really straining my affections, but I have developed a really special friendship with my adult son (and his family) that as his father I probably don't deserve. There's simply no way I would move away from them and give that up.

 

I think it will be good for me to be on my own , too. Not forever, but let's say "indefinitely." I have all these pieces of a personality...I'm not sure which ones are innate parts of me, and which are leftover junk some woman hung on me over the years. So, I sit writing this alone in a house with outdoor patio furniture in the living room and one bedroom completely empty. And for the first time in my life, the quiet doesn't feel bad or wrong. I don't feel incomplete. As part of that, I plan to stop fucking...for a while at least. Since before I was of legal age, I've ether been in a full-on physical relationship with a girl, or I was actively chasing after my next sex partner - both simultaneously at a few points along the way. I've been celibate three times as an adult: first while I was on a one-year assignment overseas (but with lots of three-way phone sex to make up for it, so that doesn't really count), then for a few months after my first marriage fell apart, and finally during most of my second wife's 10-month cancer battle. All of these were thrust upon my against my will. I have never, ever, voluntarily NOT sought pussy. At 47 years old, I think it's time to re-center a bit and get to know myself more before I go get distracted chasing skirts again.

 

So this is where I will end my involvement with Swingers Board. I spent some time this evening reading back through nearly every post I've made here, including the early ones my first wife actually wrote most of. Frankly, a lot of it makes me cringe. So I'm going to say goodbye to this record of my past and not look back.

 

Y'all hang tough and be excellent to each other.

[Kkris 18]

Wow...what a post...

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

Will miss you. But if you ever hear the call again, do not hesitate to return. I'm pleased to read that you and Paula are parting amicably.