Finding single females to attend events with

[Bobk1 15]

Hi. I just joined. Any suggestions on where to find a fun woman to attend swingers events with.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

Hello, Bobk1, and welcome to SwingersBoard!

 

You might want to start by joining one of the Web sites for helping swingers to meet, such as SLS, SDC, SZC, Swingtowns, APG, Kasidie, or Quiver. Put together an interesting profile that tells a little about you, and shows you to be an interesting, respectful, considerate, three-dimensional person.

 

Be aware that single guys have something of a reputation, often undeserved, for being inconsiderate, disrespectful Neanderthals, and this is something you'll need to combat with gentlemanly manners, patience, and a thick skin!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

Single men have a place in the swing lifestyle. My wife and I know this as a fact owing to the fact that we know a few of them. But you must, as mentioned above, distinguish yourself. I recommend to any new member to read the Swinging Single forum.

[padoc 1,704]

So many single males looking for sex think calling themselves a swinger actually enhances their chances. Fact is, there are way more single guys than the swingers market can accommodate. You'll do oh so much better cruising bars or clubs or setting up a profile on Match.

[kikonkrome 844]

Date? I mean before I met my wife I was having a pretty wild time dating. Eventually you will find somebody that you are both sexually and emotionally compatible with.

 

Good Luck have Fun!!

[cplnuswing 4,713]

All of the above is right on the money...there is a place in swinging for single guys, but if swinging=sex in your mind, then there are easier ways to get sex than swinging. Swinging sex is a different thing in terms of mindset, and I think that is where a lot of single guys go wrong from the very start.

 

The ones to who that mindset is part of the attraction, and they are willing to put in the extra work that swinging sex entails and know their role in it, then they will do fine. The ones who don't are soon sorely disappointed when reality doesn't meet expectations.

[Alura 2,775]

How many times have we had a single man ask how to find a single woman to go to swinging events posing as man and wife? This defies the philosophy of swinging.

 

If swinging (not just the sexual part) is interesting to you, you must find an interested woman, get to know her, develop a fear-free relationship with her, learn to communicate until you understand her at depth and she understands you just as well, and marry her.

 

Only then will you fully understand what swinging really entails. Until that time you will be a basketball player trying to succeed on the football field.

 

If you're not willing to do all that, resign yourself to waiting in line until a couple decides they want to have a threesome, checks out a slew of single guys and chooses you out of all the others.