When you have an erotic dream, who is in it?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I awoke this morning and remembered vividly an erotic dream. And it has me wondering about some things. The 'people' I see in my erotic dreams are not the people I know during my waking hours. But neither are they faceless. They have recognizable human features. And mine are not recurrent dreams. Different 'people' and different situations in each dream.

 

Who appears in your erotic dreams?

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Good subject.

 

The short answer is "Both". Some are women I don't recognize, some are women I know quite well.

 

Now among those I do know, some are women that I have never really considered in a sexual way. Mostly from my career, where I've been very successful at separating my sexual appetite from my paycheck.

 

Here's the weird thing: Some of them have been women that I really didn't like in real life. These have been women that have personalities that really grate on my nerves, but for some reason, there we are in my dreams fucking like rabbits.

 

Usually my first thought when I wake up is "WTF?"

[Eddiem 139]

I awoke this morning and remembered vividly an erotic dream. And it has me wondering about some things. The 'people' I see in my erotic dreams are not the people I know during my waking hours. But neither are they faceless. They have recognizable human features. And mine are not recurrent dreams. Different 'people' and different situations in each dream.

 

Who appears in your erotic dreams?

It is said that these are people you may have passed in the store, shopping centre, their faces are combined so you cannot and do not recognize them.

 

That being said... Me... I of late have fantasized more about my better half (wife) being sexually pleased by another male, someone I know. Highly erotic.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Here's the weird thing: Some of them have been women that I really didn't like in real life. These have been women that have personalities that really grate on my nerves, but for some reason, there we are in my dreams fucking like rabbits.

 

Usually my first thought when I wake up is "WTF?"

 

I remember one like this. Some blond I knew for a few years, she was not unattractive but also of absolutely no interest, to the point that if she came on to me I'd have had to let her down. Sure enough, one night I had a very intense dream where I had her pinned down and was balls-deep with no condom, legs wrapped around me, sweating, screaming, digging at my back with her nails. Both of us nearly cumming woke me up. I've never had or seen an orgasm in a dream, always wakes me up.

 

"WTF", for sure. No explaining it. These days it's pretty unusual for the woman to be anyone other than Mrs. EastInWest. Men are never anyone specific/significant, that I recall.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

When I was younger, I almost always remembered my dreams, both sexual and nonsexual. Now, it's the opposite, I almost never remember them, which is actually kinda disappointing.

 

Based on the few I do remember, or at least parts of, it's either 1) the sort of composite character that others have mentioned, it's like you know them but can't really put your finger on from where, or 2) someone from everyday life that you know very well, those seem less common.

[asncpl 729]

When I was younger, I almost always remembered my dreams, both sexual and nonsexual. Now, it's the opposite, I almost never remember them, which is actually kinda disappointing.

 

Dreams are easier to remember when you wake up in the middle of it. Maybe you are more tired nowadays and sleep more deeply.

 

Mine is frequently a figment of my imagination. We tend to dream about the last thing we see before going to bed, and since I like to watch tv until I get sleepy, it's common for my erotic dreams to have whatever hot guy I saw on tv before going to bed, or at least a partial recreation of him...or her.

[JandKinBoise 858]

I have had very few sex dreams. The ones I do have, I always wake up before penetration and the women in my dreams are strangers and strange. Mostly really sketchy tweeker types. I'm glad the dreams are rare and I don't actually bang them.