Not using a condom

[BRIZZA73 43]

Hi guys, My wife and I have a regular couple that we meet up with and over the past six months we have started not to use condom in our play sessions. We are comfortable with the fact that they are our only full swap partners and vice versa.

 

I do enjoying cumming inside both Heather my wife and Marie as do they enjoy the feeling of taking mine or Jan's load. I also enjoy fucking them when Jan has already cum inside as the warm and wetness make it even more pleasurable. I have on occasions eaten the girls out after I have cum in them and last weekend during a session I went down on Maria after Jan had filled her. I am little confused by this as I enjoyed it immensely, something I didn't think I would.

 

I would be interested to hear others views.

[JandKinBoise 859]

To me it sounds like you 4 have reached a new level of intimacy. At first, playing without condoms was probably a little taboo and added excitement. Congratulations on getting to that point.

Enjoying something like what you wrote can come as a shock as it is associated with 'gay'. I'm sure the thought "If I like eating cum, am I gay?" has been in your head. Nope, just enjoying a sexual and emotional relationship with close friends that you are very comfortable with. Stop worrying and enjoy this time! Embrace the change and new open mind.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I agree, everyone involved are consenting adults and all are enjoying themselves, so if you have discovered that something feels good even though you didn't think it would, then don't worry so much about the why, just relax and enjoy.

[oc1234 435]

You 4 seem very normal to my wife and me. Enjoy it to the fullest and don't try to over think it.

[asncpl 730]

My husband enjoys the same thing and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I've known plenty of other men who also like it. It's playful, erotic, and intimate. We all have our kinks, and as long as you enjoy it and get pleasure from it, I say stop worrying and happy eating!

[Guest]

It is one of the advantages of having regular partners or doing friends or even relatives. Naturally, there are disadvantages, too.

[BRIZZA73 43]

Thanks to all for your comments it's good to know that people are very supportive.

[Gab32421 25]

Hi guys, My wife and I have a regular couple that we meet up with and over the past six months we have started not to use condom in our play sessions. We are comfortable with the fact that they are our only full swap partners and vice versa.

 

I do enjoying cumming inside both Heather my wife and Marie as do they enjoy the feeling of taking mine or Jan's load. I also enjoy fucking them when Jan has already cum inside as the warm and wetness make it even more pleasurable. I have on occasions eaten the girls out after I have cum in them and last weekend during a session I went down on Maria after Jan had filled her. I am little confused by this as I enjoyed it immensely, something I didn't think I would.

 

I would be interested to hear others views.

 

Just curious, who initiated going bareback, you or your wife?

[AR1547 131]

It is one of the advantages of having regular partners or doing friends *or even relatives*. Naturally, there are disadvantages, too.

 

 

 

Emphasis mine.

 

 

Wait a damn minute....

 

 

 

WTF

 

Seriously?

[njbm 2,899]

I caught that. And I also wondered what that meant.

[EastInWest 1,524]

I read that as "in-laws". I'm assuming that's what chiccouplexx meant.

[BRIZZA73 43]

Just curious, who initiated going bareback, you or your wife?

 

It was actually Marie our dutch friend. We had, the 4 of us talked about our previous sex partners and that we had a good clean history. Then during a play session Marie said that if i wanted and Heather was okay with it i could fuck her without the condom. I didn't cum in her though at that point (In heather mouth if i remember:blush: ) The next again time we where fucking though, she ask me to cum in her. I looked over at Heather, who was getting eaten out by Jan and by the way she started to respond i realised it would also be a turn on for her. So that was it. After Marie and i had finished Jan and Heather were still at it. Her sucking on his cock. She looked over to me and said that she wanted to ride him. I realised she meant bareback and i just smiled and reach over and Kissed her. Then she lowered herself on his cock and started to ride him like hell. It wasn't long before they both started to cum and i could see that Jan was loving the fact he was going to shoot inside my wife and also that Heather was eager for it. It was a wonderful night as we fucked again, me Marie and Jan my wife knowing that we now had no restrictions.

 

The first time i entered my wife after Jan had cum in her was a while later but was also amazing experience.

[BRIZZA73 43]

yes, relatives what's the story there?

[Guest]

yes, relatives what's the story there?

 

In-laws was what passed my mind at the time.

[eddy69 15]

relatives? that sounds even sweeter. it's getting them to accept that is the bigger problem. as for condoms, neither me nor my wife enjoy sex with condom. it's been a worrying thing for us, particularly when we are yet to experience a session, so far

[PSULioness 859]

I am single living with my boyfriend. I have been on birth control since my teens. When first going on BC I was pretty free to what the guy wanted. I didn't advertise that I was on birth control so most guys used condoms. The same thing in college but there if it was our first or second date all men used. Now being with just one man we of course are passed that safety issue until our recent sex encounter with my girlfriend. Being we didn't have condoms none were used.

[padoc 1,704]

We use condoms religiously (I love using that word in regard to our hobby) if we play at Trapeze. Otherwise, our vetting process has proven better than the governments and we go bareback with select friends. Our condom use has decreased as we've refined our selection process over the years. Also, we are past reproductive age as are most couples we meet so, other than fear of disease, there is no real reason to require their use. Sex with friends is better bare.

[njbm 2,899]

Sex is better bare, but many people have HSV and/or HPV and they either do not know it or will not tell you about it. Condoms are not totally effective against these viruses, but they improve your chances. All due respect to others' preferences and practices, but we are yet to see one of these little critters in our vetting process, but we know people who have encountered them. A large percentage of the population have these viruses, probably higher among swingers. We just like to be realistic.

[padoc 1,704]

Good for you!!

[qhg11586 16]

Don't use.

[BRIZZA73 43]

thanks again to all who have responded. Heather and I are very grateful for the support. We have only just driven Jan and Marie to the airport after they have been over since Thursday. Needless to say it was an amazing weekend and not a condom in sight.

[branden2388 26]

It's pretty safe to ditch condoms if you are only playing with very few (like 2 to 3) partners in a closed circle. My circle consists only of 2 widows in their 60s and an elderly couple, all of whom I play with separately. As the other man has lost much of his libido and has erection problems, he doesn't always enter his wife in every encounter and whenever he does so, his thrusting is shallow and he doesn't last long and seldom cum. So I am basically the guy who does the bulk of the penetrations, thrusting and cumming. The thing about women who have passed their fertile age is that they tend to prefer bareback sex and creampies. I guess this is the norm for them when they have sex with their husbands, so they just continue doing so in their later years.     

[AdamGunn2 417]

5 hours ago, branden2388 said:

It's pretty safe to ditch condoms if you are only playing with very few (like 2 to 3) partners in a closed circle. 

My question would be, "How can you be sure it's closed?"

[lcmim 1,086]

AdamGunn2 said:  "My question would be, "How can you be sure it's closed?"

 

That is the same as in a marriage only with more dimensions.

[Numex 2,457]

On 11/9/2024 at 10:32 AM, branden2388 said:

It's pretty safe to ditch condoms if you are only playing with very few (like 2 to 3) partners in a closed circle.

 

21 hours ago, AdamGunn2 said:

My question would be, "How can you be sure it's closed?"

 

8 hours ago, lcmim said:

That is the same as in a marriage only with more dimensions.

In our closed group of seven married couples, we feel confident that our circle is closed for several reasons. We are very serious and all agree that if someone went outside the group, the consequences would be harsh, even illegally harsh. If you want to play outside the group that's ok, but you need to say so and leave the group. Coming back would be the same as joining, testing, testing and monogamy for a while. Second, we believe that cheating on the group is less likely to occur that a vanilla couple cheating because everyone is getting all the sex and sexual variety that they can handle.

[ConfusedHubby 129]

Swinging with condoms verses without feel almost like entirely different sports.  We much prefer establishing friendships and closeness with other couples and moving towards bare.  Ideally, sex with condoms is just for the 'getting to know you' phase with LS friends.  

 

The intimacy, excitement and connection are just so much more intense without that barrier!

 

 

[branden2388 26]

On 11/10/2024 at 7:10 AM, AdamGunn2 said:

My question would be, "How can you be sure it's closed?"

The most important thing in any relationship is having trust and both partners being open with one another. All parties have reached the understanding on the frequency of sex that they  desire and are comfortable with at the onset, so I can say with certainty that everyone in my loop are satisfied with the current arrangement. There is really no need for anyone to look for sex outside of the loop.

[AdamGunn2 417]

Branden,

 

I've reread all of your posts, and if you really feel that these two widows and one married lady in her sixties is committed to you, and you only, well, the best of luck to you.

 

You made a statement that "These are either widows or divorcees who still have strong sexual desires but are generally overlooked by men of all ages." While a woman in her sixties is unlikely to be approached by much younger men, there are plenty of men of later years who are searching for sex. Trust me on that one . . .

[Owen_007 4]

We usually use condom unless it is a safe period. Here is an audio session we recorded a while ago. Our friend cum inside first and then I took over. My wife didn't wipe it out before I started. We knew each other very well so we are comfortable on this. If it is someone who we barely know, we won't.

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1c6ACN22c6Voj77IMPkKaVT-st9kGjfvM/view?usp=sharing

[David Lovell 165]

Bareback is the epitome of swinging. When we began swinging we played with just one couple. Both the girls used contraception.  My wife Amy has IUD and Lesley my partner took the pill. Amy has stuck to one playmate since she detests condoms.  I can tolerate using acondom but look forward to bareback sex wih my playmates once we have become familiar. Amy and i don't go to swinger clubs or participate in orgies. We both look dforward to seconds.

 

[AdamGunn2 417]

5 hours ago, David Lovell said:

Bareback is the epitome of swinging. 

 

Ah, I don't know.  There's lots of ways to do swinging, and if a couple or person wants to use condoms for either pregnancy avoidance or to protect themselves from STDs, I feel they are doing it properly.

[Starting late 129]

When we first started, we only had a few chance encounters with random people, so definitely condoms were a must.

 

We're now in a group with just another couple, and an occasional single woman, and we all agreed to go without condoms. The single woman aspect is tricky since she is not with us all the time, but we feel she's been honest about her sex life, and she tests frequently.

 

We've only recently started experimenting with the husbands and cum. Personally I love being cum on, and especially love it when my husband is still going after the other hubby cums on me. But sloppy seconds is a newfound joy! And my husband, who was very, very shy about touching any fluids in the beginning, has loved the sloppy 2nds, and also enjoyed eating creampies or off my boobs. Of course I don't judge him for that, in fact it's a huge turn on for me that he has dropped his inhibitions, and will try anything that he thinks turns me on. Great viscous circle!  He does lose his desire to eat/play with cum after he has cum, which is understandable, although a bit of a double standard. There are many times when I'm "done" but continue to play, for the fun of it for me, and also for everyone involved.

 

To each their own, and it's been my experience that our tastes and desires change the more experiences we have in the lifestyle.

[dosmasdos 3]

On 1/21/2017 at 10:31 AM, BRIZZA73 said:

The first time i entered my wife after Jan had cum in her was a while later but was also amazing experience.

We always wonder how couples decide to play without C, is it largely planned before it happens? or during the heat of the moment with a small nod? what about the first sloppy2? It would be great if you can share some of your experiences :D

[Half MT 239]

We discussed condom use before we met others online. Prior to our first swing my only sex was with my husband and we never used a condom so we bought some and tried it at home. We laughed about the whole thing trying to roll it on. I can’t say it felt different, it was more a mood breaker. 
Since meeting others we aren’t using even if we know it’s riskier. One poster on here states she enjoys knowing something is swimming in her, I enjoy the feeling of a man squirting just like I know the men enjoy me squirting. Is it a physical or psychological feeling of the man unloading  or is it the after when I enjoy the wife licking it up. It’s all part of the fun we are having. 

[Numex 2,457]

On 12/18/2024 at 7:52 AM, Half MT said:

s it a physical or psychological feeling of the man unloading  or is it the after when I enjoy the wife licking it up.

Both.