Lying About Your Age In Your Swinging Profile

[kikonkrome 843]

Last night we were chatting with a lady online that we thought was interesting.

 

We obviously asked for a face pic of her and her husband. It became painfully apparent that although they were a nice looking couple, she was lying about their age by at least ten years, and if I was to hazard a guess 15 years or more. I mean it was really egregious. I am not sure exactly what they are thinking.

 

Since this whole thing gets built on trust I am really pretty appalled. Frankly, if you are ready to lie to us in that regard, what happens next? Kinda feel me on this?

 

We are spot on with our age in our profile, and I can see shaving of five? But ten or fifteen, do you really think people are that oblivious, or you are that good looking? I do not know no maybe I am being too offended by this, but I got admit, I am pretty offended.

 

I was wondering who else has run into this, and how they feel?

 

Maybe I just needed to vent.

 

Maybe I just needed to let this be a warning. If you are misreporting your age, it is painfully obvious. Don't do it.

[GoldCoCouple 4,063]

The same goes for people who use old pictures in their profile. The goal is to actually meet at some point...do you think we wouldn't notice that you don't look anything like your picture? We expect you to be just as honest as we are (which is completely honest). If you feel the need to lie from the start, then we can never trust you to be honest...game over, next, here's some wonderful parting gifts...Don, tell them what they've won, next contestant please.

[Scaredstiff 129]

I don't understand why people do it, we've seen tons of profiles where they are clearly older than stated, my worst nightmare is turning up to a meet and have people be disappointed with me haha, obvious I know but although we try and sell ourselves on our profile we also play it down a little , we wrote a little bit about each other and she wrote about me " he has the most incredible leg muscles"

My legs are nice I admit but I insisted on editing it to something more modest as I had visions of people looking me up and down and turning up their nose when they noticed I didn't look like a 21 year old Arnold shwarzenegger

[Scaredstiff 129]

We had a couple contact us last week who were late forties, nice looking but they had no profile pictures, they sent a face pic though. Their profile seemed well written and what we were looking for so I gave them a little grace, we normally don't bother with profiles without at least a few pictures but they had only joined a few days earlier so I asked if they would be uploading any.

 

A few hours later they messaged to say they had uploaded some pics so we checked them out.

Pic1 20 year old woman in lingerie professionally shot

Pic2 guy modelling a hoody unzipped professionally shot, ripped abs

Pic3 different girl but still 20 something modelling lingerie

 

I got suspicious so did a reverse image search on Google and yeah all the pics had been lifted from lingerie store websites.

 

I messaged them to say they were busted!

But they messaged back saying I'm an idiot because she is a lingerie model.

 

OK

 

Whatever

[njbm 2,860]

We have met people who say they are younger than us and they have to be ten years older. We really don't care how old our partners are as long as we can get a four way attraction. We do like to play in our general age group.

[padoc 1,701]

We have had several occasions where we have met a couple from one of the websites who turned out to be 15 years or so older and 30 lbs heavier and both smokers. How they thought we wouldn't notice the difference or the stale stale smoke odor defies logic but it happens. Most of our pictures are fairly recent and we make sure that the initial emails stipulate that we are fighting a long term battle with old and ugly and have yet to surrender. That's as honest as we can be.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

Have experienced this unhappy situation the other way around. The people had 65 and 69 years of age in their profile but the picture resembled a young John Travolta and Olivia Newton John on disco dress. We know there was something wrong.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

It sounds like these people are all trying to deceive, but I do think it is odd that swing sites don't update ages automatically each year. A lot of people we know have never updated their profiles, some even have been online 10 years. They are active in the lifestyle and just don't worry about their profile.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

It sounds like these people are all trying to deceive, but I do think it is odd that swing sites don't update ages automatically each year. A lot of people we know have never updated their profiles, some even have been online 10 years. They are active in the lifestyle and just don't worry about their profile.

Yeah, I also wonder why the sites don't do people the favor of updating the age in profiles.

 

I have also seen many profiles that haven't been updated in a long time. My favorite is the profile that talks about people being newbies, but the profile is 10 years old. What are we to do with that? Newbies in spirit still, or old hands who have neglected their profile?

[SA_NewtoLS 163]

Sometimes I wonder if people aren't actually doing this stuff to really meet people. As others said, the goal, for us at least, is to meet. When we do, we will immediately realize you basically lied to us. For that reason, it leads me to think that at least some of the people doing this online are not actually planning on meeting people, they are just getting some thrill out of talking to other people online and looking at sexy pics together, if they are even really a couple at all and not just some random guy with fake wife pics.

 

It gets annoying, but that's the anonymity of the internet for you. There are plenty of others that are telling the truth on there, it's just finding them in the sea of fakers and flakes.

[gisade 20]

If theyre lying about their age during chats, then there is little doubt that they have no real intention of a meet