Does penis size have an impact on getting chosen?

[bigmac08 16]

My wife and I are curious and are looking into getting started. I'm on the bigger (girthier) side and my wife is concerned if she will feel left out. Any help would be appreciated.

[sweetsnspeed 52]

Guess that would depend. Are you looking for a MFM, FMF, or couple swap (soft or full)? If you two are on the same page and make sure that it's a package deal (both her and you together), and that everyone plays or no one plays, then she shouldn't feel left out. Or do you mean that will she not enjoy it if the male from the other couple is not as big as you?

[SA_NewtoLS 163]

I seriously doubt the wife will feel left out, even if you are huge. Typically in the lifestyle, the women always get more attention and typically they are the ones in control as well. My wife was a little worried before we got in to this as well, because she feels she is overweight and that I have a magnificent cock. Talking to couples online though, she gets the attention, I don't. Nothing to worry about really.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Some of it may be a function of how we find partners and play, but I can't think of a time that either one of us has seen "the goods" before we had already decided we wanted to play. I guess in a group playroom puppy pile sort of scenario that could theoretically happen, but I think for the majority of hookups the decision gets made while the clothes are still on.

 

SA_NewtoLS is right, you could be hung down to your knees, and your wife is still going to get more attention. The ladies drive the lifestyle, it's an absolute fact.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I agree with everyone else. Cock size has very little to do with initial interest. Most people learn if there is chemistry while they are still clothed. Depending on your skills you may or may not have women who are interested in being ongoing play partners.

[cpl36996 91]

Not, mostly cause your brain.

[kikonkrome 844]

Your wife has nothing to worry about, she will be get a ton more attention than you, even if you look like Fabio, and are hung like John Holmes!!!

[Guest]

Perhaps if the hubby is choosing for his wife.