katcha 28 Posted February 24, 2017 New here....and a question. My gf's daughter has a best friend, whose Mom is single. She and K went out for dinner and drinks one evening, and her friend made leading remarks - like she wanted K to know she was into swinging! After K figured it out and directly mentioned swinger clubs, and that she and I have gone, it opened their conversation a little. I am not sure why her friend dropped strong hints to lead K to know what she was speaking of. Any thoughts on why her friend would have done that? Quote Share this post Link to post
Miss_Piggy 98 Posted February 25, 2017 Any thoughts on why her friend would have done that? Did K order chicken? Who knows? How secretive are you? Do you have an online ad? Maybe you guys give off some sort of "vibe"? Quote Share this post Link to post
katcha 28 Posted February 25, 2017 We are secretive about it, and we don't have an ad. Perhaps it is a vibe...... Quote Share this post Link to post
DjRayder 43 Posted February 25, 2017 From my two cents some people give hints to potential partners. If they get the joke or hint then they know a little bit of the lifestyle which shows interest and press a little more. And also some people give off that vibe as you stated. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted February 27, 2017 As long as she isn't judging or outing the two of you, does it really matter? Maybe she's curious or heard or suspected something and just wanted to know. One way to find out is for K to just ask her... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
katcha 28 Posted February 27, 2017 As long as she isn't judging or outing the two of you, does it really matter? Maybe she's curious or heard or suspected something and just wanted to know. One way to find out is for K to just ask her... Hi.....no, it's not that at all. She opened up to K as soon as she knew we were open to the LS. She told K about her experiences at a local nudist colony and some swinger clubs. She mentioned that she hosts a party once a month for a group that meets to explore and have adult fun. Quote Share this post Link to post
funcoupledayton 2,708 Posted February 27, 2017 You know why she brought it up then. She is a swinger and wanted to see if your wife was interested in the lifestyle. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post