Guest slowhandalbanyg Posted February 25, 2017 What is the best site for a married man who has no partner and is living in a rural community? Most sites invite "ALL" to join yet the site is dominated by the word, "Single." I am flexible in that one on one or group sex has always worked well for me. Many sties outright reject married people. I have never seen what should be a required profile question that requires a yes or no answer. It is, "Are you willing to date a married person?" This simple answered question would greatly reduce unwanted requests to talk from those who are married and swing without a partner. In submitting this post I may find out if this site accepts or rejects those of us who are married and have no partner. Any suggestions for us married men will be appreciated. Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnuswing 4,713 Posted February 26, 2017 First off, welcome to the Swingers Board! I'm a little confused myself on exactly what the scenario is here, and without knowing that, it's hard to provide much advice. So are you married and doing this without her knowledge or permission, or is this some kind of hall pass arrangement since you travel for work for extended periods or something like that and so aren't living together, or some other thing? In general, I would say if it's some sort of hall pass thing, then the swinging personals sites might work, but don't be surprised if people want to communicate with her too to verify what they are being told. If it's not, then you'll be better off at any of the Ashley Madison type sites than you would a swingers site. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted February 27, 2017 We're confused as well. Either you have a partner or you are single (unless you are just not living with your partner???). No matter what the situation is, from the information you provided maybe Ashley Madison. Cheating has nothing to do with swinging. Quote Share this post Link to post
padoc 1,704 Posted February 27, 2017 You could be a single male, a married cheater or married with a hall pass (VERY rare in our experience). Whichever you are, you bring nothing to the table (or bed) except an extra penis. There is a relatively small demand for extra penises and an incredibly large supply so your odds are not very good. Most legitimate swinger sites permit single males and swinger specific sites are where, by definition, you'd find couples possibly interested in that extra penis. Still, it's a buyers market. You asked for suggestions, here's one: discuss swinging with your spouse. You'd have much better luck fulfilling whatever fantasies you have with her than without her. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
SA_NewtoLS 163 Posted February 27, 2017 Also very confused. Not too sure what married but without a partner even means. If you are married then you have a partner, it's the person you are married to. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Miss_Piggy 98 Posted February 28, 2017 Sound like a pretty creative euphemism. Married partner-free swinger. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post