Feelings about oral vs penetration

[katcha 28]

Hi.....newbie here.

 

As I mentioned in other threads, K and I are pretty new to the scene. All of your insight is appreciated!

 

One time at a club, we were in the play area doing our own thing. Shortly other couples were around us. One couple in particular was close, and he seemed interested in K, and they were close enough they touched hands. I took K's hand and put it in his.

 

We had agreed before going to the club, we would not get involved with other couples. In this situation though, I asked her if she wanted to give him a bj....to which she said 'Yes'.

 

She went doggy style, and I fucked her for a few minutes while she gave him a bj. Needless to say, I was extremely turned on.

 

My question (sorry for being so long), did any men find it more difficult to watch her fucking another man the first time than it was to watch her give him a bj? I ask because I want to be as prepared as possible.

 

Many thanks..

 

C

[njbm 2,881]

Neither bothered me. But no one can tell you how you will react. You have to experience it yourself.

[Guest slowhandalbanyg]

Many people prefer non intercourse sex because they feel that most negatives from sex is from intercourse. My proof is in the fact that the majority of condom sex is intercourse sex. Most who practice safe sex will do unprotected oral but before intercourse starts the condom goes on. I could write a book about this but I am not trying to change the subject with this post.

[Guest]

This is the male half speaking. On our first time, I was turned on with the ease at which she began sucking him, first when we were all standing, just getting started and she went down on him then turned and sucked me and then when we were in bed, me fucking her from behind. But, I did have second thoughts when he slipped his dick into her and began fucking. Then, I felt an intensity to her bj that I had never felt before and decided it was all well worth it to see (and feel) her so turned on.

[JandKinBoise 858]

I will say, going into this caused me a ton of stress as I know that I am not good at handling strong emotional rushes. I thought there was a 50-50 chance of not being cool with this at all. Our first mmf, she started with oral, I was fine, when he penetrated her, I was fine. Actually feeling proud of her to have the courage to do this.

Timing had a lot to do with it. If you have insecurities in your relationship, they may come to the surface doing this. BUT..if you were cool with her blowing a guy, I'll bet you'll be fine with screwing as well.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Oral and intercourse, neither one bothered me at all.

[katcha 28]

Thanks all so far.....we have a strong relationship with lots of conversation and this insight really helps.

 

C

[oc1234 435]

Neither has bothered me at all either, but I am much more turned on by watching her have intercourse with another man than watching her have oral with him. My wife and I believe oral is more foreplay. We both enjoy it but the goal is intercourse.