Best Swinger Dating/Personal Site for Newbie Single Male?

[TheGraduate 15]

I'm a young single male just starting out in the lifestyle.

 

I was wondering what would probably be the best swinger dating/personal website out there for someone in my category?

 

Also I was wondering has anyone found Swing Lifestyle useful?

 

Pardon my ignorance ?

[Tikiandclown 42]

Out of all of them my wife and I enjoy Swingtowns the most it just seems to be a bit more personal and to be honest it's 8 bucks a month

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I recommend SLS for anybody having your geographical location. As far as your age range is concerned, based upon the relatively small number of "certifications" that young single men seem to receive at that Web site, you should not expect immediate success. Now, having said that, I will also say that I have a strong suspicion no swinger-hookup Web site will afford quick results for a young male person.

[Arcana 23]

TheGraduate said:

I'm a young single male just starting out in the lifestyle.

 

I was wondering what would probably be the best swinger dating/personal website out there for someone in my category?

 

Also I was wondering has anyone found Swing Lifestyle useful?

 

Pardon my ignorance ?

 

Hi TheGraduate, we some guy we met on Badoo, SC and SpicyMatch

[Guest]

It depends on your goals.

 

If you just want to have sex with more women, then join a general dating site.

 

General dating sites these days have LOTS of single women on them, some of them are looking for full on relationships and to fall in love, many of them however are just looking for dates, fun, sex. So if all you want is to sleep with new women then try the normal dating sites and look for women who have a similar interest and who are not looking for big proper relationships.

 

 

If however you are really interested in the group sex / swinging lifestyle then there are plenty of sites out there to try.

[larry818 58]

If you do use SLS, don't pay them anything. I was on there for years as a free member, met some people, and then I decided to pay them for a lifetime membership. They immediately disabled my account saying our profile wasn't swingery enough. I tried updating the profile a couple of times, but it became clear they weren't gonna re-enable the membership, so I asked for the $ back and they just said no.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

SLS might not have been comfortable for you but seems to work for many single men — some of whom contacted my wife and I using their facilities and with whom we have developed worthwhile relationships.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

SLS has worked well for us for years now and while not the slickest most modern site, they've got a leg up on the other sites in terms of what's most important...people.

 

No idea about profiles that aren't "swingery" enough being taken down. I've seen plenty of profiles on there that are dang near blank and they are still up and running.

[iHustle 16]

I'm a young single male just starting out in the lifestyle.

 

I was wondering what would probably be the best swinger dating/personal website out there for someone in my catagory?

 

Also I was wondering has anyone found Swing Lifestyle useful?

 

Pardon my ignorance :/

 

I've had insane results with SeekingArrangements. It's a little spendy, but the women are gorgeous and super engaging if you're not a total ass. If I was single I'd be all over it still.

[njbm 2,871]

SLS is good in the New York metro area, but for Florida, we find SDC better. Washington State is out of our area code.

[cplnluv1 872]

I think you should look outside the box so to say. You could check places like Craigslist. There plenty of ads but many are phony. There are also parties advertised. You will pay a premium as a single male. There are clubs that allow single men. You can check cuckold sites and ads. You have to find what makes you different than all the other guys who are more than willing. If you can find a female to join you it will make it easier finding a couple. Be warned, we advertised on CL for a F or couple and got tons of single guys write. We have seen too many pictures of guys.

We are somewhat unorthodox in that we have picked up men in hotel bars. They weren’t looking.

[mammothBBC 16]

SDC has been great for me, but it seems the lifestyle sites are more regional. YMMY

[foxnhound714 18]

Whats a good site for a married couple in the southeast USA?

[adamgunn 1,460]

Foxhound, the big three are Swinglifestyle, Kasidie and SDC. There's a somewhat recent thread that says which one is best for which cities, search around an you'll find it.

 

Best of luck!

[padoc 1,703]

SLS and SDC have proven to be very useful for us especially once we moved to Florida. The OP says he's in DC. One site we used often when we lived in the northeast I-95 corridor is Alt Playground (APG). Its primary focus are the big cities between DC and probably Hartford. Lots of attractive and playful couples!

[Villemms 0]

To be honest, I don't recommend any dating platforms. There are a couple of proven swinger dating/personal websites that I think you already know. However, such platforms as Tinder or Badoo are really disgusting. There I met a pervert who really scared me. I spent 1 night with him and I wanted to end our relationship at that momet, but he didn't understand it. In the end, I had to ask my ex-husband's to help to get this crazy guy off my back. As it turned out later, he showed me in this way his care and love. He even watched some romantic moovies after our "breakup". This guy was really in love with me, 

[NoAngels 334]

If you are looking to meet married women alone try a site like Ashley Madison or One Night Fling. I am not a member, my wife is. She has been on AM for years, not wanting relationships, only sex. Being most of the women are married the odds of ongoing long term relationships are negligible. From what I have read most of the women just want something new, a boy toy. 
Just realized this post is 4 years old, the original poster either found what he wanted or didn’t. 

[Aircoffee 27]

Yeah get on ashley madison.  Perhaps it will get compromised again and all the married cheaters will get put on blast again.  ???.  

[NoAngels 334]

1 hour ago, Aircoffee said:

Yeah get on ashley madison.  Perhaps it will get compromised again and all the married cheaters will get put on blast again.  ???.  

He is single, not a cheater. My wife is not cheating, I have full knowledge. Do you think any site or app is secure?

[Aircoffee 27]

Sorry about that.  Was having a bad day but didn’t know how to delete my comment