Wife swinging alone

[PandO 103]

Hi everyone,

 

It's been about two years, I think, since we had our first swinging experience with a couple. We posted that experience in a thread on this board. Since then, we had our 4th child and we didn't really have any free time to go have any more fun. Mrs P was a full time mom at home raising children.

 

Anyway, recently, Mrs P started working, she made some friends at work that she started to go out with once a week. After all the crap she had to deal with concerning kids, I thought she deserved it. However, my kinky side always imagined her flirting with other guys while she was out and my imagination would be just going wild. I watched some porn, read the hotwife posts on the forums, and fantasized about her going out with other guys and having sex with them.

 

Naturally, eventually I asked her if she would have wanted to do that. At first she was kinda saying it would be fun but I don't think she really thought I was serious. After I brought it up a few more times, she realized that I was serious and she started thinking about it. She had a hard time trying to act indifferent to the thought, but I could tell that the idea was exciting to her.

 

Anyway, she made a profile on a dating app and she started looking for guys. It didn't take long before one guy caught her imagination. He was well spoken, educated guy, a science teacher, and his manners just knocked her out of the park, after some messaging back and forth they exchanged the phone numbers and they've set up a date. That was last Thursday, March 9 that he drove into town and she went out to meet him at a local restaurant. She was a nervous wreck and I couldn't contain my excitement (and a hard on)

 

Wow. So that was it. She left the house and they met at the restaurant. I was waiting to see her text messages and my mind was just going wild. Soon after they've met she texted me and said "omg, he is so cute." and I just kept holding my breath anxiously waiting for more messages till I was blue in the face. An hour or so later, they've had a couple of drinks and she texted me and said "I wish he would sit by me and kiss me" and shortly after another text came and she said: "we kissed."

 

I thought I would lose my mind by then. After that there she stopped texting for a while and I just had all kinds of thoughts going through my mind. It was around midnight when she finally texted me and said: " I'm coming home"

 

After she came home she was wet as fuck and she told me I need to eat her out right now lol. Of course, I went downtown and started eating her out and she started sucking my cock. She started telling me that after they left the restaurant they hang out in his car and fondled each other. He had a big bulge in his pants and she released that tension by letting his thick cock out and sucking on it. He said that he has hard time cumming like that, but she managed to prove him wrong by making him cum in her mouth shortly thereafter.

 

So, we both came while she was telling me this story and it was pretty intense.

 

Today, while she was at work, she texted me and said that they set up another date for next Friday. This time I think they will get a room in a hotel and spend the night together.

 

I am very excited that she is so happy and that she gets to have so much fun, but now I'm also freaking out a little bit. Well, I would appreciate some insight from the veterans in here, and I will probably have another story for you next week.

[Lionheart72 2,191]

Establish your ground rules, trust your wife and enjoy yourself.

 

When my wife and I started swinging, I was only comfortable with same room play. Slowly, I grew comfortable with the idea of leaving the room where she was playing for a time and coming back. Now, I really enjoy it when she goes off to the club on her own and comes back with stories of her escapades.

 

I do have one question - the guy she's dating does know about you, right? Because that's important and you didn't actually say one way of another. As long as everyone is open and honest and knows what the ground rule are, have fun... but definitely make sure the other guys knows his role in all this.

[njbm 2,901]

Agree with Lionheart. To be fair, the other man should know that your wife is coupled and it is a consensual affair. It's not fair if this guy thinks he has a new girlfriend.

[PandO 103]

Agree with Lionheart. To be fair, the other man should know that your wife is coupled and it is a consensual affair. It's not fair if this guy thinks he has a new girlfriend.

 

Yeah, he seems to be in an open relationship himself and his wife apparently dates other guys. I can't verify that, but I trust my wife, she has always been way better judge of character than me

[PandO 103]

Mrs. P here! He definitely 100% knows that I'm married with four kids. He's not pushy at all about setting things up. And I ALWAYS check with Mr. O several times before accepting a date.

[Lionheart72 2,191]

Mrs. P here! He definitely 100% knows that I'm married with four kids. He's not pushy at all about setting things up. And I ALWAYS check with Mr. O several times before accepting a date.

 

That's my question answered.

 

Keep that communication going and have fun!

[cplnuswing 4,713]

It sounds like there is good open honest communication going on all around, everyone knows the score and what this is and what this isn't, and everyone is having fun with it, so what's not to like?

[PandO 103]

Well, I said I was gonna give you an update. The update is that we decided to open to polyamory. Mrs P just went on another date, and Mr. O has a date tonight with a lady and another date next week with another lady in a poly relationship. So, it's a little departure from the "swinging" part, but I think this works better for us. This is Mr. O writing now. Now if admins would move this to more appropriate thread like polyamory or something that'd be much appreciated.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Good luck and keep the updates coming...

 

BTW, where does one find women in or looking for a poly relationship? Just curious...

[bbarnsworth 2,652]

The first time my wife played solo, I just about went bonkers. Very difficult for me at home, as I was just an absolute jumble of emotions. Now, years down the road, it's normal. My wife and I always knew that if we got into swinging, things would go like this eventually because our schedules, and kids, and etc. all make our both getting out together for swinging fun would be infrequent...and so it has been. My wife has a long term boyfriend now, and has spent many a night sleeping with him. Eventually, it will feel ....well, maybe not normal but at least you won't be a wound up ball of emotions

[Thisguydrmike 15]

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