Wife just wants teased?

[NewAroundHere 15]

My wife just wants her pussy and tits teased and does not think she would have to give the guy anything for teasing her for hours on end.

 

My question is should I be worried about anything with her wanting this? She said she has had this fantasy since high school, she graduated 17 years ago and I did talk to some of her ex's and yes she did want just that back then.

 

The other thing is, do you think guys who are really turned on and know she is as well from how long she was teased would respect her limit of not wanting screwed?

[BobGann 40]

To be honest, extended foreplay is great, but this is like reading the menu, touring the kitchen, and then going home without having anything to eat. Not what I'd look for in a partner personally (sounds a little selfish) but to quote the old saying there's a lid for every pot and I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for eventually.

[NewAroundHere 15]

Thank you Bob for your reply! I have to agree, that is why I keep telling her I do not know a lot of guys that would want to stop.

[bbarnsworth 2,668]

Well, there's soft swap couples that are, to varying degrees, willing to do most things except actual sex. Still, if she's just wanting herself to be pleasured, but not reciprocate in anyway...that might be difficult.

[funcoupledayton 2,710]

Hours without reciprocation is not practical in swinging. At a club you don't have that kind of time. With a couple in a hotel room or at home, what are you and the other wife going to do? I have never talked to a single guy who would be interested in playing without sex.

 

Does she want to be restrained? I have seen bdsm scenes where the woman is tied up and teased for a period of time (probably about a half hour). The bdsm community might be a good place to look. Sometimes, penetrative sex is not even allowed in their play spaces. You might also find a submissive man who would be happy to serve her in whatever way she demands without reciprocation.

[funcoupledayton 2,710]

Another thought. Does she want to swing, also and this is just an ultimate fantasy?

 

If you decide to swing and develop a network of friends, you could definitely find a couple or a group willing to do this as a favor or a gift as a one time thing. I've participated in "fantasy parties" for close friends and they were awesome. It takes a few years to find good friends like this, but eventually, if you swing and are active in your community, you will.

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

Maybe another woman could provide what she is looking for

[GoldCoCouple 4,072]

Never say never, there are all kinds of people out there. Just finding one that would agree to this might be more difficult. Why don't YOU do that to her?