Our first full swap experience

[2NoLimit 95]

Don't really know where to begin, so many things happened during our cruise. Prior to going, we chatted with about six couples on SLS and SDC, and unfortunately we didn't get to meet with any of them, with the exception of one. It just didn't feel right (due to our zero experience) to try and connect with any. But my husband and I had discussed that will meet with anyone of the six if they would make contact.

 

So we ran into one couple that we had chatted on the first day, but that was a negative experience during our dinner. In our inexperience during this cruise we found out the difference in so many swingers' styles- some good, and some not our style (who are we to judge). We know of a few that did not shock us, but this one particular couple was pushy, and the guy was a little disrespectful toward his wife. We noticed one of the common questions from meeting couples was "what drove you into the lifestyle?" So we asked (note that we are sitting with two couples), and what this couple said surprised us. His wife said she couldn't keep up with his sexual appetite, and you could tell she wasn't happy about it. Now in our minds that sounds like taking one for the team. So we got asked the same question, and my husband replied that nothing in this world turns him on more than his wife, and he can only take me so far (I was flattered). But then the guy from this couple said, "BS- it's because he is tired of you"!! Regardless of whether it was a joke, that is something you do not say to a couple trying this for the first time.

 

I will admit that this set me off with my husband and went off on him when we got back on our cabin. My husband got upset and told me that we are not here for anything but ourselves, and "after 20+ years of being married, why would you listen to a complete stranger?" He reassured me that we have no expectations and to just enjoy the sexy atmosphere. So we decided to go to one of the parties.

 

In the back of the ship they had a party in the open air with beds spread out around the dance floor. I can't explain how sexy it was to be dancing with my husband with all these couples, some in orgies, some one on one- it was very erotic! I was dressed as Snow White in a vey sexy outfit, and my husband was in a Prince Charming outfit. In the middle of dancing, he pushed me to a couch in between two couples, and started going down on me OMG!! Totally unexpected. My husband is very conservative so this was very surprising, and this was our first time doing this in public. I was so turned on that I squirted all over him. I tried to return the favor but he wasn't comfortable enough for that so we took it to our veranda.

 

The next day I decided to try one of the many M&G's during the cruise, this one was done by a very well-known sex therapist, and was an under-45 crowd (at least it was supposed to be, we had maybe 3 couples that you could tell were well over the 60 mark). No worries from our end until I got to one of them. I'll explain how this M&G was set up. We had about 40+ couples set up in 2 circles, one inner, and one outer circle. The inner circle would rotate and meet with the next couple in the outer circle for about ten minutes each, and rotate again. During this rotation (with my husband next to me), we would engage in eye, smelling, and touch contact with the other couple. In one of the connections with a nice looking couple, my husband got really close to this couples wife that she started making moaning sounds, and you could tell she really connected with him. This was good for him and bad for me, because her husband was ether so turned on, or had a green eye of seeing his wife enjoy my husband that he totally ignored me, and just stared at his wife. Funny thing is that I got so turned on by the whole process that It didn't bother me that he was ignoring me. So after a few rotations, we reached this other couple that we both connected with, and he was very nice and warned me of the next rotation with the elder couple- that he has heard nothing but complaints about the husband. Sure enough when we reached the next couple, he stuck his tongue in my ear, and asked if he could kiss me. I firmly said no, and pushed him off. After the circle completed, some couples stayed chatting but we quietly decided to leave, talking about our experience, and laughed at the situation.

 

The next day as we walked around the pool the one couple that warned us came up to us saying they been looking all over for us, and even went back asking the sex therapist if they knew our room number. After chatting a little we made arrangements to hang out during the theme night as we had already made dinner arrangements with a different couple that night (that is another story). So we meet the couple at the glow in the dark theme night. We had a blast after a little dancing and a few drinks, so I decided to ask if they wanted to hangout in our room, and have drink in the veranda with no strings attached. We were not expecting anything. They said yes and went to our room.

 

I cannot recall how things got started- but they did, and really fast! The couple knew we had zero experience, so we kinda let them lead the way. Funny thing is we never discussed our comfort level or boundaries, but my husband and I had already decided we would be full swap with the right connection. We had agreed that if we started on soft swap and things would get hot, then we would have something we can hold against each other (in our opinion, we waited to jump in the the LS until we felt comfortable enough to do full swap, and thought that soft swap means we're not ready and had trust issues).

 

So back to the story. We have no experience whatsoever, and I have never been with a woman. Well, it got started with me kissing the other girl. It felt so natural that we took it to the bed and gave the boys a hot show. She went down on me, and I returned the favor (now I know why my husband loves the taste of a woman). After that, we asked the boys if they wanted to continue watching or are they going to join in- the clothes came off quickly. I started with a BJ with the other couple's husband, and his wife was doing the same to mine. Afterwards they returned the favor and I started kissing the other girl as the husbands were eating us out.

 

Not sure how the full swap started with so many hands and bodies touching each other, but I definitely recall grabbing the condoms. I gave one to the guy who had his cock rubbing in between my ass and I remember putting the condom on my husband and guiding it into another woman. As I kissed my husband, the other guy starts pounding me from the back. Here I am kissing my husband as he is fucking another woman, and her husband is fucking me from behind. OMG this was so erotic! After soo many positions, the guy cums inside me (with condom of course). My husband pulls out of her, takes the condom off, and cums all over the wife. I then cleaned her up with my tongue and gave her a kiss, swapping my husbands cum into her mouth.

 

As they were leaving my husband apologized for any boundary that might have been crossed, as we never discussed it. They LOL and said everything evolved so naturally that we all had the right connection. My husband replied, "you know you popped our cherry, and thank you for the awesome time". Afterward we tried to discuss the events that just took place, but couldn't keep our hands off each other. We must have done it at least 7 times during the night till 6AM. We have never felt closer to each other.

 

The next day we played once more, and this time it even got hotter as my husband asked if the wives wanted to play together without an audience, and we both agreed. Our cabin had 3 sections- the veranda facing the back of the ship, the living room, with a sliding door to the bedroom. So as the boys were talking in the living room, us girls headed to the bedroom. WOW! I can honestly say I enjoyed the wife more than her husband, only thing missing was toys. We did just about every position possible.

 

After a few orgasms we talked and agreed to give the boys some attention. So we went into the living room, and the boys were sitting across from each other. We went first to her husband, took off his pants, and gave him a double BJ as we are kissing each other. We then proceeded to my husband and did the same favor. After that, we took them both to the bedroom. My husband asked the wife if she would sit on his face (he loves the taste of a woman), and she agreed. Her husband was fascinated with my ass, and bent me over and started pounding me even harder then before. I looked at my husband and saw that she was really enjoying riding my husband's face. So I took my husband's cock in my mouth as her husband kept pounding me (my first time having two cocks in me). After many different positions, we switched to our own partners, as I was riding my husband the other guy pulled out of his wife and came all over my breasts and face. I then proceeded to clean his cock with my mouth. At the same time his wife started cleaning my breasts and face with her tongue, and made me taste her husband as I made her taste mine the previous night.

 

We stayed in the bed, while the other couple went into the living area. My husband started playing with me, and we started all over again as the couple said good night. This time we kept count, and my husband had 10 orgasams that night (can't keep count on mine as I can be multi orgasmic).

 

Needless to say, we got a first option on the 2019 April cruise and already reserved a cabin. It's a bit far out, but we are also looking into the November 2018 cruise. Some couples have said that your first time can be like a magnifying glass- we can truly say that is true!! We never felt so in love with each other. A lot more stuff happened in the cruise, but we just wanted share our first full swap experience.

 

What worked for us may not work for some, but in our opinion, it is about the after effects that makes this lifestyle so special. We both kept checking on each other. But me and my husband have that connection that we can feel, and see what we are both thinking without saying a word, and all we felt was pure bliss from both sides.

 

 

Thanks for hearing us out on our first lifestyle experience.

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

Glad you stuck with it despite some negative vibes and words from other people! Swinging is like dating; there's some good, some bad, and some amazing! Glad you found amazing finally

 

We have never felt closer to each other ... We never felt so in love with each other.

 

This is precisely the feeling my wife and I had. As you note the magnifying glass; what it finds it magnifies. My wife and I are madly in love, and swinging just magnified that to the nth degree. Such an amazing feeling!

 

Thanks for sharing!

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

GREAT story! Thanks for sharing it with us, and welcome to the club.

 

(We're beginning to think maybe WE ought to take a cruise...)

[njbm 2,872]

Very nice! We were on the March Bliss cruise and had a pretty quiet time. One very nice connection with friends we knew. On the November Bliss cruise, it was non-stop action. It really depends on happenstance. People we connected with on SLS were nowhere to be found this time. But happy that the original posters had a great start.