Why wear stockings to a swingers club?

[planejanesusan 18]

Husband and I finally made it to a hotel swingers session and I have several questions. The first is why do so many women wear stockings - stay ups or with a garter belt? Is it to look sexy to the men or is it to feel more sexy themselves? And they DO WEAR THEM while having sex.

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

Yep, pretty common site. Stockings/holdups are seen as sexy by most men, myself included. I can't attest to women's opinions, as I am not a woman. However, I do know there was a study done some years back which showed that women who wore sexy underwear were more confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings. I.e., their underwear wasn't showing, but still made a distinct difference in their outlook. Maybe that tracks with the swinging world too.

[Guest]

I sometimes where thigh highs, not really into the garter belts but hubby likes the look and I find that other men do too. One night, he even had me where over the knee boots and keep them on while we fucked. And yes, they did attract a lot of attention.

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

It is sexy.

[kikonkrome 844]

I do know there was a study done some years back which showed that women who wore sexy underwear were more confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings. I.e., their underwear wasn't showing, but still made a distinct difference in their outlook. Maybe that tracks with the swinging world too.

 

Not to be a hater, but what study?? A study by Victoria Secret to sell more underwear? Not exactly feeling that one.

[dan63 106]

One other perspective I will add to this discussion. Women have four options for what to wear on their legs.

 

1. They can wear pants or jeans which generally speaking are not as sexy or hot as visible legs.

 

2. They can wear pantyhose which while great for vanilla type activities where the clothes aren't going to come off, in a swinging environment where there is a good chance of getting naked, pantyhose just provides an obstacle to the fun. Also, it is another piece of clothing to try to keep up with and locate in the dark after the fun is over. Also the pantyhose, if they are control top type can help to hold the tummy in if that is an issue.

 

3. They can go with bare legs and while some ladies have very attractive legs, for many women who might be self-conscious of their legs due to lack of a tan or what have you this is not the best option.

 

4. Finally they can wear stockings. They have the good appearance of the "tanned legs" plus there is no obstacles to get in the way of the "play." Sure can't speak for all women, but I am pretty sure that most women will keep the stockings on. Again, less clothing items to keep up with.

 

As a man I am certainly no expert on the clothing habits of women, but based upon observations and my experience of 26 years of marriage I believe this might be a fairly accurate assessment of the choice of stockings.

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

Not to be a hater, but what study?? A study by Victoria Secret to sell more underwear? Not exactly feeling that one.

 

It's been years since I saw the article. By study, I meant a scientific one, not an online poll or something sponsored by a manufacturer. Those do not carry weight with me.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I wear them sometimes. I like thigh highs with a garter belt. You can wear underwear on top. They are convenient in the ladies room and for having sex. They look and feel sexy. They cover varicose veins. Some people really like the look and it gets them turned on. I really like the way they feel.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I wear them sometimes. I like thigh highs with a garter belt. . .

You're getting me all hot and bothered.

[kikonkrome 844]

I wear them sometimes. I like thigh highs with a garter belt.

 

You're getting me all hot and bothered.

 

me too!!

[Tastewife4mfm 16]

My friend once ripped my wifes pantyhose at the crotch to get his tounge in her pussy, it was fucking hot, he loves to play with her after being in pantyhose all day, Its hot seeing a man fondle her pantyhose legs and pussy, I always have to have her fucked when she wears pantyhose, usually Fridays we mfm when she gets done work, he gives her a foot rub, a pussy licking and a big dick in her pussy and mouth

[jnrswinger 62]

Stockings and heels PLEASE!!! And garters too if possible. They frame the ass - and pussy - so nicely. Personally I hate pantyhose - not sexy at all for me - except something like a fishnet body suit maybe.

[couplers 4,614]

.. why do so many women wear stockings - ..

Not in a swinging situation, but some women wear them at work because they don't want to shave their legs, at least not as often.

... a study done some years back which showed that women who wore sexy underwear were more confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings. I.e., their underwear wasn't showing, but still made a distinct difference in their outlook...

Ha! Maybe the reason I'm considered so "confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings" (i.e. a bitch) is that I don't wear any lower underwear at work. I do, however, wear very conservative clothing - skirts at or below the knee, a bra with little to hold, nothing at all suggestive about my blouses. I just like to feel the air.

[introvertswingr 55]

I don't wear pantyhose or thigh highs.... mainly because the thigh highs won't stay up for shit. I prefer to be comfortable. I also don't wear heels. So, I go in my pants and shirt, change pretty immediately into whatever lingerie I am going to be wearing that night with flat sandals. Bare ass white legs and all If people don't find me as I am sexy, they can move on.

 

--signed, the non-girly girl woman

[adamgunn 1,460]

IntrovertSwingr has prompted me to add to this discussion. I don't find stockings, hosiery, boots, etc. to be all that sexy - not that I have any prejudice against them. I would much rather the woman I'm with to be comfortable than trying to dress sexy for me. If stockings make her feel sexy, great, and I've been with women who feel that way.

 

But, to me, stark naked and desiring play is the very sexiest thing for me.

[venusshaw 123]

I won't wear them, how will he suck my toes?

[introvertswingr 55]

IntrovertSwingr has prompted me to add to this discussion. I don't find stockings, hosiery, boots, etc. to be all that sexy - not that I have any prejudice against them. I would much rather the woman I'm with to be comfortable than trying to dress sexy for me. If stockings make her feel sexy, great, and I've been with women who feel that way.

 

But, to me, stark naked and desiring play is the very sexiest thing for me.

 

Definitely agree that if stockings/pantyhose make a woman feel better about herself-- have at it. I used to like them when they would stay put and I could wear heels.

[agreatguy 269]

I like the stockings and garter look. As someone else said they frame the ass and pussy. I find the look sexy.

 

That said it's certainly not essential for me. I agree that it's more about what she is comfortable with. A flirty smile and confidence will always trump whatever a gal might or might not be wearing.

[Lacey Panties 16]

Both, Im pretty sure Most men love stockings, and I like them, too in situation like that

[Guest]

I always wear stockings to a party if it is indoors. I wear them to work as well, including pantyhose if it is during the Spring, Fall, and Winter. If I do something spontaneous at lunch or after work, I don't mind if a lover rips a hole in my pantyhose. For us, pantyhose are disposable items. The stockings are a lot more expensive and I try to save them if they don't get damaged.

 

[Luxinterior 15]

We love stockings - they look hot- feel sexy and of course there is the very real issue of immediate access.

[Coolbreeze 0]

Ladies FYI

There is absolutely nothing more sexier than the look and feel of pantyhose or nylons on a female. Maybe to you they are uncomfortable but there is nothing that turns on better. Not only do they look super sexy, but they feel even better when they rub anywhere on a mans body. The feel of a woman’s ass in pantyhose is such a turn on, it drives me crazy. Just can’t get enough. The look of a nice toned thigh or calf in pantyhose will get a stare every time. If your looking to create a stare from a guy at work or on a date simply put on a pair of pantyhose. Any guy who tells you he is not turned on needs his head examined. I’d lay 10 miles of cable across Death Valley just hear a female in pantyhose fart over the phone. 

[NWAtlSwing 522]

I think this pretty much shows why. They are really sexy

 

 

[Playman64 205]

Hose & garter belts, just love seeing a garter belt framing the pussy.  

[JessicaJamison 861]

I wear them because they make me feel sexy, and if I feel sexy he gets to have more fun..  I wear them with garterbelts.  I wouldn't take them off at the club because I'd inevitably lose one of them and then I'd be leaving looking like a hot mess.  No need for the disheveled walk of shame.  

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

What she said!

[Playman64 205]

Stockings are very alluring and damn sexy, especially with just garter belts.  
Especially with taller ladies that were able to hook their foot together, the stockings rubbing against my sides was very erotic.  

 

  No need for the disheveled walk of shame.  I like seeing women.