What seems to be the average age at swinger clubs/events?

[Fantasyfetish99 18]

My wife and I were interested in attending our very first swinger event a few hours away from us. However... she is so hung up that the average age at this event is around 40. Are we at a disadvantage for finding people closer to our age, which is late 20s?

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

Most people we encounter are later 30's - late 50's. I think you should go and just check it out. Go with just the plan to have fun yourselves, not to play. You may be surprised that you find older people attractive and fun. You may just feel great as the youngest there. You may fit right in. You never know until you try.

 

There are groups that cater to younger people. Maybe you will meet people at this event who will have recommendations for you.

[Scaredstiff 129]

Most couples at our club are in the 40'same to 50's bracket, it seems that's generally the age where people feel comfortable and secure enough to swing.

We're in our early forties but get told we look younger , usually if there is a younger couple in the club they will make a beeline towards us for a chat, you will probably find the same thing, even if there is nobody there your age or that takes your fancy, you are still sure to meet some interesting people and hear some awesome stories , so I'd say just go and see for yourself.

Also I got chatting to an absolutely smoking hot lady at our last club visit , turns out she used to be a model and probably had the best body in the place at 57 years old lol

[Guest]

Every year they get younger, or maybe that’s us getting older. Smaller places, places like couples club seem to be older. Go to more of the sex night club like Trapeze in Lauderdale or Atlanta and its younger. At 40, you’ll fit in with either group.

[openandfree431 16]

My wife and I are late 20s. It's just me in the forums right now. But we've had a swinging relationship with one couple before that went really well. I was actually wondering the average age question myself. So thanks for asking. I'm not sure we're ready for a club. But it's good to know there are other late 20s out there.