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[MixxedCpl360 29]

Last weekend Mixxed Wife and I went to another lifestyle event/club. This was only our second time attending anything lifestyle related and the last time was 4 months ago. We had fun before hand in the hotel room with me giving her a pre-lick session when she was fresh out of the shower. We got there and good for us it was crowded and we mingled and met a few couples that were nice. Even this very drunk couple plopped down next to us (really next to the wife) and started introducing themselves. Right after introductions they TOLD us they were going to watch us have sex in the playroom and we would watch them. The guy even mention he might even touch my wife in there. We didn't know what the hell they were smoking or they thought we were new and naïve. New yes, naïve nope. Luckily the DJ started playing music we liked so that was our chance to put some distance between us and them. Lots of sexy people doing sexy things and after a few drinks and some dirty dancing we both were ready for our very first play session in "public". We were trying to decide which room to go to when we bumped into another couple that we just happened to peek at their profile on SLS and they were very nice and mixed just like us. When it came time to undress I surprised myself by having no qualms about it at all even though I'm a tad bit shy about undressing in front of strangers. But I was very excited to be getting ready to have sex with my sexy wife I treated it like ripping off a band aid. She was kinda shy but that's ok. We ended up in the largest play room where about 6-8 other couples were in some stage of sex. We found a spot and even though I was a tiny bit nervous we started immediately. Wow it was great with so much to see and hear. The one thing I was nervous about was my erection. I confided in Mixxed Wife before hand and she tried to reassure me. After some heavy foreplay I was rock hard and she took me but after about 5 minutes of work I began to loose my woody. I think all of the visual and audible stimulus distracted me and I started to stress; dammit my prediction is coming to reality. Again my beautiful loving wife reassured me and tried to get me to relax. She took over giving me a BJ and that worked in a big way. She was able to climb back on and came again. Now what was so hot was some of the other ladies were cumming about the same time too and my wife just added to the chorus of pleasure within the room. Soon I could not hold back an finished. Now I pride myself at having great stamina (sometimes too much) but this was too much for me not to give in. As we left the room the couple we met at the entrance to the room were just getting started so we smiled at them and walked back to the locker room. Man I felt like a million bucks and made the trip back to the lockers fully exposed with not a care of who saw me bucket nekkid. I just happened to be wearing this day glow green athletic boxer briefs (my wife just loves them on me) and this attractive lady made a comment to me that she liked my undies and liked me too. According to my wife I flirted back. What's crazy is my wife is a self admitted jealous woman and said she did not feel any jealousy when that woman openly flirted with me right in front of her! We left the club and on the way back to the hotel I stopped by the local 7-Eleven and she was going to sit in the car and wait for me but there was a car parked next to us with some suspicious looking dudes in it so she went with me. As we were walking back to my car they were all starring and one asked me if she was my wife and then gave her a compliment with this look of amazement on his face.

 

Overall we had a most outstanding night and checked off a few boxes at once. The only problem is I temporarily lost my erection with my wife and am worried if we decided to pursue a threesome or maybe even swap this could persist. I am very embarrassed about this and I don't wanna be "that guy". I can't wait until our next adventure.

[Scaredstiff 129]

I haven't lost the wood but I understand how you feel with regards to being over stimulated, I am yet to reach orgasm in a club, only been twice but both times I just couldn't come, could be a number of things , alcohol, too much going on/distractions, I enjoyed both times immensely, to the point where it didn't really matter if I came, but I sure as hell couldn't wait to get back to our hotel room, didn't have a problem there so I'm putting it down to me not being relaxed enough or maybe worrying about finishing too early , either way I think it's important to not pressure yourself

[MixxedCpl360 29]

Yeah I was surprised I came considering the amount of pressure I placed on myself. There was a tremendous amount of pressure because my wife knows what kind of lover I am and she wanted people (women) to see me in action. I guess I could chalk it up to stage freight but I just hope it doesn't become a problem going forward.

[Scaredstiff 129]

From other posts I've read on here the general feeling on stuff like this is that it gets easier the more you do it, like it may well be a bit of stage fright or performance anxiety and that will be easier to deal with as the situation becomes less alien and more normal I suppose.

To be honest last time we went to a club I took a viagra pill, I don't usually have erection issues but I had a feeling that we may well end up pushing our boundaries further than we had previously and I figured hey, it's one less thing to worry about , now I can concentrate on worrying about if I look fat/sweaty , is my sex face putting people off, did I use enough anti perspirant, should I take my socks off, does that woman the other side of the room mind me staring at her tits? No but her boyfriend is getting twitchy etc

Haha