aliciaknight76 24 Posted April 20, 2017 Single professional female (travel for work) looking for a male swing partner (over 45). I am looking to explore the lifestyle. 8 Quote Share this post Link to post
badsph 27 Posted April 22, 2017 Traveling too California anytime soon? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
GMOFLEISURE 221 Posted May 7, 2017 My first reflex is to ask where you are located, & if you are traveling to near me LoL. But as alexandsandra says you don't need a man. You can get a huge amount of advice & tips on this and similar forums. Where you are or where you travel to there are plenty of males who are willing to meet and be your consort for the evening. Beyond that I'd suggest you consider a couple or a gal pal as your wing person for the evening at a club or party. Of course if you do land near Lafayette In on business feel free to contact me Quote Share this post Link to post
max4boobs 15 Posted August 1, 2017 19 isn't what you're looking for, right? lol. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted August 1, 2017 Badsph is So Cal, we are Nor Cal. If you're ever in the area... A single woman looking for a couple...well, you kind of get the pick of just about every couple that considers themselves swingers. I don't think that you will have any problems finding interested couples wherever you go. Quote Share this post Link to post
Swingman2017 27 Posted August 7, 2017 Charlotte North Carolina has a great club to meet couples. Not sure far away you are from it. Quote Share this post Link to post
badsph 27 Posted August 12, 2017 Badsph is So Cal, we are Nor Cal. If you're ever in the area... A single woman looking for a couple...well, you kind of get the pick of just about every couple that considers themselves swingers. I don't think that you will have any problems finding interested couples wherever you go. I travel through northern Cali quite often, heading towards Washington State. I would love a way to be able too start a dialogue. How can we connect or chat? Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,459 Posted August 13, 2017 If you're looking for sex without the drama of the guy, or girl, getting attached, then couples are good. Just do a social meet first to make sure one's not dragging the other into it. Before we married my wife used to have sex with married guys for the same reason, they were interested in sex and didn't want to leave their wives, so they served their purpose and didn't brag about it. That was the one thing I insisted on though when we got married, no married guys unless the wife was in on it, and several were. There's too much headache getting involved in a divorce or worse otherwise. Good luck, you got your pick of the bunch. BTW, are you bi? Changes the dynamics some. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
magnum 78 Posted May 28, 2018 Single professional female (travel for work) looking for a male swing partner (over 45). I am looking to explore the lifestyle. If you are till looking for a play partner, and if you make it to Colorado, I'd love to talk. Cheers Magnum Quote Share this post Link to post
Tightwife4mfm 18 Posted June 15, 2018 Would love to, are you hung and into wives Quote Share this post Link to post
Tightwife4mfm 18 Posted June 15, 2018 Wow we would love to mfm, you would be a nice sight with wife and she loves the tool Quote Share this post Link to post
Tightwife4mfm 18 Posted June 15, 2018 How would you like too, would love for you to play on cam with her,if you were here her mouth would be on your dick lol, hit us up Quote Share this post Link to post
goku714 30 Posted January 15, 2020 it's unfortunate that i don't meet your standards since i'm only 31 and i hope you'll find what you're looking for in this community & lifestyle Quote Share this post Link to post
ToeDippers 83 Posted January 16, 2020 I wonder about truth in advertising Quote Share this post Link to post
GMOFLEISURE 221 Posted January 17, 2020 The original post here was near three years ago. Are folks really expecting a reply???? Quote Share this post Link to post
BAngM845 0 Posted March 12, 2021 Hot couple looking for a nice unicorn ? Quote Share this post Link to post
BAngM845 0 Posted March 12, 2021 Nice couple in 40’s Looking for unicorns ? in NYCity area Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,717 Posted March 13, 2021 (edited) 11 hours ago, BAngM845 said: Hot couple looking for a nice unicorn ? There are more women up for it than you may think. You just need to create the opportunity, and like any other situation where you are trying to get someone else to swing, you need to let them be in control. As I have posted before, when we were in our mid-twenties I had no trouble recruiting single women from among my friends and acquaintances to play with my husband. When the topic turned to sex, almost all these women eventually commented on how attractive my husband was. I would respond that he said he finds you attractive too (whether it was true or not), and that I would be flattered if you played with him - it can be arranged. A surprising number took me up on it. I think he being married had something to do with it - women like being involved with a married man, it is safer, and they want something another woman has, it's like women always want to eat off of other people's plates. Obviously I knew, so it wasn't the cheating aspect; I think it actually made them even more eager to get involved since there was no drama or danger. It was a power trip for me to go home and tell hubby that I set something up with one of my friends and he is going to go through with it. He never turned me down. It also made me incredibly jealous, something I still have, but now it is my tamed monster. The only disappointment was that few let me watch, even fewer let me participate. Fueling my jealousy also opened up my Lesbian side (It isn't gay if a man's involved, right? I wanted to kiss them as they screwed, lick her pussy after he came in it.) Only two got full-on Lesbian with me, one of whom is Clair who joined hubby, Red, and me to form our family. We are still friends with the others who we are in contact with. And two are married, one with a husband who knows and we still socialize with. So just create the opportunity and let nature take its course. Edited March 13, 2021 by couplers Quote Share this post Link to post
Foxtrotswinger 2 Posted January 26, 2022 On 1/16/2020 at 12:33 PM, ToeDippers said: I wonder about truth in advertising I am a single male here. Looking for a partner. Let me know what you think. Quote Share this post Link to post