Wife wants a third

[Couple48 15]

Wife wants a threesome with a man, how do I make it happen?

[zane 15]

you guys are the only one who can make this happen. Plan it out. Would have given you places to lookout for if you were in NYC

[Erik13 157]

Finding a single guy is as easy as getting a cheeseburger at McDonald's. lol. Try finding a single girl...

[SwingerLite 15]

All my wife and I have found is guys. Erik13 is right girls are much harder. Have a friend over play some games (drinking games can help) once everyone is losened up have her go change into something more comfortable and by that I mean more revealing. Your be surprised how many of your friends have checked out your girl. But honestly I've had trouble too. Only one friend was down but then got in a relationship. Ask her what she wants or who she wants. Then ask how far she wants to go to find the answers.

[luvin eye full 140]

Have you guys done anything like this before?

 

what lead to her asking?

 

Some in fo will help but they are as common as tree's you just need to find a good one that will not try and take over her - unless that's what you guys want then go for it.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

If you sign up for any of the swinger boards (see Find Swingers at top of the page), even if you say you aren't looking for single guys, you usually get numerous requests from single guys. Cheesburger at McDonalds...I like that.

[luv2was 117]

If you are new to the "Lifestyle" (or "LS"), then you are in a really good place to learn. Try searching the Message Forums. Notice who make posts that resonate with you, and checkout more of their posts. Make posts yourself, and ask questions. There are a lot of "Lifestyle Wise" people here, who are generous in offering their viewpoint and sharing their experience.

 

Yep... Guys are going to be lined up around the block pretty quick. Indeed, easier than getting a cheeseburger at a fast-food joint.

 

As mentioned, Swing webs are a good source, but the ratio of single guys to single gals is at lest 20:1, probably a lot more. On the bright side, you will not lack for choices. Based on my observation, it can be pretty overwhelming (for anyone looking for a single guy). Lifestyle Clubs, as well as private "Meet and Greets" are generally considered better ways to find a good connection.

 

IMHO... I would think that having your wife try and seduce a friend, especially without discussing it with him ahead of time, could eventually end in disaster. (Sober, or not.)

 

Communicate openly and honestly. Establish some boundaries. Do not proceed until everyone involved is on-board 100%.

 

Try and minimize your expectations. Realize that the first go-round could be great, or not-so-great.

 

Keep an open heart, and an open mind.

 

Let us know how things work out. All experiences lead to growth, one way or another.

 

:-)

[Guest]

Men are very easy to find where threeomes are concerned.

 

You can find them on swingers sites, you can find them in swingers clubs, parties, resorts.

 

They are all over the internet.

 

Some simple advice to get started would be:

 

1. Don't give out your wies mobile phone number to men

 

2. Don't let men know where your wife works

 

3. I'd suggest meeting in a hotel room until lyou figure out if this man is nice

 

Good luck