Byoung 15 Posted May 15, 2017 Over the weekend we went to a swingers club. We met a very nice couple and ended up playing with them. I am having mixed emotions about my boyfriend touching another woman. Has anyone else felt this way! Looking for help! Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted May 16, 2017 Hey Byoung. Yep just about every women who has ever swung has felt strange about their boyfriend or husband touching another women. What your feeling is 100% perfectly natural, if you didn't feel such things then you wouldn't even be human. The question is however can you master that simple fear. One thing is for sure your boyfriend touching another women with you there is better than him touching another women when your not there and don't know, at least this way you have some control, you can help pick the right people. It gets easier with time and practice Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted May 16, 2017 Talk to him about this. You need love, trust and communication to be successful. I assume you have the love, increasing the communication usually helps with the trust. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 857 Posted May 24, 2017 I would say I had too had mixed feelings and I am the one who set up my boyfriend to have sex with my friend. I know he had mixed feelings doing it. Undressing my boyfriend and the original sexual contact was very playful. The act did feel different watching. I'm okay now. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Eddiem 139 Posted January 4, 2018 Kind of normal I think the first time out. For our first time touching was not the issue it was more of when he was about the penetrate her... emotions bag was full but I kept it to myself and then once he rubbed his cock on her I was like (inside my head - yes, no, yes, no, do it) and when he did it became quite "blah"... however when I saw the enjoyment she was receiving all those thoughts went away. I wanted more and more for her to enjoy it and she really did. Over the weekend we went to a swingers club. We met a very nice couple and ended up playing with them. I am having mixed emotions about my boyfriend touching another woman. Has anyone else felt this way! Looking for help! Quote Share this post Link to post
Newcouple17 101 Posted January 5, 2018 I reckon its pretty common! For me it was the initial touching/kissing that I was worried about watching and then whether he enjoyed someone more experienced than me? At the time I had mixed emotions and I guess I still do to a point, but overall I actually enjoy watching him with others?? Quote Share this post Link to post
Eddiem 139 Posted January 5, 2018 Mixed emotions are expected as you care I would say. I try to look past it (yes it does pop into my mind often re-living all the things I see beingdone to her) but in reality bot parts have to be open about, talk about it etc... The kissing was the 1st butterfly(bf) I have in my stomach then him kissing her breasts, then cunnilingus with her, then moreso when he entered her and n final when he came. I just sad to myself.."it is ok, she was happy we are going home together.. it is all about her..." Yeah and there was a guy with a much larger cock than me... oh well now she experienced it. I reckon its pretty common! For me it was the initial touching/kissing that I was worried about watching and then whether he enjoyed someone more experienced than me? At the time I had mixed emotions and I guess I still do to a point, but overall I actually enjoy watching him with others?? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
