Wanting to swing but concerned about STD's.
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Coolppl, in Curious About Swinging?
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Since we were in a parked car, I did not see it at all. I only felt it long enough for my hand to glide down the shaft of his cock.
I'm scared to offend him. I know I need to bring it up to him (I will not play with him without answers) and I know he deserves the chance to explain it to me. After all, it may be completely harmless but I know it's my right to ask these questions and get answers.
Such a sensitive topic. I know that being direct and honest is the best way to deal with this but thought I'd ask others advice before bringing it up to him.
So guys, how would you like to be approached in this situation?
Ladies, have you found yourself in a similar situation? What a did you do?
I thought about sending him an email - I realize that's somewhat of a cop out but that way it gives me time to write out what I want and then gives him time to process it and decide how to respond.
Advice? Comments? Suggestions? All are appreciated.
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