Getting frustrated with finding a couple or single lady!

[Erik13 157]

Why is it so hard to find a compatible couple or single lady? I could have a good looking guy over for MMF in an hour if I wanted, but finding a single lady is proving to be impossible!

[njbm 2,868]

Single women are rare. That's why they are called unicorns.

[luvin eye full 140]

Lol because men are pigs and will fuck anything - Chicks are not and have standards lol

 

NO No not really - but just from a new meeting point of view men are probably less likely to think about if it all goes wrong - where as a chick needs to be more secure I would think - so as not to end up in some gangbang she has no interest in or worse.

 

Then of course there all the other reasons - that only girls can figure out because they think differently to men. Example:

 

Girls - hmmm, now I'll need underwear and nice things to wear.

 

Guys - what do I need underwear for? I'm just taking them off again lol

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Lol because men are pigs and will fuck anything - Chicks are not and have standards lol

 

Speaking for both myself and my wife, I think I'm mildly offended.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Why is it so hard to find a compatible couple or single lady? I could have a good looking guy over for MMF in an hour if I wanted, but finding a single lady is proving to be impossible!

 

Yup, unicorns are hard to find. I actually found one once... that was fun. It can be done.

 

I'm more interested in exploring the "why is it so hard to find a compatible couple" part of the question. Of course, the answer is relatively obvious. Finding one person you hit it off with is hard... finding two people you hit it off with is very hard. Finding two people who hit it off with another two people... that's actually damn hard.

[njbm 2,868]

It's rare for my wife and me to say we liked both persons in another couple AND we had fun with them sexually. Various combinations occur.

[Dont.Stop 339]

We knew a couple in the lifestyle. They divorced and she joined us for many threesomes afterward. And that was some good sh--.

 

Otherwise, the interested single female has proven elusive. We've had another couple that we've done a MFM and a FMF with each half. We had good chemistry all the way around so it worked out quite well.

[Erik13 157]

If you're hoping to meet a woman, know her briefly, get to kiss her, ravage her and fuck her, do not be surprised if she has some minimum standards that don't include you.

 

What about my charm and ravishingly good looks?

[Dont.Stop 339]

What about my charm and ravishingly good looks?

 

Obviously that hasn't yet worked out for you.

 

It takes patience more than anything else.

[luvin eye full 140]

Lol Lionheart72

 

You do know I was being sarcastic right?

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Lol Lionheart72

 

You do know I was being sarcastic right?

 

Hence the smiley.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Just posted part of this on another thread:

 

Single women in the lifestyle are so rare that they are called 'unicorns' (since find one is almost as easy as finding a unicorn). Single men in the lifestyle are now being called 'cheeseburgers' since they are easier to find than a cheeseburger at McDonalds. If they don't try at every possible chance, they have almost no chance...but that is also why they are so unpopular.

 

Finding another compatible couple is not easy, and it never was said that it would be. Remember how hard it was to find your current mate? Finding a compatible couple is that... squared. All four people have to have some 'connecting' with the other three people. It's hard to find that, but it is awesome when you do, and that makes it even more valuable when it happens.

 

Tips: Don't use online profiles as the only guide for a potential 'match'. Use them only to eliminate other couples who are not a match. Also, the same goes for pictures. If something in the profile or picture is a deal breaker, then move on. Otherwise, contact them and (if they are interested) set up a vanilla meeting. Five minutes in person will usually tell you if there's interest or not. This saves a lot of time, emails, and texts. Even at this point, there will be couples that you meet that you both like...only to find out that you didn't click with them. Don't take this personally, just move on. It's all a numbers game and eventually you will find a four way connection. Then you can all think about getting together for play. After that, make sure you come back here and tell me I'm right (I already know this but it's good for the other to see ). Keep it up and it will happen, but nobody told you it would be easy...but you have been told it's totally worth the effort!

[Dont.Stop 339]

As I posted elsewhere, I have a vanilla friend with whom I am now intimate with (with Mrs.Stop's blessing, naturally).

 

Today she tells me she'd like to play with both of us. I'd never brought it up, other than once asking if she was interested in women. She said no and that was it.

 

Now she wants to give it a shot.

 

So, you never know where that unicorn may be lurking.