Which is more appealing, bare skin or lingerie?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

Is a leg covered by a fish-net stocking more attractive than a naked leg? Is a bosom pushed up by the shape of a brassiere more alluring than the pendant realities?

[junkyard38 21]

To answer the question, in my opinion I prefer the natural look of a female physical make up. All else is just false advertising.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Marketing and advertising are what it's all about. For some men (and, I assume, women,) they like the idea of plain nudity. Others like to do a little unwrapping. It's a personal preference.

 

I've spent some times at swing clubs. For me, the women who are dressed very nicely in street clothes (perhaps a little black dress) are a little more exciting than those who wear a revealing teddy, and much more attractive than those who wear a bottom and are topless. But that's me - you might feel differently.

[GoldCoCouple 4,064]

It's all about the packaging (why yes, I did study advertising for awhile). It's imagining what is inside the wrapper that is almost as exciting as actually finding out. Knowing that you can find out makes it that much more exciting. Granted, we both love the look of the female form, but the right wrapping can make it even more alluring.

 

Of course, we are almost as happy to have no covering as well...

[Wornsilver 219]

I think we might have some unanimity on this one! (...nah, that isn't going to happen, what am I thinking?).

 

Anyway, my opinion, the properly packaged woman is lovely. The naked woman is terrific, too. I have received compliments on my appearance when wearing a nice suit and tie. I'm pretty damn sure I would not receive compliments if I sent a dick pic.

 

And another thing--I think pubic hair and natural boobs (big or small) are much more attractive than the shaved, scratchy area and those hard things masquerading as boobs.

 

Just my opinion.

[MrSaxon 39]

Also depends on how it's sold. The most expensive lingerie in the world won't cover up discomfort; and a cheeseball Walmart bra can be sexy if a lady is working it.

[PeterJ 933]

And another thing--I think pubic hair and natural boobs (big or small) are much more attractive than the shaved, scratchy area and those hard things masquerading as boobs.

 

Totally agree...

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Naked is the best for me.

 

The next step is bondage. Fishnet. Caught. Restrained.

[rdy2go 23]

I like a woman whose a bit covered up to start. The fun is in peeling the layers off to get to the prize. In the end I get really turned on by an aggressive woman. One who knows what she wants and is not afraid to go for it. She can be a “10” or a “4”. If she is quiet and laid back it’s not a turn on. A choice between a beautiful hot body who just lays there and an average woman who’s after my hard cock aggressively will get my attention immediately. Sex appeal is about self confidence and eagerness to get nasty. Nasty over beauty for me.

[adamgunn 1,460]

"If she is quiet and laid back it’s not a turn on"

 

I've been in my share of situations where the woman (almost always in an MFMF) is less than assertive, but willing. In such situations, I try to take it slow and easy, paying a lot of attention to her and building her up. Almost always I've been able to get her to a state of excitation, if not orgasm, and that's a treat for me.

 

But you're right, a woman who's intent on working with you for a great experience for both of you is the best.

[couplers 4,588]

On 6/20/2017 at 6:47 PM, SW_PA_Couple said:

pendant realities

A wonderful turn of phrase.

[couplers 4,588]

On 10/17/2018 at 7:21 AM, adamgunn said:

where the woman .. is less than assertive, but willing.

When hubby and I were looking for women to play with him/us, that was often the case.  Women who took a while to express interest in David (probably because he is my husband), but once she knew I was good with it, she was willing to move ahead.  To the extent there was disappointment, it was because most of the women who were fine fucking my husband didn't want me involved in an FMF even if there wasn't F-F contact, or even to watch.

 

Clair was the exception.  Proudly bisexual, willing to give me my first Lesbian experience, and unabashedly have sex with David in front of me.  Understandably, she changed our situation from a married woman (me) with a husband and boyfriend into a poly family.  (And by unintentionally getting pregnant too.)  And somewhat unexpectedly, she was the one to give up her career to be the stay-at-home mom for our children.

 

(Lora joined our family after we stopped looking for play partners.  She was hubby's ex-fiance and they were/are still in love.  But it is OK, I love her too.)

[udsarge 119]

I like whatever she feels sexiest in. If she feels sexy, then she's more into sex. If she isn't comfortable, then she doesn't feel sexy, and the it isn't fun. I may have my ideas of what I like in my mind, but as long as she feels sexy, then I am game for anything she wants to wear (almost)

 

[TricianMike 767]

I don’t wear fishnets because Michael doesn’t find it attractive. I do wear a bra with support, not overly pushing my breast higher. 

Wear what you think makes you feel sexy. 

[cplnuswing 4,712]

I'm a simple man, naked does me just fine

 

Any other votes?

[enhancer 1,582]

We both love women in sexy lingerie!   The fun part is getting to the naked body underneath.  

[couplers 4,588]

conservatively covered, nothing underneath 

[cplnluv1 870]

I have sexy outfits that make me feel sexy.  I’m short and I think wearing thigh highs gives me the appearance of longer legs. 
I think whatever makes you feel good is sexy. 

[J&Wu 408]

We are hotel club members, I'm partial to the ladies in a nice dress, nothing underneath. although some carry off sheath and see through with panache. Once the social hour is over and the party starts I like skin to skin although I know a bi-guy who wears thigh high hose to carry his condoms, convenient if one needs a special size.?

[MidwestHoneys 356]

Honey is always appealing and will wear different outfits that are requested from some crap ordered from sex stores to cutie stuff. She has a dom outfit that I think sucks even if someone else gets turned on. 
We were at a local swimming pool and Honey wore a hot bathing suit with a little piece of suit over her pussy and that got her plenty of looks and her friend wore a suit with cameltoe that had me looking all day knowing exactly what that thing tasted    
 

[let's do it again 412]

Bare skin for me, lingerie is a waste of money and time for me.

[travelingprofessional 47]

This depends on the woman. I've see some women who are absolutely stunning completely nude and others that look better in some skimpy outfit, a loose fitting shirt, whatever.  Not everyone looks good naked. \

 

I would guess that for women, most men don't look good completely naked.

[Anon321 521]

Both. It's nice to mix it up.

[Billygoat 443]

I enjoy either.  I think if it makes a woman feel good, sexy….provocative about herself that is awesome.  I love unwrapping a gift like that….

 

[bbarnsworth 2,636]

I like both. But, with lingerie... some outfits just look trashy and don't do anything for me. Now, some high end stuff can be intensely erotic...

 

I do especially like undressing new play partners. Getting to her lingerie is a treat.

[Tomy Nikki 62]

As for Tomy he likes me or the women to be walking around in lingerie and I have met guys who prefer walking around naked.

[TnA83 303]

I must prefer lingerie, I've bought plenty of it over the years...

[lovefest04 689]

18 hours ago, Billygoat said:

I enjoy either.  I think if it makes a woman feel good, sexy….provocative about herself that is awesome.  I love unwrapping a gift like that….

 

Totally agree and I guess I'd lean towards some cover-up. There is an excitement in the reveal and the opportunity to look. Lear and let my brain create a fantasy of what is underneath. That is probably why I am so into summer dresses. I love the idea that there is nothing else underneath and the idea that the lady is comfortable enough to venture out without any underwear and a loose fitting dress. Super hot.