Watching my wife with another guy?

[smmass 20]

Hi all. My wife and I don't swing (yet) but we have talked about it a decent amount. She's had more partners before getting married than I did and sometimes talks about how she misses random hookups at bars. It really turns me on thinking of her fucking another guy and I think I'd be ok with it. Those husbands that have done this, have you been in the same room watching? Did you take part or just observe? Just curious about what's normal or not.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

I love watching my wife fucking another guy. It's one of favorite aspects of swinging. I like to watch and she loves to perform for an audience.

 

We've had times where I watch and she plays and I fuck her afterward. We've done threesomes, where the other guy and I play with her together. We've had times were she and I play and other people watch. We've had times when she goes out and plays by herself then comes home and tells me all the details while she and I play. Lots of fun all around.

 

In short, there are a lot of options in swinging and very little "normal." What is key is making sure that everyone involved understands the rules, expectations and boundaries and abides by them in good faith.

[ViSexual 1,008]

Now every time I've watched my wonderful wife having sex with another man, I've been playing with his wife. But, honestly, I've enjoyed watching her/them as much as I've enjoyed his wife. She doesn't want to play anymore but, if she did, I think I'd want to explore threesomes with a guy and us more than couples swap. Enjoying another woman is, of course, great but it was rather distracting too.

[vaitape 35]

I agree with the OP, there is no 'normal'. In fact, it's one of our least favorite words.

 

We have done MFM vs MFMF at about a 10:1 ratio over the years. I enjoy watching her and I generally join in during playtime.

 

Just recently, at a club, she was with a large number of guys over the course of an evening. Nothing quite like Mrs. Vaitape asking a guy that had just come up to us to 'Do you want to fuck me?'. What fun.

[Hotcouple2627 25]

It is super sexy seeing your wife with someone else, I have never sat back and just watched. I have always participated in the action, we have only did MFM 2 times but both were very enjoyable. My wife was so turned on that when we tried dp she took the other guys dick in her ass so easily. But we also role play her with other guys at home. I write spicy sex stories for her and then I blind fold her while she rides the dildo and I read her the story she had some good orgasms

[Guest]

I agree watching your wife / girlfriend with another man can be loads of fun, taking part can also be loads of fun.

 

However where single guys are concerned, or even just men in general I strongly advise caution and safety first.

 

For perhaps 90% of men their ONLY GOAL is to sleep with the women and they are often not bothered how / where / when that happens, as long as it does happen.

 

That basically means the vast majority of guys are not interested in your relationship, not interested in your mortgage, not interested in your rules, not interested in your friendship, not interested in you watching, they are not interested in your boundaries as a couple, not interested in preserving your relationship, not interested in your hopes dreams or future.

 

In fact all they are really interested in is sticking their dick into the women, which most of the time is happening behind their wives or girlfriends back.

 

Some things men will try would include....

 

- Asking your wife / girlfriend to meet them alone for sex.

- Trying to contact your wife on Face Book / Email / Mobile Phone / Chat Programs.

- Turn up at your home uninvited, especially if they know the man is away at work.

- Ask you wife / girlfriend for private sexual affairs.

- Ask your wife / girlfriend for personal contact information.

- Tell your wife / girlfriend their personal contact information.

- If they find out where she works maybe even turn up at your wife / girlfriend work place.

- In extreme cases maybe even stalk your wife / girlfriend.

 

Yes there are some nice men out there, and yes seeing your partner explore another man can be lots of fun.

 

My advice however is to always practice "Extreme Caution" when meeting a new man.

 

For example.......

 

- Meet them for one or two social meetings first.

- Don't give them your wife's personal information such as phone number, email, chat programs.

- Don't let them know where your wife works.

- Don't let them know your working patterns such as what hours you both work.

- Meet them in a hotel room at first, don't meet them at your home until your sure about them.

- Ask your partner not to disclose any personal information about themselves.

 

Its a little tricky really but if your wife gives a man her full name they will often go and search for her on Face Book hoping to ask her for sex alone. If your wife tells the men her favourite club or pub the man will probably start attending that club hoping to lure her into sex on her own. If your wife swaps phone numbers with him he will bombard her with messages asking her to meet alone. If your wife speaks about her job with this man then he might turn up at her work wanting to speak with her.

 

Yes seeing your partner with another man can be fun, just be careful.

 

x

[Lionheart72 2,190]

I agree watching your wife / girlfriend with another man can be loads of fun, taking part can also be loads of fun.

 

However where single guys are concerned, or even just men in general I strongly advise caution and safety first.

 

For perhaps 90% of men their ONLY GOAL is to sleep with the women and they are often not bothered how / where / when that happens, as long as it does happen.

 

That basically means the vast majority of guys are not interested in your relationship, not interested in your mortgage, not interested in your rules, not interested in your friendship, not interested in you watching, they are not interested in your boundaries as a couple, not interested in preserving your relationship, not interested in your hopes dreams or future.

 

I'm very sorry that you've clearly had such negative experiences with single men, Sun&Moon. However, while this may be true of your experience, it is not a universal truth. In fact, the vast majority of single guys we have met while swinging have been polite and respectful. I can literally count on the fingers of one hand the number of problems we've had with single guys in our 10+ years of swinging and even those could be solved by a firm word.

[eldiablo311 201]

I'm very sorry that you've clearly had such negative experiences with single men, Sun&Moon. However, while this may be true of your experience, it is not a universal truth. In fact, the vast majority of single guys we have met while swinging have been polite and respectful. I can literally count on the fingers of one hand the number of problems we've had with single guys in our 10+ years of swinging and even those could be solved by a firm word.

 

My wife and I have only been at this for 4 years now and she has fucked 3 guys and almost a 4th if it weren't for the fact that she drank too much that night, but I can say every guy she has slept with has been super respectful to BOTH of us...maybe we are lucky I don't know. So far though it has been nothing but great experiences except for the fact that every guy she has been with is smaller than me, and also either doesn't know how to kiss or fuck very good...these are things my wife has said every time. I am 7.5" or maybe slightly bigger but all these guys have been smaller unfortunately. We both really want her to meet a guy with a bigger dick.

 

Anyways, I can say that even though there has been disappointment on my wife's side, as in she has never cum with one of these guys, she does say it is exciting and she likes the flirting aspect of it.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Those husbands that have done this, have you been in the same room watching? Did you take part or just observe? Just curious about what's normal or not.

 

It started with the three of us on the bed together. Then I got off the bed to give them more room to play. Watching was just as exciting as being there. I became hooked on watching.

 

Over time I left the room so they could play in private without me watching. She loved me doing that and loved me for letting her do it. She said she had her best sex with him without me being there and watching.

 

I'll stay in the room with her if its someone new. Once we can trust him I'll leave the room so she can let herself go with him.

[Guest]

I'm very sorry that you've clearly had such negative experiences with single men, Sun&Moon. However, while this may be true of your experience, it is not a universal truth. In fact, the vast majority of single guys we have met while swinging have been polite and respectful. I can literally count on the fingers of one hand the number of problems we've had with single guys in our 10+ years of swinging and even those could be solved by a firm word.

 

 

I am happy you have had good experiences with single guys.

 

I also agree its not a universal fact, in fact in my post I said....

 

"Yes there are some nice men out there, and yes seeing your partner explore another man can be lots of fun"

 

However regardless I still advise extreme caution when meeting a new person.

 

Some people do lie, some people do cheat, some people do steal, some people are violent, some people have mental health problems, some people have infections or STD's.

 

It would be amazing if the world was filled with clean honest decent people who are open minded, caring, fun, but the world doesn't work like that, in fact there are also monsters.

 

Yes there are some good genuine men out there, but there are also rapists, gang members, violent drug dealers, even serial killers.

 

The two most famous examples that come to mind would be:

 

Ted Bundy: This guy was a university educated law student who was very smartly dressed, the vast majority of people who knew him described him as a wonderful gentlemen, they described him as been clean, friendly, intelligent, well dressed, polite, respectful. This man use to dress in a suit everyday, worked hard, had his own car, he even worked on the presidential campaign. He also attended bars and clubs and people called him the life and soul of the party, that he was a happy confident outgoing man, yet actually Ted Bundy abducted, brutally tortured, raped and killed over 30 women. In 2012 his own lawyer admitted Ted Bundy said the real number was over 100 women.

 

Jeffrey Dahmer: This guy was described as a quiet lonely soul who kept himself to himself, he held down a full time job, he wore clean clothes, he paid his rent on time, in 1979 he joined the army where he was fully trained as a combat medic at Fort Sam Houston, later he served in Germany where the army described him as an "Average to above average soldier" yet actually Jeffrey Dahmer would attend gay clubs / sex clubs where he met trusting young people and then raped, tortured, killed, dismembered, cannibalised, and even preformed necrophilia on over 17 victims.

 

 

I agree those are EXTREME examples, but you only need to look at GLOBAL crime figures to see the danger:

 

Word Wide:

 

About 90% of violent crimes are committed by men.

About 98% of sexual crimes are committed by men.

About 80% of major drug crimes are committed by men.

About 98% of serial killers turn out to be men.

 

To coin a famous film quote I'd say:

 

Alfred Pennyworth: Batman The Dark Knight: "Well, because he thought it was good sport. Because some men aren't looking for anything logical, like money. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned, or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world burn"

 

 

I am NOT saying DON'T play with men.

 

I AM simply saying use EXTREME CAUTION when meeting someone new, until you figure them and their motives out.

 

 

MY PROBLEMS WITH SO CALLED SINGLE MEN:

 

I guess my main problems with single men in the swinging world is....

 

1. CHEATERS: The fact that a lot of them are NOT actually single men at all but are cheating on their wife / girlfriend who is sitting at home clueless. Very often in the swinging world a man will LIE to you about been single, and will also be lying to his own wife or girlfriend. This often puts you in a dangerous position or even moral dilemma, that your open minded desire to explore lands you directly into an affair situation where you are the dirty little secret.

 

There are thousands of male profiles on swing sites and on about 80% of them you will notice they are asking for "Discreet Sex / Discretion / To Be Discreet" sometimes in male profiles they will mention the word discreet 3 or 4 times and usually that simply means they are cheating. Firstly that puts you in a bad position, if these men will lie to their wife or girlfriend then they will not even think twice about lying to you as well, secondly it kind of goes against the entire idea of swinging, that as a honest open minded couple the idea of swinging is that you actually don't need to cheat, that you are open minded enough to explore together, its a decision that takes some couples a lot of time effort and even money, however such cheating men ruin that aspect, in fact they would be better joining fling / affair web sites.

 

In my experience a lot of married guys want to find a way to have quick / easy / no strings sex, they want to have sex with other women without needing to put any time or effort into that women, so after racking their cheating minds, after a few failed attempts and trying to organise affairs they decide "Swinging" is an easy way to find their affair, that they can just nip round to someone else's house and bang their wife before running off home to the wife or girlfriend, online is full of cheating men, if I had £10 for every married or cheating man that has messaged us I'd not need to work.

 

I strongly dislike how these men operate, because they are cheating they have a very limited amount of time, that actually what they want to do is sneak round your house often at obscure times and then quickly spend 30 minutes banging your wife or girlfriend before they pull up their trousers and run off back home. In many cases these men need to use "Excuses" to even meet you. They tell their wife they are working late tonight and then you get a smelly unwashed man turning up on your doorstep, someone who has just been at work for 8 hours and hasn't had time to bath, or the other classic is telling their wife or girlfriend they are going to the gym seeing some man tun up on your doorstep in his gym gear or with sport equipment loading up his car.

 

I find it rude, such men want to turn up to your home / turn up to meet you and basically want to have full sex with your partner within 30 or 40 minutes before they are walking back out the door, no friendship, no chatting, little foreplay, they basically just want to walk in the door and expect your wife or girlfriend to be sat their naked with legs open waiting to accept their penis. Such men meet you and if your not having sex within 10 to 15 minutes they become nervous, on edge, start checking their phone every two seconds.

 

 

2. HOMOPHOBIC: I also have found a lot of men out there say they want to experience threesomes, say they are interested in "Swinging" but actually they are extremely homophobic people, that they HATE been around another man naked, that actually they just want to bang your wife or girlfriend and would feel a lot better if you the husband or boyfriend wasn't there. I have met several men in my life who have said they want to try threesomes when actually they are totally 100% disgusted about another man been naked and in the same room as them, they become nervous, jealous, rude, on edge because in reality they don't want a threesome they just want to bang your wife or girlfriend.

 

 

OVERALL:

 

I find a lot of guys out there would be better joining fling and affair sites, only a small amount of them really want MFM / MMF threesomes, most of them are just looking to bang women with no strings and discretion attached, I think a lot of guys see swinging as an easy way to cheat.

[Jinglepot420 20]

I absolutely love to see my wife be fucked by other men.We have done this with about 5 other guys over the years.My wife and I have a bit of a dom-sub thing going on as she loves to play the slutty/sub role.This fits right into the mmf situation perfectly for us.

Sometimes I will participate sometimes I just sit back and enjoy.We also love it when I coach him and my wife on what to do and when.It seems to fit right into the dom thing because even though I'm sitting back watching I'm still in control.The guys seem to like this as well because they don't seem to nervous about doing the wrong thing or on how far to take things or to what extent to use my wife.Also because I know my wife's limits and what she REALLY likes she is getting fucked/used just like she likes it!!A win,win for both of us..

I should also mention that we are both Bi & I have done the clean up duty's on occasion!..This absolutely drives my wife crazy she loves it so much..We are not into the cuck ways at all as I love to be in control..

[Lionheart72 2,190]

I agree those are EXTREME examples, but you only need to look at GLOBAL crime figures to see the danger:

 

Word Wide:

 

About 90% of violent crimes are committed by men.

About 98% of sexual crimes are committed by men.

About 80% of major drug crimes are committed by men.

About 98% of serial killers turn out to be men.

 

Your examples are serial killers and crime statistics?

 

OK, we can agree that men commit 80.4% of violent crimes. However, the percentage of violent crimes to the total population is, if I have calculated this correctly, 0.4%... if 80.4% of those are committed by men, we have roughly 0.3% of the total population are male violent criminals.

 

Not 98%. Not 90%. Not 80%.

 

0.3% of the total population (based 2013 US violent crime statistics).

 

Two takeaways here... Most people aren't violent criminals and inflammatory statistics don't impress data analysts.

 

Sound you use caution when meeting new people? Of course you should. You should look both ways before crossing the street. You should bring an umbrella if it looks like rain. You should use a condom. However, there is a big difference between reasonable caution and fear.

[Wornsilver 219]

Your examples are serial killers and crime statistics?

 

OK, we can agree that men commit 80.4% of violent crimes. However, the percentage of violent crimes to the total population is, if I have calculated this correctly, 0.4%... if 80.4% of those are committed by men, we have roughly 0.3% of the total population are male violent criminals.

 

Not 98%. Not 90%. Not 80%.

 

0.3% of the total population (based 2013 US violent crime statistics).

 

Two takeaways here... Most people aren't violent criminals and inflammatory statistics don't impress data analysts.

 

Sound you use caution when meeting new people? Of course you should. You should look both ways before crossing the street. You should bring an umbrella if it looks like rain. You should use a condom. However, there is a big difference between reasonable caution and fear.

 

Thank you, thank you. We are confronted with this kind of statistical illogic every day in the news. People trying to be sensational. I find it so frustrating (tiring, actually) to be constantly ciphering the real facts from the "facts" presented in a way to make it fit someone's script. Thanks again.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

99% of all convicted murderers ate vegetables. Based solely on this statistic I figure it's not worth the risk to eat vegetables. It's possible, and even easy, to make figures say whatever you want them to say. This is why you should always check where the figures have come from and what their possible agenda might be.

 

 

 

[Guest]

 

 

 

 

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[Guest]

Your examples are serial killers and crime statistics?

 

Nope they are not serial killer statistics, they are simply the real statistics that law enforcement agencies around the globe deal with everyday.

 

I was not saying 90% of men are violent, I was saying 90% of violent crimes are committed by men.

 

That does NOT mean 90% of men are violent, it simply means men do commit a lot more crimes / dangerous acts than women and that is a recorded world wide fact that any police officer will happily tell you.

 

In my old job before starting my own business I spent 12 years working for the British government in the private security sector, during this time I not only helped safe guard the mayor of London but also worked very closely indeed with several police forces, I was trained by the British police service and some of my work is now in the field training manuals that train UK police officer country wide.

 

I am all to familiar with the crime figures, I spent over a decade protecting against them, in the end I was summoned by the House of Lords in the UK to report my findings, hence why my work is still in the police field training manuals.

 

I guess during my 12 year career perhaps the best moment was when the police in the UK ran a series of 2 exams for their police officers, exams based to test their knowledge with over 3000 people attending I was the only person in the room to score 100% in both exams, the chief of police for England had a meeting with me and offered me a job on the drug task force, he actually said in 22 years of service he has never seen anyone with such a natural detectives mind, he said I had put his police force to shame because I had beaten all of his police officers.

 

However don't get me wrong I am NOT saying don't meet men, I am simply saying be cautious.....

 

That actually is all I am saying, be cautious.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

However don't get me wrong I am NOT saying don't meet men, I am simply saying be cautious.....

 

That actually is all I am saying, be cautious.

 

Yes, but you're saying it by using inflammatory statistics to elicit an emotional - fear-based - response. I find that harmful to the community in general and especially harmful on this subforum which is dedicated to new swingers learning about the community.

 

We both agree that people should use a measure of caution and common sense. However, making people afraid doesn't encourage caution. It only encourages fear.

[Guest]

Personally I just think your taking everything I say incorrectly, I never used the word FEAR, they are your words not mine.

 

I simply asked people to be cautious which I firmly believe is a sound, solid, and useful suggestion.

 

I have NOT asked them to be afraid, I have simple asked them to use caution which I would suggest in any walk of life not just swinging.

 

Regarding statistics, well here are some directly from the FBI.

 

2011 arrest data from the FBI:

 

Males constituted 98.0% of those arrested for forcible rape

Males constituted 89.0% of those arrested for robbery

Males constituted 85.0% of those arrested for burglary

Males constituted 83.0% of those arrested for arson.

Males constituted 81.5% of those arrested for motor-vehicle theft.

Males constituted 81.7% of those arrested for stolen property.

Males constituted 81.7% of those arrested for vandalism.

Males constituted 79.7% of those arrested for offenses against family and children.

Males constituted 77.8% of those arrested for aggravated assault

Males constituted 58.7% of those arrested for fraud.

Males constituted 57.3% of those arrested for larceny-theft.

Males constituted 51.3% of those arrested for embezzlement.[

 

 

In the United States, men are much more likely to be incarcerated than women. More than 9 times as many men (5,037,000) as women (581,000) had ever at one time been incarcerated in a State or Federal prison at year end 2001.

 

In 2014, more than 73% of those arrested in the US were males.

 

Males were convicted of the vast majority of homicides in the United States, representing 90.5% of the total number of offenders.

 

Males were most likely to be victims of drug-related (90.5%) and gang-related homicides (94.6%).

 

Males were more likely to be murder victims (76.8%)

 

 

Worldwide homicide statistics via gender

 

According to the data given by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime, worldwide, 78.7% of homicide victims are male, and in 193 of the 202 listed countries or regions, males were more likely to be killed than females.

 

 

A 2013 global study on homicide by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime found that males accounted for about 96 percent of all homicide perpetrators worldwide

 

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These statistics are not me speaking they are the FBI and United Nations Office on Drugs & Crime.

 

So actually I was totally correct, the crime statistics for men are in the high 80% / 90%.

 

The British Police say that male crime statistics are in the high 80 to 90%

 

The FBI say that male crime statistics are in the high 80 to 90%

 

The United Nations say male crime statistics are in the high 80 to 90%

 

But for some reason you say they are not.....

 

 

You must have information that is better and more accurate than the FBI, British Police Service, and the entire United Nations.

 

These are FACTS not fear mongering.

 

I suppose what you desire is for me to tell people to IGNORE the facts, to tell new young people interested in swinging that its a wonderful flower covered world where nothing ever goes wrong and they will be totally 100% fine, but sadly my training, my working past, over a decades worth of experience can NOT let me do that.

 

Life is NOT like that.

 

Yes I will say again there are some wonderful people out there, but there also monsters, there are also liars, users, thieves, affair mongers, dangerous criminals and sadly worldwide crime statistics do clearly show that men are the main culprits, that in about 80 to 90% of major crimes it ends up been a male causing the crime.

 

Anyway don't believe me simply look at the FBI findings, look at the United Nations findings on Gender Crime Statistics and you will find I'm not lying, not fear mongering, simply speaking honest facts.

 

Personally I do not see what is wrong with suggesting caution.

 

You are suggesting the exact opposite, for new inexperienced swingers simply to through caution to the wind, you want to deny such criminal statistics, you want new people simply to ignore the danger, not to be cautious and personally I think that is highly dangerous, misleading, not true to the dangers of modern day life.

 

Like expressed I have never said FEAR.

 

CAMBRIDGE ENGLISH DICTIONARY:

 

Caution: We need to proceed with/exercise caution (= be careful in taking action, making decisions, etc.)

 

Fear: noun. a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid. Synonyms: foreboding, apprehension, consternation, dismay, dread, terror, fright, panic, horror, trepidation, qualm.

 

They are two very different things.

[luvin eye full 140]

Boys boys boys.....

 

While your explanations on why's and how to's are different i think from these posts you are saying the same thing to the OP

 

Just be careful there are good and bad in all walks of life and your sexual life is no different.

 

How many people here will run across a motor way with out looking 1st? so in the same way chose carefully to your best ability and you should have more fun then hurt.

[luvin eye full 140]

Now to smmass question

 

What is normal to you maybe out of this world to myself - What is more important is that you and your girl are on the same page.

 

Now you don't say but i would ask this question before going any further, Why is my wife telling me that she miss's the random hook ups, because i would ask myself then her why?

Is our sex life stale? does she need any thing i can give her ? whats behind some one i have been with for so little time wanting to fuck other men, where do i fit into this? can i have other girls?

 

You see where i'm going with this if you do not have these answers then are you communicating on the level you will need.

I have seen guys freak out once their girl starts to make different noises or get loader blah blah....

 

Think about what you will do if things get to hot for you and would she stop?

 

once you can tell us about the dynamics more we may be of better help.

 

Best to both of you.

[WesternSwing 504]

If it turns you on, it's normal. Normal runs a huge gamut in human sexuality, and what's "normal" for one may not be "normal" for another but neither is wrong or abnormal, it's just different. And if someone says "That's not normal", well it's just something they're not into so to them nobody should be.

 

That said, over the years I've watched my wife or partners fuck other men and I have always thought it hot. After all, they're my favorite porn star. And when they give you "that" look while getting fucked by another guy, that "Oh my god, thank you for this" look, you fall in love with her all over again.

[Mred&tinkerbell 21]

Both myself and my GF are in the same boat you are. we want to start to swing but don't know how and with whom. We sure would like to hook up with some experienced swingers.

This is from my GF I am looking to find men to have a gang bang with. My BF wants me to have sex with guys while he watches. It is something that I have never done before but are willing to try for him to enjoy.

[luvin eye full 140]

Both myself and my GF are in the same boat you are. we want to start to swing but don't know how and with whom. We sure would like to hook up with some experienced swingers.

This is from my GF I am looking to find men to have a gang bang with. My BF wants me to have sex with guys while he watches. It is something that I have never done before but are willing to try for him to enjoy.

 

 

Hey Mred&tinkerbell,

 

Thats great that you two can explore together my only concern would be is she Wanting to do this or just willing because you want it? it would be better if you both want it but who knows maybe after it she will also ( if she does not yet )

 

the truth is there are good and bad out there and you need to do your home work to provide as safe environment for the both of you - also have a word or some thing that says help get me out of here if she does not want to keep going.

[Capt 16]

We have met many men(strangers). , many and have never ever had any trouble

[Capt 16]

Several black males from the hood, white guys from suburbs

[eldiablo311 201]

Hi all. My wife and I don't swing (yet) but we have talked about it a decent amount. She's had more partners before getting married than I did and sometimes talks about how she misses random hookups at bars. It really turns me on thinking of her fucking another guy and I think I'd be ok with it. Those husbands that have done this, have you been in the same room watching? Did you take part or just observe? Just curious about what's normal or not.

 

Fist off, my wife has said multiple times that she LOVES the freedom to fuck other people. Second, yes I have always been in the same room when she fucks someone else, that is our arrangement as of right now. I LOVE watching her fuck! It is like watching live porn, but with an emotional connection with the girl! There is a huge mix of emotions, but if you are in the right mindset about it going into it, it is the biggest turn on ever!!

 

Third, yes, every time my wife has fucked someone else, at some point, I have taken part. I have had the other guy watch us fuck afterwards and that was super sexy and a huge turn on!

 

The bottom line is this, yes it is a big decision to make, and communication is key, you will be apprehensive no matter what, you have to talk, talk, talk with you wife before, during and after and you have to agree going into the experience that you will NOT hold it against her EVER...remember that, most likely, you were the one that instigated this idea, so do not get mad at her if it doesn't go exactly as expected. Think of it as an adventure that you and your wife are about to embark on, and for bad or good, it is something that you guys will agree to take a chance on and experience together and remember forever! That is what marriage is about isn't it? Experiencing new and exciting adventures together? It should be about creating fun and memorable memories together with the underling thought always being that you love each other, and will be together forever!!!

[SingleMaleSC 15]

I like both watching and participating. That was the beauty of making my wife the center of attention of our MFMs. Both of us could work on her but if one of us wanted to sit by and watch, it was a great show. I must say I found myself watching up close more than I thought I would when she and I were just planning it. We were always in the same room except for a couple of times they hooked up by themselves at his place. As for normal, you can just throw that notion out. Anything that's fine with all involved is OK.

[Numex 2,420]

Started out thaat I didn't mind her fucking around, not because it was a turn on, but because she can be happy and it doesn't bother me at all. Now that we sometimes do this together, it's cool watching her fuck or whatever, but it's great that get to enjoy the other women.

[Naughtyvanessa 49]

i think it is hot. I offer cuckold session in Manhattan. My sub loves to watch and it is a big turn on for me, too!

[EastInWest 1,524]

So at this point Mrs. E has played with three other men. I've been present for all of it and wouldn't have it any other way, usually participating but sometimes taking turns. I agree totally with the "she's my favorite porn star" sentiment.

 

There's a wide, wide range of what's "normal". Our first session was Mrs. E giving a friend's husband head before a woman went down on me. Our last session was me guiding Mrs. E's head in my lap while she was on all fours getting fucked from behind. It's all been good fun so far.

[marriedcouple84 24]

Me and my wife did it a lot..

Yes i love watching her wiz another guy..and sometimes i like to join..some other times i like to fuck her after we finish and talk about it while am fucking her..

All the above is normal..dont worry..

If u want advice,try joining for he first time..to break the ice..

I like to watch and take some pics of her with other guys if they r camera friendly:)