bigmac08 16 Posted July 3, 2017 My wife and I are continuing to explore swinging. Taking it slow to make sure we both are comfortable with it. But looking to explore further. Are there places in Chicago we should check out? Are there sites we should go to? My friend said they went to a strip club and had sex in the VIP room while the stripper was touching his wife to get her first jitters out of the way. Any ideas as to how to get over those hurdles? Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,072 Posted July 10, 2017 We're from the left coast so we can't really help much with Chicago info, but a quick search on the internet showed several swinger clubs in the area. Actually I'm surprised that nobody from Chicago has helped answer your question (probably on vacation last week like we were). A club is a good way to get started (as reading other threads here for advice). Go in with your limits planned and agreed upon and don't alter them while you are there. Go with no expectations other than having a fun night out with your SO (anything else is a bonus). Don't be hesitant about saying hello to people...know that they will respect your boundaries. Take things slow, don't move faster than she is comfortable with. That's one way to help get over the hurdles. Don't pressure her and let her know that you are doing this together. There is no rush or reason to hurry. If you have read some of the other threads (and we hope you have) this is all about love, trust and communication. Read this thread: https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/58960-what-are-your-rules-when-swinging/ It will help with the basics just in case you haven't done this yet. Anyways, let us know how you are progressing and feel free to ask more questions...I'm sure that they will be answered quicker next time. Good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted July 11, 2017 Look on SLS or some other site. That are any number of them, some on premises, some not, some couples only on Saturday nights but not necessarily all nights, some not, in the burbs and in the city. Quote Share this post Link to post
f_cooper26 15 Posted July 31, 2017 Hey there, I new to this as well. Male 30yrs. I too have tough time looking up sites. Some of them don't look geninue. Let me know if you have come across any useful site. We can meet up as well. Quote Share this post Link to post
f_cooper26 15 Posted July 31, 2017 Fellow Chicago Nice to see some here. The link seems helpful. Please let me know if there is any event happening in coming months. Quote Share this post Link to post
