Best friend offers to be our pet

[MBhavingfun0611 15]

My SO and I have been into light bondage, blindfolds, and the lighter side of BDSM in general. We're also experienced with group sex. I'm openly bisexual and my best friend is too. She has always made it clear that she wants me but didn't pursue it because she was married in a very vanilla and monogamous relationship. To make an incredibly long story short, we have discussed the possibility of her being our sex pet. As in, occasionally join us for sex and, when she does, she would be our submissive third. She brought it up so the situation would be consensual.

 

Does anyone have any experience or advice for this situation?

[SJBluebirds 195]

I think some of the fetish boards might have better and more experienced advice than what you'll find here. Good Luck and have fun!

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

...she was married in a very vanilla and monogamous relationship.

 

WAS married or still is? That makes a big difference in our response.

[MBhavingfun0611 15]

WAS married.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Then it's up to the two (three) of you if you want to pursue this. As long as she's house trained we don't see any problems...other than we usually advise against swinging with friends but in this case, it sounds like she already knows that you swing and wants to be included.

[kikonkrome 844]

So in the threesomes we have it can kinda progress to one or two people being submissive and the other/s being dominant. It is actually a lot more work to be dominant IMHHO. You need to make sure everybody is having a 'GREAT' time. At least to be a good dominant it is more about satisfying your pet's needs than satisfying your own. OK, let's say being responsible for everybodies needs not just your own.

 

Frankly putting one or two participants as the 'object' of the others attention we think is a blast!!! It's a lot more fun than just kinda partnering up.

 

Good Luck with it and Have Fun!!

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

It is actually a lot more work to be dominant IMHHO.

 

Damn right!