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My wife and I are going on a 2 week trip, somewhere, in November. We are seriously considering Breathless Riviera Cancun, but we want to make sure the resort we go to has the following things:

 

1) Clean, comfortable, modern rooms...but clean and comfortable most important.

2) A good mix of single people, not just couples.

3) Top shelf alcohol and great food.

4) Party atmosphere, stuff doesn't shut down at midnight.

 

I have been looking into Hedonism II, it gets great reviews, but sounds like the rooms, even the upgraded ones aren't that nice...and we will be in the bedroom a lot I think! ;) I saw a review about the windows not locking or closing all the way and ants in their room! Also, are there more than one Hedonism resorts?

 

I have also looked at Desire, which is right next to Breathless, but it seems small, maybe not too much of a party atmosphere and all couples...plus some of the pics of the rooms make it look like they need renovation. I saw one pics with some black mold and yellow stains on the counter top.

 

I read about Hidden Beach, south of Playa Del Carmen, but I heard it is very quiet, not much of a party atmosphere, and has a much older age group than us, we are in our late 30's.

 

I read about Temptations in Cancun, it looks like the renovation is nice and the rooms are nice.

 

We really aren't super picky, but we want something clean 1st and foremost, especially if we are going to be naked all of the time!! My wife won't feel comfortable otherwise!!

 

Do you guys have any suggestions? Thank you!

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Breathless is not clothing optional and not swinger oriented (if that is what you are looking for). For a nude resort that allows singles (usually men), then you are kind of limited to Hedonism II. If you are just looking for a party atmosphere, then that is kind of what Breathless is marketing. We haven't been there so we can't say for sure.

 

Desire RM is smaller (LOTS smaller than Breathless) but every night has evening entertainment that seems to run longer than we can stay awake (we would rather head to bed early anyways...but not necessarily with just the two of us). There's also the play room and the Jacuzzi for more late night excitement. We hear the 2am pizza from the bar is incredible. No singles, but we consider that a plus. They have top shelf, but you need to ask for it by name or they will give you the (surprisingly) cheaper stuff.

 

Bottom line: it's up to you as to what you are looking for. If you just want the four items on your list and nothing more, then there are dozens of resorts that offer that. If you want clothing optional, then that limits things to Hedo, Desire, Desire Pearl, Temptations, and Hidden Beach. If you want swinging, then Hidden Beach shouldn't be your first choice (there may be some that happens there, but they seem to be more clothing optional only).

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Okay great thank you for the response!

 

What we are wanting to happen, hopefully, is for her to meet a single guy that she likes and she can take back to the room to fuck...maybe multiple nights during the trip. We don't think a couple situation would work so well, as if they were down with that, most likely they would want a full swap, and my wife is not comfortable with me fucking another woman at this point in time. This is why we figure a place that allows singles would be better suited to what we are looking for.

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Have you looked into the November Bliss cruise? it does not allow singles, unless a couple brings them. But we encountered a few couples that were into the hotwife play only. They also have meets & greats for hall pass couples where you could find a 3rd. In some of the playrooms hall passes were allowed. Although bliss security will not allow the single guys with hall passes to hover for too long around a couple during play.

 

It's not a resort but it's a thought, and cruises are usually very well maintained. If you have questions you can call Toplesstravel travel, they are very friendly, and almost all the agents are in the LS they also do all the resorts.Topless Travel | Swingers Travel and Lifestyle Adventures

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I believe that Hedonism is what you are looking for. There is only one Hedonism, Hedo 2. (Hedo 3 closed several years ago.) The staff does a great job of keeping it clean. You should understand that the place is over 30 years old, but the new owners have spent millions on upgrading the rooms, fixing infrastructure, better food, etc. Part of this has been replacing air conditioners which now work quite well, and also putting a screen on the window to keep the bugs out. Honestly,you will be having so much fun hanging out with all your new friends, you will only be in the room to shower and sleep.

 

You can look at the Hedonism website, click on group events, and see which groups will be there during which weeks. If you book with a group, you will get a better rate. We have gone with Jon's Fluffernutters (fluffernutters.com) several times, and will be there Nov 10 - 18. The Fluffs are a great group, normally people of various ages, some couples and some singles, non-judgmental folks from all over, friendly and inclusive people who want to party and have fun, some nudists, some swingers.

 

You can make Hedo what you want it to be, and I'm positive your wife will not have any trouble finding a guy to play with. If you go with the right attitude, you will make friends that you'll stay in contact with for many years, and it may be the best vacation of your life. Feel free to ask more questions if you want and we'll try to answer. Good Luck!

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Great, thank you guys! I will check out that cruise idea, and topless travel sounds like a good resource. Also Hedonism does sound like fun! I am trying to convince my wife to giving that one a try! I have read a lot of good reviews about that place, from 1st timers that seemed nervous about going, but then ended up loving it!

 

We are seriously looking at Breathless Riviera Cancun, as it seems to market towards couples and singles and it is a brand new 5 star resort with what looks like a really good party atmosphere, DJ's, pool parties that go on till 3am....sounds like there could be some opportunities there as well.

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Not my review but one I found on another site but it may help you:

 

Our last trip to DRM we booked a night at Breathless to see what it was like. Since we kept our room at DRM we just packed a backpack and walked over since we had talked to another DRM guest who said it was about a 20 minute cab ride to go out and around since the driveways of each resort go nowhere near each other. The security guard on the beach could not understand that we were checking in, even after showing him all the reservation information I had printed out. After calling a couple other people they walked us to registration. When we checked in, they were still having a heard time understanding we were just staying for one one night to see what it was like. What really bothered us is the INSISTED on cutting off our DRM bracelets, saying they didn't want Breathless guests to feel "uncomfortable" if they saw them and went on an on about their concerns for security(?). This got kicked all the way up to the front end manager who would not change her mind. After some going back and forth we cut off our brackets for DRM and checked in.

 

The resort is HUGE and I admit it is very nice, the room we got was one of their cheaper ones and it overlooked the pool closest to DRM and the ocean, very nice. The room was really big and everything in it was nice and modern. One of the reasons we wanted to try Breathless was we aways hear the great music during the day coming from next door. When we went down to the pool it was boring as hell. No sense of people trying to talk to each other at all, everyone was in small groups they came in and just stuck to themselves, no partying. Plus, the place is so huge there is no need feeling of friendliness. My wife went topless and that was ok in only 1 of the 3 pools we found out. After being bored silly and watching a young lady take selfies for I kid you not, 20 minutes, we went to the middle pool and finally met some fun people who, after about a half hour told us the pool wasn't topless, which my wife still was but nobody really cared. We decided to try one of the 8 restaurants which was pretty good, nothing great, good service though.

 

We tried the gym which is way back past the front desk but was very nice and had great equipment and a full time staff member to help you out and maintain the place. Everyone we spoke with said the nightlife was not good and was mostly people getting trashed and acting a fool in the club. From what we saw, seemed like a bunch of amateur drinkers :-). After a few hours we decided the place wasn't worth it and checked out. Everyone at the front desk was amazed and couldn't understand it. We walked back along the beach to DRM where a security guard was doing a great job and started toward us when we tried to walk in, clothed, so you know that looked weird, we just showed him our bracelets and we were fine. Went to the front desk where we told the amazing Alba the story and she gave us 2 new bracelets and we will never go back.

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Followed up with:

 

We did a similar thing last November - stayed at Breathless for a night because RM was full so we couldn't get a room so we figured why not check it out.

 

charon1oar wrote:

No sense of people trying to talk to each other at all, everyone was in small groups they came in and just stuck to themselves, no partying. Plus, the place is so huge there is no need feeling of friendliness. My wife went topless and that was ok in only 1 of the 3 pools we found out

 

 

 

This was our experience as well, except that we were all keyed up in Desire pre-game mode and were actively talking to people etc... which was quite odd as we got a hint of "why are these weird people coming and talking to us". The contrast was stark, as we knew exactly what awaited us next door.

 

The topless pool consisted of my wife and one other woman being topless, with lots of non topless women with laser eyeball tracking devices installed - mainly aimed at their significant others who seemed to be enjoying the toplessness of my wife and the other woman. So, at least that was a fun dynamic to watch play out.

 

The facility, staff etc... were great, no problem there and if I didn't know any better it would be a great place. But, I do know better so I doubt we'd pay the $$$ to stay there again.

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