Best swinging sites?

[TandBB81 66]

We're interested in this communities opinion on the best swinging sites. What are they, and what are the positive, or negative, experiences you've had with said sites? Thanks in advance!

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Swinglifestyle (SLS) has worked well for us, and is probably at the top of the heap in many parts of the country. It's not the slickest most modern site, but it does have what's most important, and that is a lot of swingers.

 

Second to that would be Swingtowns. They seem to fly under the radar a bit, but the people who are part of that site seem to really like it.

 

After those would come Swingers Date Club (SDC), Adult Friend Finder (AFF), and Kasidie.

 

There are a lot more than the ones I listed, and depending on the part of the country, one of the others may have a stronger local presence than one of the big ones. Most of the big ones offer a free membership option though, so you can't go wrong at least giving them a try to see how they are in your area.

[dan63 106]

Many people I have found will pick one or two sites to have a paid membership at and then sign up for free accounts to as many as you want. WE are paid on SLS but free on several others. We have had paid account at C4P before and will probably be back to paid, because as cplnuswing we have found in the Memphis area more people are on SLS while over here in Arkansas a lot of people are paid on C4P.

 

Just our experience.

[BuiltForSin 66]

Very very regional. For our area SLS is where there are active swingers, meets are posted, etc. Two hundred miles south most of the people use Swingular and SLS is a ghost town. We have lifetime accounts on these two sites. We were paying members of Kasidie until a few months ago, it was never great for our city but it was decent for the Portland area that we like to visit. Much of the active swingers in Portland are now in private facebook groups..

 

You are in Kansas, not idea what is popular there. You are going to need to create profiles on several sites and see where the people are at for your area. I would start with SLS (most popular overall) and SDC (popular in Texas, closest location to Kansas that I know what page is popular). Good luck.

[dan63 106]

Much of the active swingers in Portland are now in private facebook groups..

 

 

This is actually a new arena for us in our local area and have had great success. We started out by being invited to join one private house party secret fb group and are now members of five different groups in our area. They can be a lot of fun and a great way of networking within the LS and it doesn't cost a penny.

 

The catch is getting invited to join that first group. From there it is pretty easy to spread out.

[2NoLimit 95]

We are currently on 3 sites, KAS, SDC, and SLS. But from our experience it's mostly based on where you live. I can tell you that here in South Florida SDC is number 1, SLS is second, and KAS is a almost non existent.

 

For South Florida

 

1. SDC

More couples, more features, great private, and public events, younger crowd. Can be very X-rated with videos and pix (that can be negative or positive, depending on your view.)

Site can be a little tricky to navigate.

 

2. SLS

More user friendly. Not as many couples but still strong. Cleaner site as far as what is allowed in the public pictures. Seems stronger up north, we have met a few couples that travel to SFL vie SLS. Negative: site is lacking features, and somewhat old.

 

3 KAS

Not much experience with it, the small amount of couples we see on that site are also on the other 2. As far as the features it's very similar to SDC.

 

IMO try them all and see what site has more couples for your area.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . The catch is getting invited to join that first group. From there it is pretty easy to spread out.

Private Facebook groups are gaining traction around here too. For some of these private groups, people are inventing personas different from their real personas. You, know, the usual feeling of shame about being a swinger and fear of being exposed. We have stayed away from these.

 

But neither my wife nor I aspire to political offer nor are we CIA or NSA, so we have felt comfortable to accept invitations from people who are well known to us. Our regular Facebook profile appears to all of the members of these secret groups. This requires a certain level of trust. But there are enormous advantages in using a group like this compared to using a swinger hook-up Web site. We meet new people at a much greater rate than before.

 

But as dan63, observed. First you have to get to know swingers before there is any chance of getting invited into a group like this.

 

To answer the OP's original question, SLS would be a good choice of a Web site for people just starting. But do not expect instant results. It took my wife and I a year to accomplish a first hook-up after joining SLS. Hopefully you are using other methods as well such as going to swinger cubs and finding meet-n-greet events.

[Guest 2B13RFUN]

AFF was good for us before most relevant features could only be accessed by being a paying member.

 

SLS is still fairly decent to free members, and allows for limited amounts of interaction between any paying or nonpaying members. Not perfect, but adequate.

 

CL has proven a complete bust in almost all respects for us.

[MarniJohn 172]

I think honestly, Kasidie is the up and coming site to look at. The parties they throw at clubs are great. SDC also attracts many people to their events. My experience with SLS is that for parties, it does not attract a crowd. We were in Europe and SDC was even strong over there.

 

I have seen people question SLS often...

[Funguy796 44]

Thank you, I am going to check out a few of these other options. I used AFF in the past and they had too many old profiles that it was a waste of time. I think SLS is pretty good. I never used Kasidie so I am going to check that out.

[Arcana 23]

TandBB81 said:

We're interested in this communities opinion on the best swinging sites. What are they, and what are the positive, or negative, experiences you've had with said sites? Thanks in advance!

 

We are registered on two sites, the first with Italian couples is SC, very simple and functional. The second is a international swinger social network: Spicy.

[herthreesome 15]

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[introvertswingr 55]

Honestly, we had more luck with at least getting to the meet and greet stage through CL (R.I.P.). Swingtowns seems to be a bunch of flakes for us so far. We have had 1 meet-up, 1 stand-up, and many many people who say they want to meet up, but then ghost (or don't cancel until the last minute -- and by last minute, I mean we explained we would have to leave at 3pm to get to them, and they canceled at 3pm). We have another meet-up scheduled this Saturday, so we shall see. As others have said, I imagine it is highly dependent on where you live and the popular site around there. We aren't just looking in our city -- which opens up possibilities if people are willing to travel or meet halfway.

[Aircoffee 27]

Kasidie and SLS are the sites we use. You find the same couples on both though. It’s Arizona. It’s been a few months and nothing good has come from using them except finding out about events. Only action we have seen has been from going places where there are a lot of swingers. Guess we may have to wait until next trip

[NoAngels 334]

Even what some might say are good swinger sites there are going to be plenty of posers and fakes. Beware if the couple sounds too good.

[Sarahm 15]

I really like swingingheaven.co.uk currently though, I think they are mainly in the Uk which is where I am from.

 

Everyone always seems super friendly and they have a nice Admin team which deal with any reports or fakes. I also love the fact you have to be image verified to be able to enter the chatroom, this certainly weeds our alot of posers.

 

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[Out-N-About 52]

Thanks for the insight, everyone! Big question: If you could only choose between SLS and Swingtowns, which wuould you prefer - and why?

[willistrong 16]

Totally agree with cplnuswing, I have already used them.