Wife wants to be gangbanged

[NeedHerFilled 17]

We have been talking about it for a couple years but she has recently become very adamant about it. Wants to make it a regular thing because of all the scenarios we fantasize about. She wants to plan trips specifically for gangbangs. She knows I want her to do large groups and says she wants it...needs it.

 

So the question is, what's the best way to get these set up?

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Gang bangs are surprisingly difficult to actually set up. I've heard lots of stories about folks posting online looking for guys, getting a handful of replies and ultimately having only one, or two, or often zero, people actually show up.

 

Once upon a time, we managed to do semi-regular, semi-spontaneous gang bangs at our local swingers club. The club had a TV playing porn with some couches and chairs in the "play area"... so we'd find a seat there, she'd start going down on me and once her performance attracted more attention that what was on the screen, I'd invite guys to join in. Worked pretty well. Sadly, that club closed down and the same trick doesn't work nearly as well at the new club in the area.

 

I've heard of some clubs that specifically cater to gang bangs, or have special "gang bang nights."

 

So I guess what I'm suggesting is check out your local swingers club scene and see if there is a club in your area that works for you.

 

My other suggestion is don't go in with expectations. If you decide the night is only fun if she pulls the whole train, you're setting yourself for disappointment and frustration. Go in with the mindset that a gang bang would be nice, but sex together - just the two of you, maybe with a little exhibitionism - is fun too.

[Guest 2B13RFUN]

Have to say it sounds like a logistic nightmare...lol. It's difficult for us to schedule and keep on track adding just ONE other person. Seems very time consuming and frustrating; but if there's a will, there's a way, I reckon. Good luck.

[Numex 2,420]

We have been talking about it for a couple years but she has recently become very adamant about it. Wants to make it a regular thing because of all the scenarios we fantasize about. She wants to plan trips specifically for gangbangs. She knows I want her to do large groups and says she wants it...needs it.

 

So the question is, what's the best way to get these set up?

 

She ever done anything like this before? like maybe two or three guys or something similar as a lead up? Not necessarily a gangbang but just multiple guys in one night.

[njbm 2,873]

We've been to a multiple man party where it is known that there will be a lot of single men and few women We've had fun. Women can play with more partners than men. Most guys only have one or two shots in them.

 

Check SLS or your local swinging site for parties with this theme.

[TricianMike 772]

We've been to a multiple man party where it is known that there will be a lot of single men and few women We've had fun. Women can play with more partners than men. Most guys only have one or two shots in them.

 

Check SLS or your local swinging site for parties with this theme.

 

I see you are from NJ too. We tried to attend a similar party, maybe the same group you went to. We got there late and some of the party started. Not to sound stuck up but the women were not that attractive and the men ran the gamut of all types. We were only there a few minutes and I really didn't feel clean. Mike asked me if I wanted to leave and we did.

[njbm 2,873]

The party we went to was in NY. So maybe it was different.

[Funguy796 44]

I have set a few up and it is really hard work. I am very protective and it is hard screening guys....sometimes really nice guys just turn into rude asses. I would build up from MFM and add a guy or two or three until you are where you want to be. Most importantly, be safe about this.

[J&Wu 408]

Probably need to get out to some house and Hotel parties. Our first experience was with a well established group, mostly couples but some single guys and ladies. Every time we've been back at least one to three ladies either single or married announce that they want to take on multiple comers during the introductions and occasionally someone else will opt in during the mid evening break and chat.

[njbm 2,873]

We brought a couple to one of these events. They were looking for the door almost immediately. The reality does not always match the fantasy.

[luvin eye full 140]

SO i have to ask, Have you guys done anything with others?

 

Apart from setting it up there are emotions to deal with as well and safe words i would think when many are involved or even one,

So you bring it up and now after years she "needs it"? sounds like she is saying it to for fill your needs, giving that you have not done this before how would she know she "needs it"

 

I'm not tiring to say don't do it - just be careful as i am not 100% sure it's what either of you "need"

 

Good luck and let us know.

[CB&DD 218]

That is on DDs list of things to do. We're going to hit a club on a night when they are allowing a large number of single males so she at least has a chance to pick a decent group. While it's not the creampie gangbang that she wants (gotta play as safe as possible so condoms will be used) after watching those Czech movies it will have to suffice for the sake of limiting the risk of std/sti.

[TheLustLife 16]

A creampie gang bang is the best.

[PSULioness 857]

SO i have to ask, Have you guys done anything with others?

 

Apart from setting it up there are emotions to deal with as well and safe words i would think when many are involved or even one,

So you bring it up and now after years she "needs it"? sounds like she is saying it to for fill your needs, giving that you have not done this before how would she know she "needs it"

 

I'm not tiring to say don't do it - just be careful as i am not 100% sure it's what either of you "need"

 

Good luck and let us know.

 

I can't imagine needing to do this. I can only talk for myself. After three or four times even with my husband over the course of a night, I am sore or numb. We have had to stop because of the pain and that is with someone who is making love not with guys trying to show how hard they could do it.

This is a man's fantasy not a woman. Any woman agreeing to do this is just trying to please others, not herself. She is looking for acceptance. At what point is fun turning to torture. I think I know my limit.

[Naughtyvanessa 49]

I think NY is the best place forthat kind of experience. Everybody is on "the hunt". Place and ad or go out and pick up your guys at a great bar, lounge or club.

[pete c 34]

Creampie Gangbang would make a great band name.

[EastInWest 1,524]

I can't imagine needing to do this. I can only talk for myself. After three or four times even with my husband over the course of a night, I am sore or numb. We have had to stop because of the pain and that is with someone who is making love not with guys trying to show how hard they could do it.

This is a man's fantasy not a woman. Any woman agreeing to do this is just trying to please others, not herself. She is looking for acceptance. At what point is fun turning to torture. I think I know my limit.

 

I'm not sure I agree with this. Some women do have an exhibitionist streak and love being the center of attention.

 

With that said, it's definitely at the far end of the group sex spectrum and probably isn't just about sex at that point.

[ChaTam 43]

This is a man's fantasy not a woman. Any woman agreeing to do this is just trying to please others, not herself. She is looking for acceptance. At what point is fun turning to torture. I think I know my limit.

 

I don't agree with this statement either. A gangbang is definitely my wife's fantasy and not mine. We have never done it and I'm not sure we ever will (I actually highly doubt it). Right now it's just my wife's fantasy and there's nothing wrong with leaving it as such. But it is 100% her fantasy.

[venusshaw 123]

I have never been to a swingers club party as we don't have nay where we live, and do not wish to drive 100's of miles to one, just to flavor it. I have had gang bang with 4 people and I think it is only possible in Hedonism, if lucky. sometimes, singles who have met each other before hang around together. First I went with one of them, and got talking to him. He asked can I do with all four of them. I said yes, as long as they are all nice to me. first I became friends with all of them at the pool and at the dining table, I went with all of them one at a time, and then had all four of them at the same time. I would say it happened out of luck - I have taken two many times together, even three, but four has been maximum. I wouldn't do it in a hotel, my home, or anyone else's home, who I don't know very well. I am not sure if it can happen extempore in a party, unless it has been arranged from before..

 

I don't agree with this statement either. A gangbang is definitely my wife's fantasy and not mine. We have never done it and I'm not sure we ever will (I actually highly doubt it). Right now it's just my wife's fantasy and there's nothing wrong with leaving it as such. But it is 100% her fantasy.

[Guest]

Our first one just happened. We joined four guys that were staying at the same beach front motel for shots late at night, out side. Thing kind of progressed from shots to body shots to gb. Like so any other aspects of swinging, we find that they are not so hard to find if you look in the right places. Its like an MFM, you can spend hours on SLS, setting up a date and being disappointed or you can go to a nice bar, dress a little sexy and there are any number of guys who will chat with you and hubby, and at the end of the evening, are willing to join you. We have a motorcycle and go to a lot of biker weekends, so way more men then women, more than willing to be a part of a gb. Similarly, house parties, not necessarily called a gb but orgy like activity that is very much like a gb, especially if you two are the new attendees. Hubby may go for drinks after work with the guys, I come by dressed a little sexy later in the evening and join them. We haven’t don’t it but certainly some of the guys get sexual, we could easily turn it into a gb. The thing is, your wife has to want to do it. If so, she can make it happen.

[SniperFuck 17]

My wife and I have been swinging for more than 10 years now, although lately we are just taking a break and keeping to ourselves. However, our first gangbang started up spontaneously at a swingers club in our area about 8 years ago. We went there to get us a random guy from the club and invite him over to the private area for a MFM threesome, as we usually did. One day, though, the club owner opened the private “couples only” area where single men are not normally allowed unless invited by a couple and many single men started to roam the whole private areas. My wife and I were right in the middle of a threesome with another guy on one of them mattresses-like beds that they have at swingers’ clubs. Then, a few men just hanged around to watch us going at it. I knew my wife and I have talked many times about inviting more than just one guy to our sessions, so after a while, I just beckoned to the guys standing there to come over and play with us. Three guys jumped onto the mattress where we were and that’s where it all started. We were there for about four hours, guys kept coming and going. We don’t exactly know how many men my wife was with that night but at any point in time there were always at least five guys with her. We had a great time. I enjoyed seeing my wife with so many men, and she did enjoy sucking off men left, right and center. She was fucked many times and I judging from her moaning and screaming, I knew she was enjoying it like hell. I was with her all the time making sure nobody was rough with her and that she was treated with respect and that everybody used condoms when penetrating her. She gave the blowjobs “au naturel”, no condom. We were lucky that everybody was nice and friendly and no one was disrespectful to her. After all, that was our regular club, and we had never had a bad experience there. That was our first gangbang. We have had a few more gangbang sessions over the years, always in the same club. I guess that’s a nice way to get started on gangbangs. There is always a club owner and nice people in case someone is not friendly. Good luck with it. You are going to have a great time

[Cleve76Pom 24]

difficult to set up if you are the organizer, easier if it just happens, say a t a club or house party. My limited experience, 4-5 men, who usually have a minute or two inside me, then switch. This also goes along with the occasional oral participant makes it more interesting by sloppy. In the end only the last two guys came inside me....along with one orally....i prefer two men at most at a time

[Sawman 84]

I have organized a couple and been to several more. They are a pain to organize. The best bet is a club. Phone ahead and see which nights are best for unaccompanied males. The setting is safe and there is no need to recruit. The club might have a gang bang night where entry requirements for males is relaxed.

 

If you can't get to a club you have to start with advertising. Dating sites can offer GB sub boards. AFF has some by locality. Craigs List was the the place to advertise, but no longer. If you can set up an ad state the date, time and place such as a hotel. Insist that the players provide voice phone numbers and are available a few hours before. Speak to each one, give him the room number and any time window. One event required the players to be in place so the lady could make an entrance rather than wait all evening on the bed. Hotel rooms can get crowded and players might be expected to bring their own towels and safe sex supplies.

 

A lady interested in a GB needs at least one gentleman to control things, to watch her back. Two men isn't bad. When she says no she has friends to reinforce the decision.

[jnrswinger 62]

If she wants, say, at least 6 men to gangbang her you would probably need to schedule with at least 12 to 18 because at least half will be no-shows. But if more do happen to show up, well she will be a lucky lady.

[twohots4u2 188]

Suggest that you advertise for, or search for, gang bang groups of guys and set up a small party with them. For example, we have a friend who wanted a five-BBC gang bang. We found a guy who represented a group of BBCs who all worked at a local fire station. The head guy made sure that five guys showed up. We watched, filmed it, and my gal did some fluffing to help some of the guys get it up for rounds two and three.

[Aaron911 45]

We have been talking about it for a couple years but she has recently become very adamant about it. Wants to make it a regular thing because of all the scenarios we fantasize about. She wants to plan trips specifically for gangbangs. She knows I want her to do large groups and says she wants it...needs it.

 

So the question is, what's the best way to get these set up?

 

Yes, setting up a gangbang is very difficult to do. We tried doing it with friends to make it easier and safer. But in the end all of your close friends have now fucked your wife which makes things complicated in the future. When everyone is hanging out on a regular night, all your friends think your wife is fair game to touch, kiss, or hold your wife out in the open. Moral of the story... dont use your friends because it never ends good lol.