Have you even asked for a name only after being intimate?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Have you ever played and asked for a name only as your playmate goes out the door?

[PeterJ 954]

Yes. On occasion.

[Guest]

No, I think the worst was asking on the way to the playrooms…..I used a “Now what was your name again….."

[ErikaAndPeter 104]

Actually, I've been a little worse. There have been a couple of times that I never asked their name.

[larry818 58]

While on vacation once, I met a girl while walking around, and we spent the day together. Later that evening we're back in my hotel room and I'm banging away at her when she asks "what's my name?". I didn't have a clue... Thankfully she didn't care.

[Markjorge1 59]

Yes. We played and didn't even ask their names. The couple asked us as they were getting dressed to leave.

[Numex 2,420]

I guess my wife and I (especially me) are pretty limited by comparison. Not only have I known beforehand the names of the women I fucked, I've known the names of all the guys my wife fucks. She knew them all before we started dating.

[SAMnTINA 362]

Yep been there done that, even worse is showing up for a party at the condo of playmates and having to tell security you only know there first names.

[Guest 2B13RFUN]

No.

[kikonkrome 844]

yeah...also done the never bother to ask thing as well.

[asncpl 729]

yeah...also done the never bother to ask thing as well.

 

Same here.

 

I once suggested (very naively) to a friend, who is the female half of a couple that frequently hosted parties, that it would be a good idea to have those "Hello My Name is ..." sticky tags, and her response was "have you seen the hair shirt on my husband?"

[PSULioness 857]

This really bothered me at a party we went to. The party was at a college friends place. I am sure I was introduced to everyone when we arrived. There were some of the girls I knew from school and then there were friends of friends. Somehow I got involved with a couple, actually her first. I kind of remembered they were friends of an old friend but at the time I couldn't remember their names. Afterwards I went to my friend and had to ask the names of the couple who I just spent the better part of an hour with. I felt so much better after I knew their names and were able to talk without faking that I knew their names.

[Numex 2,420]

This really bothered me at a party we went to... Afterwards I went to my friend and had to ask the names of the couple who I just spent the better part of an hour with. I felt so much better after I knew their names and were able to talk without faking that I knew their names.

 

Was it expected that you would write Thank You notes?

[padoc 1,703]

Actually, we often DO send thank you notes. If we play with a couple we always ask and try to remember their screen name so that even if we forget their 1st names, we can send them a note. Since we're not exactly bed notchers, we've frequently found that a follow-up email to new playmates leads to encore meetings and sometimes even a friendship (with benefits)

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

If a woman spent the better part of an hour with me and the Ms., we would send more than a thank you note and make sure that she knew our name (address and phone number) just in case she was interested in a second performance...