What are the policies on squirting/urination

[Marchingt9 15]

It depends who you talk to about if there is a difference, but what is the policy for squirting, as my gf does squirt often?

[shy_couple 459]

Policy? Don't know about policy but feel there should be disclosure.

 

Personally, find it hot but know others are more squeamish.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Are you talking what is considered good form between two playmates in general, or something more formal like at a club playroom where the venue may have its own rules?

 

For the first, I think one should let a playmate know up front about anything that may catch them off guard or be something they might not be into...sort of an extension of the "ask first" policy when it comes to any type of physical contact.

 

For the club type situation, can't say I've ever really thought about that or seen anything along those lines, so not really sure there. Depending on the club, towels are often provided, and many swingers will take their "play bag" with them to the club that with personal supplies like lube, toys they like, etc. You could take one of those absorbent sex throws like the Liberator Fascinator in your bag and stay respectful of other patrons and the club by not leaving a mess behind for someone else to have to deal with.

[MarniJohn 172]

I agree with cplnuswing. Full disclosure is always appreciated. My husband loves it but I am not a fan of a girl showering me (I am being polite). I prefer to know so I can move away. Nothing like a surprise splash in the face...especially when I am playing next to, not with.

[a_d_xxx 663]

I've never played with anyone who didn't disclose that squirting was likely. At the very least, when they pull out the puppy pads, Liberator throw, or ask for copious towels, that's usually a clue.

 

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[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

My wife and I know more than one woman who carries absorbent pads in a cloth carry bag. The woman will lay a pad out on the bed before sex acts begin. At the swingers' club that is north of where we live, room attendants change the top sheet, bottom sheet on a bed every time they see people emerge from a play room; mattress pad, if necessary. At the club south and east of us, there are no volunteers who watch the rooms. We make a point of checking the bed sheets and mattress before using the bed. We sometimes detect moisture and go hunting for a different room or different bed.

[PSULioness 857]

OMG. Is squirting common? I never knew this happens. When I have sex I always get very wet and I can have orgasms but I never "squirted". I never heard of it. None of my friends ever talked about it. I never had a guy mention it to me. I've been told other things about how wet or things like that. Until recently I never saw others having sex. Of course I know what to expect when guys cum. I have now been with a few girlfriends. I only recently learned that this happens too.

[HornyToronto 51]

I replied to this question on another thread "Help me settle an argument"...

 

OK, I've stayed out of this for good reasons, I don't want to offend anyone or cause an uproar but here goes...squirting is urine! And there's nothing wrong with that! In an albeit small study out of France, this was determined to be the case. Check where the fluid is coming from...the urethra (urine). It is a well known fact that women can have some level of incontinence as they age. Orgasms will naturally increase the odds of "squirting" as control is lost. I am not trying to pass judgement here, only trying to clear up a misunderstanding. I know I will receive flack for this post and some will respond to the contrary, but I will go with the medical evidence available.

 

By the way, my first wife was a "squirter", and it didn't take long to determine what the fluid was and where it was coming from.

 

There's my opinion (for what it's worth).

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . It is a well known fact that women can have some level of incontinence as they age. Orgasms will naturally increase the odds of "squirting" as control is lost. . .

In this is the answer to your question, PSULioness. You are young and your friends are young. No surprise that you have never experienced or witnessed a "squirt".

[BuiltForSin 66]

We had a large place near us that held regular parties up until about a year ago. They had beds (rooms) that were off limits to squirters and rooms that were not - presumably those had some protection added to the mattresses.

[PSULioness 857]

In this is the answer to your question, PSULioness. You are young and your friends are young. No surprise that you have never experienced or witnessed a "squirt".

 

I thought there was something wrong with me. It looked like everyone on here "squirted" and I was missing something.

[HornyToronto 51]

PSULioness, nothing wrong with you whatsoever! In fact, non "squirters" are the norm. Nothing wrong with squirters, if that's what you're into. Personally, I'm not. I prefer the natural wetness of a woman when she gets excited. That REALLY turns my crank. In that case, the wetter the better! Sounds like you're one of those. Hot!

[3waypleasure 58]

non "squirters" are the norm.

Not sure I believe that. My experience, if a woman has been in the lifestyle for a while, chances are pretty good she has learned to squirt. Many women don't squirt until someone trains/teaches her to.

 

My wife was never a squirter until one night a guy at a swing club spent a lot of time directly stimulating her g-spot with his fingers. His entire intention was to make her to squirt. Many women after extended g-spot stimulation get the urge to push out or bear down. If they go with the urge, that is when the squirting happens. With my wife it becomes a completely uncontrollable urge at times.

 

With my wife, about the only time it happens is when someone uses his fingers and knows the right buttons to push. It usually doesn't happen on accident. For her it is quite rare to start squirting from intercourse, unless her g-spot has been played with extensively prior.

 

Her "holy grail" of orgasms is a clitoral orgasm at the same time her g-spot is being stimulated heavily, which can result in a flood.

[Erik13 157]

This happened to us the other night...the girl warned me I should get a towel and I said don't worry about it. Next thing the whole couch was soaked!!!

 

It was pretty awesome.