Attempting first threesome soon

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. My wife and I will be attempting to have our first threesome in the next few weeks. We met a nice respectful younger guy that is on board with what we're looking for. We met him through SLS and initially spoke on FaceTime. After speaking on FaceTime we then met twice at different restaurants. The third time we invited him over to see how things would go. We laid out the boundaries for him, he agreed, and we proceeded. It began with the he and wife holding and caressing each other. He then proceeded to remove her top and began sucking on her breasts. She had on a loose short skirt which allowed him to also finger her. Everything seems to be progressing fine until she got cold feet and we had to ask the young man to leave. He was very understanding and even apologized in case he did something wrong. After he left the wife and I spoke and she said that she preferred for her and I to begin and then for him to join. She says this was why she was panicked.

 

We ended up calling the young man while he was driving home to apologize and to take a temperature gauge on him. He was once again apologetic if he did anything wrong and was a perfect gentleman. To help us ease into the threesome my wife has had Skype sex with him a few times now and it has been incredibly hot. We role play about the threesome when the two of us have sex and she loves it.

 

We are now scheduled to meet with him again in 2 weeks. While I'm excited to try something new I've never been naked with an erection around another naked guy who will also have an erection. I'm feeling a little nervous about being naked and aroused in close proximity of another man. I'm not interested in seeing his erection but realize that if we're going to have a threesome I'm definitely going to see this thing. Lol

 

Is this normal or am I crazy? Lol. Please give me some advice. Thanks.

[Erik13 157]

Wow. The guy you found is very patient and understanding. Not many would hang in there like that. It's normal to be nervous about seeing his tool. Just relax and focus on her, and if you guys happen to touch each other by accident, don't panic! It happens.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi. Thanks for responding. Just realized how long my post actually was, sorry. Anything you would recommend that could help? I've read that guys lose erections and have all types of mishaps the first time. I don't want to be the one responsible for ruining a potential good time. Thanks.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

It's perfectly normal (in as much as having a threesome is 'normal'). It can be intimidating, to be watched and expected to be ready to preform, but until you are in the situation there's no telling how your body will react. If all else fails, there IS a pill for that, but more importantly, just try not to put the pressure on yourself; just enjoy the moment and roll with what is going on. Good luck and let us know how things go for you and your wife.

[EastInWest 1,524]

I have been taking Cialis for play, just as insurance. It's something I'd do recreationally anyway before a weekend at a resort, etc., and it does help. I don't think it was needed, though.

 

There are about 1,000 reasons you can tell yourself to be nervous, but if you've come this far, you're obviously having a good time exploring and probably don't need to be. Mrs. E freaked out about a new cock a little bit the first time, too. Half an hour later, she was over it.

[dan63 106]

For Mr OCCouple, unless you are just extremely homophobic seeing another cock really shouldn't cause a problem, and if you are that homophobic this probably isn't the right hobby for you. There is no way to catch "gay" from seeing or even touching another guys dick.

 

In addition to that, if you are concerned about "limp flagging" at some point during the experience, this is the one time when that really shouldn't be a problem. Work as a team with the other male to satisfy her. If you are a normal male after watching your wife get pleasured for a while you should be ready to get back in the game.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Lol. I'm not worried about catching "gay". I'm more stressed about the limp flag issue. Lol. I've read on a few posts that first time performance jitters can ruin a good time. Hopefully, it won't be an issue.

[padoc 1,703]

Don't think about it! Concentrate on giving her pleasure. Once your focus is on your wife, making out with her, slowly undressing her, arousing her, your dick will take care of itself. You'll be surprised at how erotic exposing her to someone else can be and how hot it is to have sex with your wife with another person or couple watching.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

No matter what may or may not happen, you always have your tongue...

[luvin eye full 140]

You will probably be ok with seeing his cock once you start - but some guys do get to that point and oh no you do not get hard. the reasons are many so just in case.

 

buy a cock ring ( rubber not metal yet)

Try it with your partner to make sure it fits and does some help, then if you do not rise as much or quickly to the event you know you have a plan B - that in it self may help knowing your going to be fine.

 

What i will say is make sure you have a word or something to stop if one of you needs to and do not be scared to use it, the, if it all goes to bad feelings for either one of you - because that is where more problems come from then not.

So make sure you both can stop if needed with no ramifications.

 

Good luck

[roro 15]

Let us know how things go.

[luv2was 117]

Indeed, it sounds like you found the perfect guy for this first adventure, and that y'all have been progressing in a very stable and well thought-out fashion. (Not to mention some good, clean FUN, which is what it is all about.) ;-)

 

Lots of good suggestions here, especially in making the event all about her. I am betting that if you keep the focus on your wife, everyone will cum away happy, regardless of how well you can perform at the moment (she already knows that you got what it takes under "normal" circumstances, so find security in that). Keep the mood light, laugh-off the potentially embarrassing moments (I agree, you cannot "catch gay", even with some incidental contact, especially in the heat of the moment), and always continue forward with HER pleasure.

 

Make her the Goddess that she already is, and I suspect that all will be right with the world.

 

:-D

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. We are planning on having our first threesome this Friday. The kids will be with the grandparents and we will be off the entire weekend. We decided to try it on Friday because if it's as much fun as we hope we plan on doing it again on Sat. Thanks for all the help so far. Another question for you. Are there any ice breaker games that we could play to get things going? Last time my wife started with the guy and she felt uncomfortable because she wanted me to be more involved. Any ideas ? Thanks.

[Alisa 17]

Wish you best of luck, waiting for story of your adventure.So far we have only gone to breast sucking, both sucking at the same time. It was great experience

[adamgunn 1,460]

Why don't you try truth or dare? It should work well with three people who already know why they're there.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Truth or dare is a good start, or just asking 'so how do we start this?'. Saves the time spent on truth or dare. Good luck and let us know how things go.

[Erik13 157]

My wife usually answers the door in lingerie when a guy comes over...that seems to get things going!

[Guest nakedal]

Hope you're having a great weekend! Will be good to learn from your experiences

[SASS 69]

I am sure My curiosity is shared. Would love to know how your weekend went. of course, I'm writing this on saturday afternoon when you could very well still be enjoying yourself...

 

I am looking forward to hearing whether you had a good time.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. So, a bit of a disappointment this past weekend. We had reached out to the younger guy to keep communication open. We made the plans for Friday evening with hopes that if Friday went well that we could invite him back for Saturday. Going back to three weeks ago he had been reaching out to us weekly. Whenever we would text him he would always reply back. Then about 2 weeks ago he told us that he was having problems with his cell phone and that he was waiting for an upgrade and that the cell was turning off. We would text him and he'd reply a few days later saying the cell was not holding a charge. When we last spoke to him which was last week we made plans to meet this Friday. Friday came and went and nothing. I honestly don't know what to think. This guy was very communicative with us from the very beginning. Whenever we would text him he always responded quickly and would always call us whenever we asked him to. We met him on 2 other occasions and even had him over once. The wife says that he's a young guy and that his cell probably died and maybe he doesn't have the money for a new cell. Any ideas or advice as to what may be going on?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

You’ll need to do nothing more than wait until his phone heals (or his attitude adjusts itself).

 

When my wife and I first started, many people flaked out on us. We were simply overeager and failed to see the signs. I believe this young man of yours is one of these flakes. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

[padoc 1,703]

You're not even close to getting the full story. Generally speaking, upgrades ship within a few days. Carriers LIKE to upgrade your phone. Plus, there are plenty of phone repair shops that can replace a battery or faulty power button for a relative pittance. My 1st thought was that he's married or had a girlfriend. Who knows? A bad phone is a bad excuse.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

I mentioned to my wife that he might be married or have a girlfriend. She doubts it because they've had Skype play dates in the evenings. Sometimes as late as 10-11pm. Also, whenever we'd text him he'd always respond right back. He said his cell was going bad and that he had to wait about another month for the free upgrade. The one time he went a week without communicating he said was due to the iPhone not turning on. Which , if you're an iPhone user , you know does happen. Once the phone allegedly turned on he said he received our messages and he sent us a bunch of texts back and he even left a voice mail. So, that's kinda why we're giving him the benefit of the doubt. We're both kinda disappointed. It took me A LOT of mental processing just to get to this point. Lol. He was even willing to get a room and stay the weekend ( not with us) when we were going to Pa a few weeks ago but then we cancelled the trip because we couldn't find a babysitter. I guess the question is "what do we do now?" Do we begin again? We met this young man during the summer and the first time he came over was right before school began in Sept. The crazy thing is that we've had at least 3 opportunities to play with another female but I've said no because I'm trying to fulfill my wife's fantasy of the younger guy. Thanks for all of your help so far.

[padoc 1,703]

We've been doing this for a long time and have heard nearly every excuse in the book for no shows so we may be a bit cynical. If your wife likes him and wants to give him the benefit of the doubt, what do you have to lose? On the other hand, you might want to at least begin the selection process again so that you have a Plan "B" in the works if he turns out to be a stiff (and not in a good way). Nothing says you have to put all your other options on ice while he has you two on hold.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. So here's the latest update. Our friend sent us numerous texts last night explaining how he had to return his iPhone and wait to get a new one. He says he was close to the upgrade period which is why it took 2 weeks. He also left us a voice mail. I'm not really sure what to think here. He's considerably younger than us and my wife says money is always a problem for people his age. Before he came over the first time we took a pic of his license plate and ran the plate. The car is registered to him and he is who he claims to be. It's always good to be safe. Lol. What should we do? Does any of this sound realistic to you guys? Thanks.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

We still like Padoc's answer above.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. It’s almost exaclty a year later and life has definitely gotten in the way. With all the snow and delayed school openings last winter we kept trying to set something up but schedules got hectic. So my wife and I decided to put it on holding for a while. This past Monday the lad sends us a text saying that he finally finished school, got a new job and will be available at our call. So we schedule for my wife to FaceTime with him last night and they had a great time. She modeled some sexy outfits for him and she was a total vixen. After they hung up I immediately checked her and she was soaking wet guys. She told me she’s was totally turned on by having a younger guy up tell her all the things he wants to do to her. We’re meeting him tonight for only a drink just to see how the wife feels about the entire thing in person. Any advice ? Also, I have a few short videos of theory chst last night that I can share if that would help. I’m not sure if that can be posted on here. Thanks.

[venusshaw 123]

Looks like he is gone. Try another one. Are you looking for DP or just vanilla threesome?

[OCCoupleCE 20]

We’re meeting him tonight for a drink to pick things up where we left them off. Any ideas or suggestions for tonight would be appreciated. Thanks.

[agreatguy 269]

Hi guys. It’s almost exaclty a year later and life has definitely gotten in the way. With all the snow and delayed school openings last winter we kept trying to set something up but schedules got hectic. So my wife and I decided to put it on holding for a while. This past Monday the lad sends us a text saying that he finally finished school, got a new job and will be available at our call. So we schedule for my wife to FaceTime with him last night and they had a great time. She modeled some sexy outfits for him and she was a total vixen. After they hung up I immediately checked her and she was soaking wet guys. She told me she’s was totally turned on by having a younger guy up tell her all the things he wants to do to her. We’re meeting him tonight for only a drink just to see how the wife feels about the entire thing in person. Any advice ? Also, I have a few short videos of theory chst last night that I can share if that would help. I’m not sure if that can be posted on here. Thanks.

 

Not sure how you would post the videos. I think they will be subject for approval before being released so if the mods don't like it they'll delete them. You might also be able to post links to an off site host but again that may be at mod discretion.

 

Advice? Stay in tune with your wife no matter what. Let her feel her way and don't push at all. Maybe even ask the guy to let the two of you have a little time to check in even if it's just over drinks. She needs to know that you have her back and are completely connected to her at all times. This meeting will be a good way to prove it. Pay attention to the guy. Is he giving you as much respect and attention he is giving her. He needs to. Make sure he understands his role but do that in a friendly, respectful way.

 

It's only a drink. Make sure it stays that way. Don't do anything more on adrenaline or emotion. This would be the one exception to letting her feel her way. If something happens and she wants to go further tonight I would recommend that you not let that happen. If she wants to kiss him in the parking lot or a little light teasing, touching, etc. it's probably OK but nothing more. Make sure you both understand that there will be another time and the anticipation will be awesome. Take her home and make love to her or fuck her like an animal, you should know what works best to make her feel that the two of you are connected.

 

Debrief after the meeting and find out what she is thinking. That may be on the ride home or it may take a day or two for her to process everything. You obviously know her best so let her go at her speed.

Report back.

[Judy39 145]

I think he had better offers, or he thought he did. But now he doesn't and is available again.

If you still like him, try again. But look for new people also.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

He’s almost 20 years younger than us.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. Latest update. Things seem to be moving along, finally. So we met him for drinks and he was on time, well dressed, very respectful and very complimentary towards my wife. My wife and I sat together and spoke to him about what we’re looking for and what his role would be and he agreed and was fine with everything. I had previously told my wife that if she felt comfortable to squeeze my leg and that I would excuse myself to go to the bathroom. This way I wouldn’t intimidate him and my wife and he could connect a little more. We left and walked to the car together and my wife was holding both our hands. They then exchanged a long sensual hug , he shook my hand and thanked me and left. We’re scheduled to meet him tomorrow night. Again, any ideas or suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks.

[agreatguy 269]

Sounds like it went well and you've found a decent guy, congratulations.

Not much more to suggest. Have fun and report back.

[Wornsilver 219]

Contrary to what we might think after listening/reading the "news," there are a lot of really nice guys out there. Finding them for a specific purpose can be tricky, but it looks like you accomplished it. Really appreciate your posts, he said vicariously.

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

OCCoupleCE, I see nerves from you, which is perfectly normal There's really not much to suggest at this point. If your wife is comfortable with everything, if you are comfortable (as comfortable as can be when a guy 20 years your junior is about to have sex with your wife!), and both of you are on the same page about all this, the guy in question seems good, then you're probably on the right track. It's hard for us to be in your shoes, but it seems like things are progressing well.

 

Good luck tonight! I hope it goes well! If you read this in time, don't worry about the flag flying or not! The worry about that can cause more problems than the situation itself. Just be yourself, relax, have a great time.

 

I would caution you; don't be alarmed if your wife absolutely loves it. It's ok that she does. That's the point, right? Don't be surprised if she makes sounds you haven't heard before, or moves in ways you haven't seen before. It doesn't mean her lover is better than you or anything even remotely like that. How people react to other people is different based on the person they're with. It's ok. My wife makes new sounds with every lover she has. It was very odd for me at first, but I've come to really enjoy it now.

 

I remember my first time watching my wife have sex with someone else. I was a bundle of nerves. It was a lot of fun, and she had a blast. Based on what I've read so far from you, I suspect that will be the case here too. Good luck! Let us know how it goes, and don't spare the keyboard

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. I know it’s been forever. We got rid of the guy we invited over. We can call him G for now. It turns out he was married with a family which explained all the flakiness when we were supposed to meet. I don’t want to reveal what I do for a living but I found his address, that he’s married , social media acct, everything. The thing is that when we met him we told him to be honest and that we didn’t care if he was married or not. This was just for the wife to have fun. While we were getting rid of G one of the guys who originally met but had moved away moved back. He sent us a text and asked if we were still looking. He was a very nice respectful young man and we told him we were still looking. The wife had a few play dates with him on Skype and we scheduled to meet. We met at a restaurant just to make sure we were all comfortable. It went well and we’ve scheduled for him to come over next weekend. Let’s see what happens. I’m kinda looking forward to it but at this point it’s been so long trying to put this together that I don’t really know how I feel. Should I even look forward to this ?

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

Should I even look forward to this ?

 

Yes. You'll be nervous, but yes. That of course is assuming everything is great with your relationship. As the old saying goes, swinging magnifies relationships. If the relationship is bad, it magnifies that. If it's good, it magnifies that.

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Update guys. The new lad, we’ll call K for now, has been texting all week and says he’s looking forward to tomorrow evening. So it looks as if this is happening. Any suggestions for how to get things started ? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.

[padoc 1,703]

Have your wife wear something like this to answer the door. Experience proves that things will move quickly from that.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Nice dress!

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Amazing dress. The wife is going to wear a tight cammy shirt with a thong and some boots. When K gets here she’ll greet him at the door first and bring him in. I think that should do the trick. We’re expecting him at 8pm. Wife is getting ready as I type. Should I update you guys as it gets closer to 8pm ?

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

Yep, go enjoy your evening! You can regale us with the story of the evening afterwards

[roro 15]

Hey OCCoupleCE, we are waiting for an update.

[Kkris 18]

Omg dude. That dress is awesome

[Numex 2,416]

... The crazy thing is that we've had at least 3 opportunities to play with another female but I've said no because I'm trying to fulfill my wife's fantasy of the younger guy. ..

My wife was the one who wanted us to move on to playing with women. You never know.

[Newb_Couple 28]

He hasn’t checked back in, so I’m wondering if it’s all just a line of baloney?

[OCCoupleCE 20]

Hi guys. So a few things have transpired. K has come over twice now. Both times my wife greeted him wearing a thong and a cammy. He shows up on time , dressed nicely , and is always very polite and respectful. Both times I could tell my wife was getting very excited while she got ready to meet her younger friend. I took a pic of her looking out the window waiting for him. I can share the pic if you guys want. We had some candles lit and soft music playing to set the mood. They began by slow dancing a little while he felt my wife’s ass and caressed her tits. I couldn’t believe it was finally happening. Then he slowly took her top down and began sucking on her tits. Her nipples were rock hard from the moment K walked in. While he was sucking on her tits he was playing with her pussy and squeezing her ass. Then she began reaching down to feel his cock. I was shocked. I couldn’t believe it. My beautiful wife was getting her tits sucked and pussy played with by a guy 20 years younger right in front of my eyes. I was so horny. Her moans filled the entire house. She looked like such a sexy little whore. She had done her makeup much heavier than usual so she looked

very slutty, her hair was up and she had a choker on, and now she’s got a younger cock in her hand. She began storming Kev’s hard cock through his boxer briefs EXACTLY the way she strokes mine. For a second I got jealous but then I realized we had been wanting to share this experience for a while now and it was finally coming true. Plus, I had a raging erection in my pants. Then she lowers his boxers briefs and now my heart is really racing. Now she’s very sexily stoking his bare cock with one hand while her other hand is on the back of his head while she’s feeding him her tits and moaning loudly like a slut whore. I watch her stroke him and I think to myself “why the fuck did you agree to this?” But my hardon reminds me why. Deep down I always wanted to see her handle a cock other than mine. I’ve always wanted to see how another guy would fuck my wife . Could another guy make her cum as hard as I do? Would she be the slut she is with me with another guy? Then he asks her to remove her thong. For a second I panic. She very sexily agrees and puts her hand on his shoulder to remove her thong. She hands them to me.

Getting the green light Kev proceeds to begin fingering my wife’s pussy. She puts one leg up on the sofa to give Kev better access to her pussy. I think to myself “what a beautiful sexy slut” She asks him “how many fingers do you have in baby?” He answers “two”. She looks at me as asks “is it ok if Kev puts a third finger in my pussy babe?” Of course I agree. Then I suggest she lay down on the sofa. She lays down with one leg up and Kev immediately buries his face in her pussy while fingering her. She’s got her left hand behind Kev’s head and she’s burying his face in her pussy. I move closer and hold her right leg up so my wife’s younger boytoy can better access her MILF pussy. This son of a bitch has 4 fingers buried deep in her pussy and is really slamming her cunt nice and hard while licking her clit. She’s moaning like a bitch in heat. Not being to resist any longer and sensing she’s close to cumming I begin sucking on her tits while Kev is eating and fingering her. Kev then turns to his side and begins jerking himself off. My wife cums loudly all over her boytoys face. His face looks like a glazed donut. Lucky bastard. He then cleans up my wife’s dripping pussy and gets dressed. That was the first time he came over. And...I have video of it !!!! It was a pretty good night.

[padoc 1,703]

Sounds as if it worked out well for the three of you. And yes, we LIKE pictures!!

[jeff111 44]

Move quickly Padoc?

 

I’d be thinking light speed with an outfit like that!