She's perfect - she asked me if I like to suck dick!

[TheBiggerMan 83]

I have been dating a new woman for about a month. Friday was our first time having sex. She was sucking my dick and she asked me what I like. I describe how I liked it.

 

She suddenly asked if I enjoyed sucking dick myself. I ask her if she likes to watch. She says more than watch. She told me she's bi and she loves bi men.

 

We have great sex the last two days. Tonight we are meeting her female friend. She has a gay man friend who is supposed to have my ideal penis.

[crazednymphos 38]

Good luck and hope you have a great time!

[Baconheads 432]

So how did it go?

[Numex 2,420]

She suddenly ask if I enjoyed sucking dick myself. Ask her if she likes to watch. She says more than watch.

 

At first for a moment, I thought she meant sucking his own dick.

[J&Wu 408]

At first for a moment, I thought she meant sucking his own dick.

Me too! I was never that flexible or perhaps innovative!

[Guest]

Sounds like your having fun.

 

My advice however is to be careful and to understand that:

 

1. Such women are easy to lose.

2. They are usually not just seeing you.

3. They generally have another 2 or 3 boyfriends they are already seeing.

4. That such things rarely end up been the perfect relationship.

 

 

I have met 2 or 3 women like this in my life, very sexually confident women, the types of women who really enjoy sex, really enjoy male company, give out fantastic fun sex, say there are MORE than happy to explore with other men or women, and sure when I was younger I use to get really excited about meeting those types of women, I would imagine that they wanted "ME" that they wanted some kind of fun highly sex relationship with me where we could fuck other people all we wanted, where we could fully explore the lifestyle together, where she wouldn't mind us inviting men or women into the mix, I imagined some exciting future for us.

 

BUT THEN.....

 

Usually within a few months you realise they DON'T actually "Want You" or some big relationship with you because they already have 2 or 3 other guys they have been having sex with for years. That actually every time she vanishes off all weekend, every time her phone rings and she says it was her sister or mother, well actually its usually NOT her sister or mother calling, its usually one of her other boyfriends wanting some kinky sex with her, that you might imagine this amazing fun exciting relationship, where to her your just another man she is fucking.

 

Well her gay friends feel comfy enough to get their penis out in front of her, so imagine how many straight guys are getting their penis out for her as well?

 

The other guys she is having sex with have generally been in her life a lot longer than you have, that some of these guys will be long term sex buddies, that she will have been seeing them several years, and getting such a women to throw all that away and to focus on a relaitonship with you is nearly impossible.

 

That you might imagine you have met the "Swinging Girl of Your Dreams" but actually she isn't YOUR GIRL, and probably wont ever be your girl on a proper level.

 

She is your fuck friend.... And Adam's fuck friends.... And James fuck friends.... And Robs fuck friend.

 

 

In my experience at least when a highly sexed women says to me that she loves fucking guys, that she really enjoys sex with other people, then usually if you read between the lines what they are usually saying is. "Hey I know I'm with you, but I'm acting all highly sexed and like I don't care about sex because I'm actually having sex with another 2 guys already and won't be letting them go, it doesn't matter if you like me, it doesn't really matter if we fell in love, those other guys are staying in my life if you like it or not, they are my fuck buddies not yours, but hey I have explained I like sex so me fucking as many guys as I like without you is okay then right?"

 

Her liking sex, her been interested in bi guys, her saying she has a gay friend who shows her his cock, translated into man speak is basically her saying:

 

"Your cock is NOT the only cock I'm having"

 

 

"I have various other partners not just you"

 

 

 

Well like stated I have met my share of highly sex open minded a women and soon learnt not to expect love and wedding bells at the end.

[ViSexual 1,008]

A good friend's wife was sharing a female friend of theirs. His wife is bi. The female friend, out of the blue, asked my friend if he ever thought of sucking a dick. He never had at that point. He thought for a moment and then told her he'd sure give it a try. A while later he and his wife met a couple that played with. That couple ended up divorced but my friend and his wife continued playing with the husband. That was my friend's first time with a man. His wife loved watching and he found he enjoyed it very much too.

[TheBiggerMan 83]

You nailed it.

[TheBiggerMan 83]

I was left out and only allowed to watch when we got together with her girlfriend. We never met the guy. She's been seeing both guys and women without me. I suppose she's not so perfect.

[Judy39 145]

A bit harsh but very true, Sun&Moon.

[TheBiggerMan 83]

She came by tonight with her gay friend. I like masculine men. After a minute with this guy, I wasn't interested. She must have sensed it because she said to him, "show him your penis". He did and I must say she listen to what I told her about what I like because this is exactly what I want. I took it in my mouth semi erect. Within a minute I had a raging hard-on in my mouth. She was very excited giving words of encouragement. At her suggestion we moved to the bedroom. I found myself kissing him is a little weird. But he was excited and wanted me to f*** him right there. That wasn't going to happen and I told him so. We continued sucking each other's dick. God he had a great penis. It ended in a 69. With me on bottom.. this is why I suck dick. It was the best feeling I ever had doing it. Afterwards he left and she stayed. She was excited. She had endless questions.

[dhcdc12 15]

She sounds good, I LIKE TO DICK YOU TOO.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Met a lot of different women who enjoy watching or participating in male/male sex. Some are as described, others are wives or long time gf of the other man. Had a few steady gf myself who were excited by mm sex. Some were great people, some not so much. I've learned to enjoy the company I that is there, to be a friend while trying not to be clingy, to not fall madly in love on the basis of a good BJ. So, good luck and have fun with this woman & her friends. & don't wait for the phone to ring from her. Get out & check out some swinger web sites, find some bars to hang out in, whatever...