Any men changed from straight to bi/curious since starting to swing?
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By TNNFORFUN
Hello everybody. Married MW couple for 18 years today. We have been out of the LS for 5 years but prior to that we where in the life style for about 10 years and had a great time. We are in our mid forties and going on the bliss cruise in November. This will be our first swinger cruise.
The question is, How is mm bisexual play seen in the LS community on this Cruise?
In our past experience it was always accepted FF bi play but MM was pretty frowned upon. My husband and I have had a couple MMF in the past and had a great time. We are hopping to find that again. There is something that I just love watching him get it from another guy and sharing the other guy orally together.
Any and all comments greatly appreciated and recommendations encouraged.
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By lott
I was reading an article where the person said that she witnessed a gangbang and felt it was very homoerotic and maybe the men had latent homosexual tendencies.
I don't feel that way, I just like to see a woman get pleased and get as sexual with a lot of men but I was wondering does anyone think what the writer of the article stated was true in a sense?.
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By Erotics
I'm as straight as an arrow and never even looked at another man in a sexual way. We play as a couple and have had regular 3somes (mfm) which she thoroughly enjoy. The focus is always on her, giving her pleasure and making sure she is having fun.
Recently we were in a 3some with this gent and while we were playing (foreplay) he asked me whether I have ever been touched by or touch another man myself. The answer was no.
He then dared me to touch him, which I then proceeded to do. Funny enough, it was not so weird as I thought it would be and although it felt strange, at the same time it felt familiar.
I then proceeded to keep his dick in my hand and point it towards her mouth while she was blowing him. He did the same with me while she was blowing me later.
Suddenly it was not strange anymore and I even guided his cock into her pussy later on. It all felt so natural in the situation. Fun was had by all 3 of us and it did not gross me out or even the wife.
We (me and wife) had a discussion afterwards and she said she found it actually very kinky and she would like to see me in a male-male experience. Ever since it has been playing in my head and I don't know what to think.
Touching is one thing, but actually going down on someone is something totally different (or is it not?)
Although I still don't look at men in a sexual way, I found myself thinking about this a lot. A part of me says don't do it, you don't find men sexually attractive, but a part of my tell me to not to knock it and try it at least once and then make up my mind.
The wife said that she became bisexual by also experimenting and only later become attracted to females as she became accustomed to the situation.
Do you think I should proceed and experiment?
I don't think I have the guts to take a cock in my mouth and suck it, but a part of me tells me I have the guts and should go ahead. I know it would be big visual turn-on for the wife and I would do anything to turn her on...just not sure about sucking a cock to turn her on. LOL
To be honest, I'm very nervous.
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By openmindedcpl
Swingers are open minded about sex. It is about excitement, thrill, new experiences, and fun. A given. Among women, a lot of wives are bi and enjoy dick and pussy too.
Here comes that question, a spin-off of Tia Vampire's thread. You, your bi wife, and her bi female friend go to a nude beach. The girls began to play around and soon are masturbating each other, disregarding the dozen who pass by, some stopping to watch before walking on. You're half hard watching. A guy stops to watch the show the girls are putting on. He starts to get hard and after a few minutes you recognize you are getting a little too turned on and you decide to go for a walk up the beach to cool off. The guy stays to watch but a minute later walks on too. He soon catches up to you and you walk and talk till out of sight of anyone. You eventually stop and sit down on the sand to rest and the conversation has been about the girl/girl play your wife and friend were having and both of you, as guys do thinking about such things, start to get hard. Your conversation has made both of you really horny and both of you begin to occasionally stroke yourselves. The conversation evolves to the fact women can enjoy the fun of a dick AND pussy while the guy only gets pussy. You say that by simple math, guys are missing half the sex compared to girls. There is no fear your wife enjoying another woman's hot wet pussy, as you do, would make her or you think of her as a lesbian. Yet guys come with the mentality that any m/m contact is gay, without merit.
You are both horny, slowly jacking yourselves off while talking. (I am writing this thread so it is mandatory that you magically know he is of no threat, and he is clean and STD free.) You are enjoying his company and conversation. He suddenly stands up and before you can react, steps forward and his dick is in your face. He puts his hand softly on your head and when you open your mouth to ask him....he slips his dick in your mouth. Your instinct is to pull away, but his hand is gently encouraging you not to, not forcing you. There is no one to see, you will never see him again, no one will ever know. His dick is already in your mouth. It is what a dick is, firm, fleshy soft and warm. Not an unpleasant sensation, and a first new something you have experienced since the first time you ate pussy.
Would you, as an open-minded swinger who likes that his wife is bi ...
1. Be angry
2. Pull away and say I'm not into that.
3. Let it continue.
4. If you enjoyed the experience, think you would do it again sometime.
5. Think 'Done That' and not do bi again.
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