MixxedCpl360 29 Posted October 23, 2017 A couple of months ago after taking several months off from the lifestyle due to some personal issues we decided to head back to a club for some much needed fun. But this time we weren't alone. We had been communicating with a couple we met online several months ago who said they had some experience in the lifestyle. We still consider ourselves rookies. We seem to click with them through texts and the guy was clearly hot for my wife. Hell the wife was hot for my wife as well. We all exchanged nekkid pics and we all enjoyed the fun. We eventually met them at a lifestyle club close to all of us and things between us continued where we left off through text messages. No awkwardness at all. At the club the sexy times flowed and the girls were really into each other all over the dance floor. One thing led to another and we all agreed to play but mostly girl/girl and possibly some soft swap. It would have been our very first time with a couple after a couple of times of soft play with a female friend of ours. But before we could play the couple got into a fight (sudden and for unknown reasons) right in front of us and the sexy mood vanished! After several uncomfortable minutes of this the wife and I decided there was too much drama with them, said our goodbyes and we split to go home to scratch the little lady's massive itch. We haven't been in the lifestyle very long but we are experienced enough to know you don't argue in front of a potential play couple. That is a mood killer no doubt. We have yet to burst out "swinger" cherry (actually playing with another couple) and wifey kept apologizing to me for the other couple's issues. While it is a little frustrating I wasn't expecting to play with them anyway despite the sexual chemistry building over those past few weeks. Despite their theatrics we had fun as the atmosphere at the club was very charged and my wife was into the scene and women (and one lucky guy who had my permission to "dance" with her). She was hot to trot and didn't hold back. Wished the night could have ended better. Oh well, whatchya gonna do? 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,879 Posted October 23, 2017 Stuff happens. Your couple functioned well. Move forward and try again. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Baconheads 432 Posted October 23, 2017 You pay your money at the door and you takes your chances... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted October 23, 2017 Just because another couple has been 'doing this' longer, doesn't mean they aren't carrying baggage to the party. Keep looking, there's a perfect couple for you out there. Good luck and keep looking. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
MixxedCpl360 29 Posted October 24, 2017 Hey all thanks for the responses. The whole thong was a learning experience but the funny thing is how I noticed our reaction/interaction this time around. We have only been involved with the lifestyle for about a year and only been to clubs three times but there clearly has been a change in us. First time there we were a little uncomfortable, sat in corners waiting to be "attacked" and didn't know anyone. Now I can easily spot the newbies, have no problem approaching and talking to attractive women (but none more attractive than my wife), not worried about other guys "disrespecting" me (i.e. flirting w/my wife in front of me) and not embarrassed to get raunchy in front of others. We are definitely having fun now. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
MixxedCpl360 29 Posted October 24, 2017 I meant the whole thing. But I'm sure you could learn a thing or two from thongs 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
