Kissing...on the neck after sex

[onefuncpl 22]

So my husband and I were with a couple for a second time and had a good time. The wife encouraged the husband to ‘finish’ me off and he proceeded to do that...it was great. He came and then he kissed me on the neck. It threw me a bit because no one ever did that before. We connected on social media and likes most of my posts, but should I be concerned that he 'likes' me???? If you know what I mean.

[J&Wu 408]

So my husband and I were with a couple for a second time and had a good time. The wife encouraged the husband to ‘finish’ me off and he proceeded to do that...it was great. He came and then he kissed me on the neck. It threw me a bit because no one ever did that before. We connected on social media and likes most of my posts, but should I be concerned that he ‘likes ‘ me???? If you know what I mean.

I've done a "Thank You" kiss on the forehead after cumming, I'm too tall to reach the neck while in missionary. I wouldn't be fucking someone I did not like but the kiss is more in appreciation for her sharing herself. However all bets are uncertain with longer lasting social contact, you all four sharing the same social media?

[ViSexual 1,008]

Oh, I absolutely agree with J&Wu. A thank-you kiss is a compliment and should be taken as one.

[Shore2Please 612]

I don't understand the kiss thing and why people are against it. To me kissing is so much a part of any sex I have. If I am going to be intimate with someone I want the kissing and foreplay that goes with the act. I don't how I would react if the only kiss I got was a thank you kiss. Why is kissing too intimate but oral sex isn't?

[EastInWest 1,524]

We both kiss deeply with the couple we play with, non-issue for us. Mrs. E likes to be kissed and touched and it isn't that personal for her.

 

The social media with a couple you're playing with strikes me as more of a grey area. If you don't know the people involved very, very well, I'd be concerned about someone getting weird. Some people tend to spill too much on Facebook after a few glasses of wine. For that reason, I won't even add coworkers on social media for fear of getting in the middle of something between people from two different parts of my life.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

 

Kissing really isn't that big of a thing, but being connected on social media is a little too close to home. We have a rule that there is no M/F cross contact. It keeps the Ms. 'safe' and removed and doesn't allow the chance of drama happening...what if he WANTS to start something with the Ms. (doesn't matter of she is interested or not). being connected on social media gives him the chance to 'say' things that can 'out' her as a swinger. Just not a good idea.

[onefuncpl 22]

Thanks. Great advice on the social media. I did unfriend him but all of us can communicate on text in a group text would be much better I would think. As for the kissing, I’m not a big kisser with my husband ?. He lives to kiss, me not so much....no I don’t why it just isn’t.

[onefuncpl 22]

Love this board!!

[Erik13 157]

I don't understand the kiss thing and why people are against it. To me kissing is so much a part of any sex I have. If I am going to be intimate with someone I want the kissing and foreplay that goes with the act. I don't how I would react if the only kiss I got was a thank you kiss. Why is kissing too intimate but oral sex isn't?

 

I agree. We could never be with a couple that had a no kissing rule.

[Markjorge1 59]

I agree. Kissing is a huge part of playing and sex. At first I felt there should be no kissing but as my wife explained to me she loves to kiss and lick and if I told her no kissing it would take away a lot of enjoyment of swimging. The more I thought about it the more I agreed. Like she said to me, “you are okay if I suck a strangers dick and swallow but I can not kiss him!” I had the lightbulb moment. I love to kiss as well!

[Scaredstiff 129]

When me and my wife were chatting about the no kissing rule I said to her "I don't have a massive cock, I don't have a ripped body, one of the things I'm good at is kissing , by ruling out kissing you are actually crippling my chances of getting anywhere in this lifestyle" she said ok then go for it haha

[Guest]

Hey, if I’m going to suck and fuck a guy, I’m certainly going to “make-out” a bit on the way. Heck, if he isn’t good at that, we may never get to S&F stages. If he is such that you don’t want to kiss him or him to kiss you, you probably shouldn’t be there.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

So my husband and I were with a couple for a second time and had a good time. The wife encouraged the husband to ‘finish’ me off and he proceeded to do that...it was great. He came and then he kissed me on the neck. It threw me a bit because no one ever did that before. We connected on social media and likes most of my posts, but should I be concerned that he ‘likes ‘ me???? If you know what I mean.

 

I think you need to tell your husband how much you like being kissed on the neck.

[TwoFunTexans 103]

I think you need to tell your husband how much you like being kissed on the neck.

 

This literally made me Lol!!!

 

I've kissed women before during and after sex. If they don't want to kiss my dick probably isn't going to get hard because I'm going to interpret that as they don't like me. Also I trust my wife and she trusts me so we don't really have rules anymore other than making sure the other person is having fun and we avoid others who don't live by that. We have Facebook friends of people we just met. Who cares? As long as you two trust each other that's all that matters.

[Jo4079 23]

I love kissing also . But my wife is not a big kisser either . I think kissing is so hot