Separate room sex - have you?

[Arcana 23]

Hi,

 

Which of you has had sex in separate rooms? Did you like it?

[ViSexual 1,008]

My wife, actually, preferred it. I think she wasn't able to really let go and enjoy herself if she knew I was looking and she never liked seeing me with another woman.

[Guest]

We have done both. There are advantages to each. Did same room swaps several time before trying different rooms. I like the security of having him nearby and I enjoy putting on a show for him when it's same room. But, I get more into my new partner when I’m in a separate room, become more of a nasty girl and more verbally expressive.

[Shore2Please 610]

We started in separate rooms and I still enjoy it more. Having sex in front of my husband was a completely different experience. I was way more nervous and my partner acted way differently. I didn't care to watch my husband that day. Since then I understand same room is more the norm

[ErikaAndPeter 104]

In the beginning, my husband would at least start out in the room. As we have evolved in the lifestyle, however, I find now that I enjoy the intimacy of being alone with my partner. We then need to worry only about each other's reactions and responses during sex, rather than those of my husband as a spectator.

[adamgunn 1,460]

One of my favorite things was a couple that had a blowup mattress in their bedroom, significantly below the level of the bed. We could play, hear the sounds of the SOs, but since we couldn't see them without some effort we weren't distracted. It worked very well for the four of us.

[EastInWest 1,524]

One of my favorite things was a couple that had a blowup mattress in their bedroom, significantly below the level of the bed. We could play, hear the sounds of the SOs, but since we couldn't see them without some effort we weren't distracted. It worked very well for the four of us.

 

This is a cool idea at home. Separate beds in a hotel room works out, too: you can often get two queen-size beds for the same price as a king. Being physically separated but still able to see is exciting.

[couplers 4,614]

We all enjoy both in different ways. More to enjoy.

[TwoFunTexans 103]

I (Mr) prefer separate rooms. It's way less distracting for all the way around. If that is off the table I prefer separate beds for the same reason. I'm coming to the realization that unless I'm with someone I've already been with the same bed situation is just too distracting for me unless I've been making out with the other woman for a while prior.

[couplers 4,614]

Not mentioned here is starting out one way, same room or even same bed, then switching to separate rooms. It's nice to have some four way (or greater) play then break off to concentrate on one person.

 

 

Also not mentioned is something that we found out early on - playing alone cuts down on the scheduling hassles. If two want and can get together, why not?

[Eddiem 139]

We only do it in the same room. Some friends split up but I enjoy the show usually.

[Numex 2,409]

Hi,

 

Which of you has had sex in separate rooms? Did you like it?

 

Like many of the others here, we do it and enjoy it both ways.

 

No one, however, has mentioned the dimension of playing alone. The couples that we play with have no problem with our spouses getting a quick one when possible. Especially when one spouse is traveling or otherwise tied up with work the freedom to seek out a play partner (or play couple) for sex is naughty and nice.

[LaidBackFun 36]

We have done both … my wife prefers separate rooms while I really don't care but I find it a real turn on watching her getting pounded by another guy.

[Funlatincouple 44]

Same room for us, no doubt. Our biggest turn on is watching each other play. Twice for small periods of time, upon request we separated. Long term relationship with this couple, so we’re happy to engage their wishes. While still fun, afterwards we both agreed watching each other is #1.

[couplers 4,614]

... I find it a real turn on watching her getting pounded by another guy.

As a bisexual woman, it is double for me when my husband and a woman who I love are enjoying themselves together. There is both a clinical side of studying what they are doing and how they respond, and an emotional aspect that sometimes overwhelms me. They say it makes me a better sex partner. (I believe it.)

[Sophy 569]

We have done both, we prefer same room and group play, but I have had very satisfactory experiences in separate rooms. Also, separate rooms are great to help nervous guys with performance issues.

We went once to another couple's house and we started playing together but then we decided to split into different rooms (at least initially). I had a very good round with him and we decided to check on them but they were not done yet, so he decided to show me around their house in the meantime. We arrive to a room where they have a pool table. I mentioned to him how awesome was the fact they have a pool table in the house. By that time several minutes had passed and I noticed he was ready for a second round. We both were almost naked so he kissed my neck from behind and asked me: "do you want to do it here on the pool table?" I agreed and he had me there on the table as per his request. That was the only time I had sex on a pool table and since then we both, my husband and I, we cannot see a pool table without thinking on that night.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Hi,

 

Which of you has had sex in separate rooms? Did you like it?

 

Did it. Liked it. Will probably do it again.

 

It's a different experience when you are playing without being watched.

[couplers 4,614]

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It's a different experience when you are playing without being watched.

That's why I tell him to close his eyes sometimes while we do it.

[JessicaJamison 861]

Love it and actually prefer it, I can perform when I need to, but I prefer not having to think about what I look like or say in the heat of the moment.  I like knowing my husband is having his fun while I enjoy another woman's man.  

[Playman64 205]

For us it was all depending on the place & atmosphere, I would really enjoy watching Kim being switched from one guy to another at house parties, most times they would go to a backroom or sometimes they would use the open bed in the main room.  For me it totally depended on the woman if she want to go to a separate room in the back or the main room.  

[Anon321 521]

We have and I prefer separate rooms in a swap.

[NWAtlSwing 522]

Done both and fine with both. We like to have fun.