Music on or off during sex?

[1XcellentXtra4U 29]

I'm not against it but I don't intentionally play music while bonking.

Thoughts or opinions?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Music engages my mind almost completely which makes it a distraction while having sex. My wife feels differently. She likes music that has a lively beat while having sex. When it becomes a choice between here preference and mine, I concede to her preference.

[couplers 4,654]

Music engages my mind almost completely which makes it a distraction while having sex.

 

Me too exactly. The others don't seem to care either way.

[Jane1902 476]

I enjoy music with sex, can be fun to pick out a playlist. Somtimes I'll ask potential partners what is their sex soundtrack. I also prefer my neighbors hear music instead of me.

[1XcellentXtra4U 29]

I don't care but on two occasions my co-conspirator took a time out to put music on. One of them played Chicago and it's Peter Cetera Chicago so.... Yeah

She's getting more and more turned on signing this corny shit which made make out dry humping maybe the best I've ever had. The other time I was asked to put some music on. of course I did not mind and also didn't want to get into a back n fourth about it because of age difference between the two of us. I know I'll like what she likes but will she like my stuff essentially... but I did not want to get into a back-and-forth conversation about it. LOL... I knew what was best for us her telling me what to play not because I'm a chauvinist. Anyway I just fired up my music collection went with random play all and hope for the best, I got it. It was Jay-Z Give It To Me. It blew my mind but it made this woman in her late forties get mad horny. By the way this happened in 2002. If the context mean something to you

[JandKinBoise 858]

Having hard rock and metal playing, along with some weed, helps complete the escape. Sex becomes a fully separate experience, away from the fact that granny is slamming cupboard doors in the kitchen.

This behavior flowed into our group activities. No one ever complained about her selection of music, although I think it was out of 'kindness'.

[angelkin 1,326]

Music on. Some good erotica or hard rock. Yes please.

[1XcellentXtra4U 29]

Just tried listening to whales and ocean sounds while jacking off. I tried also rain forest sounds and Jon Tesh Wales were the best but going to keep looking

[PeterJ 954]

Music engages my mind almost completely which makes it a distraction while having sex.

 

My wife has for more than 40 years been a choral singer. She is so deeply engaged by music that she is adamant that it not be played in the car if she is driving. On the sexual side, she reaches orgasm quite easily, but still finds music distracting during sex.

[adamgunn 1,460]

With my partner, I'll usually put on romantic music or lite jazz. It's what we want. (Yeah, we're old.)

 

In a foursome, I'll often put on my playlist of rock hits from the 60s and 70s.

[PSULioness 857]

My first sexual experience was to music blasting in my then boyfriends house. Justin Timberlake. I have had memorable times with music playing.

[Wornsilver 219]

My wife has for more than 40 years been a choral singer. She is so deeply engaged by music that she is adamant that it not be played in the car if she is driving. On the sexual side, she reaches orgasm quite easily, but still finds music distracting during sex.

 

I totally understand. I can't "study" or concentrate on much else if music I like is playing, and that includes sex. Oh, maybe an occasional Ravel's "Bolero." lol

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Former musician here: I cannot have music playing if I am trying to do ANYTHING else (especially sex). I end up listening too hard to the music to be able to do a good job with anything else.

[cplnluv1 872]

We usually leave it to the others. We have been with couples where the music is on and after things get started I didn't realize music was on. If things go well you will be oblivious to the music and you will be making your own music.

[asncpl 729]

I get distracted by music with lyrics, so I prefer a bit of electronica or lounge, something relaxing but not so much that I fall asleep.

[ErikaAndPeter 104]

I usually want the sounds of sex to be the only music filling the room.

[HornyToronto 51]

We usually put music on low when in a hotel room, to cover up the sounds of sex from those who might be in the halls. Low volume so we can still hear the sex sounds ourselves. The wife likes to talk dirty and I love to hear it!

[TricianMike 775]

We have met couples who like pounding music. It gives me a headache. Blues and jazz that is soft is sexy.

[Guest]

I’m just there for the sex, the music or the color of the walls are comparatively unimportant. Lots and lots of other things come way before this.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I'm not against it but I don't intentionally play music while bonking.

Thoughts or opinions?

 

I don't put music on to fuck by. If it was no music in the bedroom when we started there was no music. We've played by the sound of the tv in the other room.