Hosting a party and swinging yourself

[goodtimes4us 20]

We love to throw house parties and have a great turnout (last weekend was almost 60 people) but our problem is we usually don't end up playing with anyone because we're too busy hosting or mingling with everyone. We always want to play but it just seems it doesn't happen very much when we host. What are some ideas or things we can do to be able to play and host? Is it rude to just take off for a while and play? What do others do?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

The man and woman near us who host parties of this size have recruited some trusted friends to help with the supervision of activities. It is typically later than the time that everybody else plays but they do get their own playtime.

[goodtimes4us 20]

The man and woman near us who host parties of this size have recruited some trusted friends to help with the supervision of activities. It is typically later than the time that everybody else plays but they do get their own playtime.

 

That is a good idea. I'm sure we could find someone to help us out in that area.

[kikonkrome 844]

Or friends that host declare a no more working at midnight. They are looking for serious play. And yeah other people mind the store while they do.

[dan63 106]

The house party we attend has a couple of hired security people that the couple knows. They are more like motorcycle types than Barney Fife, but they are there just to make sure nothing gets out of hand. Only thing I have ever really seen them do is escourt out a couple that got Methed up after they arrived at the party. No room for that shit..

[Brimba 30]

We love to throw house parties and have a great turnout (last weekend was almost 60 people) but our problem is we usually don't end up playing with anyone because we're too busy hosting or mingling with everyone. We always want to play but it just seems it doesn't happen very much when we host. What are some ideas or things we can do to be able to play and host? Is it rude to just take off for a while and play? What do others do?

 

I am not sure if that is your problem. In the past I too hosted parties and like you I too had some people (if not more.) The thing is that I and my former girlfriend (now deceased) had plenty of sexual fun with others while, yes, hosting at the same time.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

We want to come to one of your parties. The 'problem' with being a swinger and wanting to host is that we like to make sure that everyone else has a good time. As Kikon suggested, just declare that midnight is when the 'hosting' ends and the fun begins!